Nobody Special's Wife

[KillerMuffin]

I've done a bit of thinking about why I was so incredibly upset when you abruptly went off the deep-end the other night. As much as I've said that it was because you attacked Mistress, someone I've considered a friend for well over a year, and *bratcat,* who is trying to turn her life around here, it really wasn't only about that. I am, unfortunately, never that altruistic.

For some reason, when you went off, I felt betrayed and it took me a while to realize it and to realize why. Particularly since I have no right whatsoever to feel this way.

You've always been some kind of paragon to me. Your spelling and grammar is vastly irritating, but it's the least important part of what you've been on this board to me. You've been the anti-KM, in my mind. And this is completely unfair to you. There is no such thing as the anti-KM. Until recently you've been the nicest person I've known. Your track record on this board has been as a good and friendly person. No matter how many times people attacked you, you never got personal when you went back at them in a mean way. You were the one person on this board who has never personally attacked another registered poster publicly. I've never heard rumors of you doing so in private either.

Of course, you're not a paragon and you're not made for a pedestal. You are, above all things, a human being.

I owe you a very big apology for the disservice that I did to you. Whether or not I was protecting a friend or helping out another poster by taking the heat and controversy is completely unimportant. I had no right and no call to think that you had betrayed me or this board by behaving however you choose to. You did no such thing. I am sorry.

 

[MissTaken]

KM,
I have always respected you for your forthrightness and clarity as well as your wit and intelligence.

I now must add humility to that list. A wonderfully honest post and I am bumping it to help make sure NSW sees it when she arrives.

Take care,
Miss T

 

[sexy-girl]

ok i know its probably not my place to reply to this thread but i just wanted to say that was a very dear and heart felt post KM and i know i probably dont need to say this but if people choose to reply to this thread people should keep it as KM's thread and dont bring up old arguements

 

[cymbidia]

This, my friends, is why i love Muff.

She's a real woman, with a heart that beats, a brain that thinks, and an astounding ability to be open and vunerable at the same time she's exhibiting immense strength and character.





I'm proud of you Muff.

 

[Mistress]

This, my friends, is why i love Muff.

She's a real woman, with a heart that beats, a brain that thinks, and an astounding ability to be open and vunerable at the same time she's exhibiting immense strength and character.





I'm proud of you Muff.

I agree

What most people don't realize about KM, is that even if she is your friend if you do something stupid she's one of the first to let you know. I have had plenty of KM bitches about stupid stuff.
Good post.

 

[Simply Divine]

I've read km's stories and posts... I know I'm a newbie but km is truly worth keeping!

 

[*bratcat*]

 

[KillerMuffin]

Okay, guys, thanks and all that, but this isn't a "yay, KM" thread. This is a thread about apologizing to someone and that's all it is. The atta girls make me a little uncomfortable here, almost as much as the apology itself did. If you're supportive of the idea, please just bump the thread until it's seen by the intended recipient, or add comments to her. This isn't about me at all and I'd rather keep it that way.

Thanks for understanding.

 

[Sabineteas]

Oh great!

I love this KM, because it is one of the first times I've seen an apology here. It takes a lot to apologize and I admire your ability to do so.

Thanks for being thoughtful and human.

 

[*bratcat*]

 

[JazzManJim]

<bumpity bumpity bump>

I'm just too impressed, by the poster and about the person to whom it was posted.

 

[freakygirl]

NSW

I'm posting this here.. as I know you will read it.

Thank you for responding to my pm. And an even bigger thank you for forgiving my wrong doings.

Have a nice day!

 

[sch00lteacher]

Out fucking standing. I always have loved that pink gun.

And I always knew she'd never shoot anyone with it, unless they really fucked with her.

 

[Nobody Special's wife]

~HUGS KILLERMUFFIN~

How to start I want to explain why I did what I did but it hard to do ..I had my reason why I attacked Mistress .. I was never after bratcat and she did see that ..Thank god she can read in between my words.

Of course I was never after the whole board either it kinda went out that way . but then I think my brain is faster than my hands.

So I'm takeing my time with this post.

KillerMuffin I was never intending going after you.. Why You are more better at words than I.. But I'm more and happy to forgive and forget..

I'm haveing a brain fart right now and I lost my train of thought I will be back to post what else I was going to say

 

[Nobody Special's wife]

Wow so that is what that pm box is for

Who knew! I hardly ever get pms ..I guess there is a first for everthing

 

[Nobody Special's wife]

Right when I knew what I was going to say.......a Blonde moment happens ~sigh~ Ok I will be back in a few if I can remeber what I was going to say