No Takers???

[skygazer]

Aren't there any women out there who enjoy erotic chat? I've posted on here everyday for a week and have only made one connection. I'm so bummed...Is anybody out there???

 

[BiCutie83]

I'm here I enjoy it.

 

[pleaz_me]

Inserting my suggestion and opinion here -----> Sometimes it takes a bit to get to know people around here. Not everyone is comfortable with just starting up erotic conversations with people they know nothing about. Take a bit of time, post on different threads and get to know people. You'll find much better conversation when you know someone better

 

[skygazer]

Thanks for the reply pleaz me. I appreciate the suggestion. By the way; How YOU doin LOL

 

[pleaz_me]

Thanks for the reply pleaz me. I appreciate the suggestion. By the way; How YOU doin LOL

I'm doing well working though and about to run out for errands. Perhaps we'll cross paths soon

 

[skygazer]

Nothing would pleaz me more

 

[skygazer]

Making some headway

I'm happy to report, that some responses are begining to come in at last. Lets keep sending those cards and letters...

 

[skygazer]

Back to square one ???

Well, it looked promising for a couple of days, unfortunately all of those promising contacts just sort of dropped out of sight. I guess maybe things slow down here during the weekends. Hopefully, now that the weekend is over everyone will be returning to check their PMs. Ladies I remain optimistic, and as usual at your beckon call.....TTFN

 

[skygazer]

Hopefully the moderator will give these guys the boot.

 

[Cathleen]

Well, it looked promising for a couple of days, unfortunately all of those promising contacts just sort of dropped out of sight. I guess maybe things slow down here during the weekends. Hopefully, now that the weekend is over everyone will be returning to check their PMs. Ladies I remain optimistic, and as usual at your beckon call.....TTFN

Get out and post skygazer, don't wait for people to come to you... go make friends, there's so many good people here you'll miss out if you don't look around all the different forums. Have fun making friends.

 

[Jenny_Jackson]

I always put it this way. An ad that says, "Woman for Cyber" will get no response. Why? For the same reason it won't get you anything in your local pick up bar. Think about it.

You walk into Paddy's Pub, stand up on the bar and scream at the women, "Hey! Come here and fuck me!" You end up eating pavement in about two seconds. On the other hand, you go into the same pub for a while, mingle, get to know the ladies in there and pretty soon you score.

Lit ain't no damn different. Get a clue, dude.

JJ

 

[Cathleen]

I always put it this way. An ad that says, "Woman for Cyber" will get no response. Why? For the same reason it won't get you anything in your local pick up bar. Think about it.

You walk into Paddy's Pub, stand up on the bar and scream at the women, "Hey! Come here and fuck me!" You end up eating pavement in about two seconds. On the other hand, you go into the same pub for a while, mingle, get to know the ladies in there and pretty soon you score.

Lit ain't no damn different. Get a clue, dude.

JJ

Hey Jenny, come here and ...!

 

[Jenny_Jackson]

Hey Jenny, come here and ...!

Hiy Cathleen, love. See? I already know you though

 

[skygazer]

Cathleen,thanks for the suggestion I really appreciate it. Jenny,while your point is well taken... My thought is that if you don't ask for what your looking for, you'll never get it. While some women may be put off by the direct approach, others appreciate it, and those are the ones I want to talk to . Let's face it, Literotica is not one of those cutsy sites like Harmony.com. The people who come to, and use this site are more in touch with there sexuality and have come here to express that part of their persona.... Hell, that's why I'm here. If this were one of those meet the love of your life websites, I'd never think of posting for cybersex...But since this is a site where people are more open about topics and discussions of a more sexual nature, I prefer to let everyone know why I'm here. So Jenny I appreciate your opinion and wish to give creedence to it, However I think the concensus at the end of the day will lean toward the honest approach. By the way, I mean no offense to those fortunate individuals who have met the loves of their lives on Literotica, its just not why I,m here, So thanks to all who have managed to endure yet another one of my tirades. I am quite finished now

 

[yourbabydoll]

There's a chatroom....

Skygazer if it's cyber you're looking for there's a chat room on lit. Maybe you should try your luck there. I bet you'd find what you're after.

 

[skygazer]

Thank you babydoll for your suggestion. But its to crowded in there and privacy is non existant. I much prefer talking one on one with yahoo messenger. Thanks again...