So I agreed to do no-shave November with a group of my buddies well prior to Nov 1. I also ended up meeting a girl on that day and subsequently arranged to have dinner with her, is it ok to just give her a heads up as to why I'm going to look a little, well, "rugged" on the first date on account of no-shave november and expect her to understand, or is this one of those situations where I should just be shaving it off?