no means....?

[seXieleXie]

when you say no do you mean it or are you just being coy?

when someone says no to you, do you accept it?
when you hear no do you have to know why?

tell me. i need to know about no.

 

[Lasz]

when I think about doing something it takes me a while to decide to do it. But once I decide to do it I don't take "no" for an answer. This only goes with important decsioins that take me days to think about. With simple decsions that come up I take no for EXACTLY what it means. It means... NO!!!

Laz

 

[Mellon Collie]

When someone says no to me...

It means to ask a little bit more nicely.

 

[JazzManJim]

when someone says no to you, do you accept it?
when you hear no do you have to know why?

Aside from the foreplay games of lovemaking, no absolutely means no. There just no question for me in that. It just has to be that way to make sure that both she and I are safe in what we're doing, even if it might not seem that way at times.

I mean, I'm one of them BDSM folks and I can play a bit rough, and I expect the a partnet of mine would have to enjoy that at times, too. But there's a point when it's not loveplay and it means no.

Make sense?

 

[Ice Cold]

For me I take a simple rule...

If she says no once ... it means maybe.

If she says it twice ... stop. No reasons needed no questions asked.

 

[cymbidia]

lexie, darlin'?
Do you need a back rub?
Are you feeling kinda out of sorts over something?

When i say no, i mean it. Usually. Ummm, well, often anyway.

When others say no, i almost always try another way round them. Well, okay. Unless it's my Dominant. Then i simply accept it. Usually. Well, often anyway.

 

[Lasz]

For me I take a simple rule...

If she says no once ... it means maybe.

If she says it twice ... stop. No reasons needed no questions asked.

In THAT case I agree with Ice Cold!
I am not some rapist asshole!

Laz

 

[medjay]

There comes a time (usually when you're out of college) when playing games just isn't cool. Girls, if you want to have sex with someone then choose him and be happy. Don't confuse him with mixed signals. Guys, whenever a woman shows signs of acting wishy washy in the sack the best move is to put your pants on and leave (if it's her place) or roll over and go to sleep (if it's your place). Sex is supposed to be fun and it can only be fun if both people are on the same page. No means no.

 

[Laurel]

When I say no, it means no. As in negative, negatory, not gonna happen. That applies to any question. I'm not coy, I'm not shy, and I hate games. If I mean yes, I'll say yes. But if I say no and I get pushed, I turn into Bitch City.

 

[seXieleXie]

nevermind

 

[cymbidia]

lexie?
I'm a little alarmed here.
Are you okay?

 

[seXieleXie]

peachy keen. thanks for asking.

 

[sch00lteacher]

No means no.

If your a female type person, don't play games with the word. Don't tease 'no', don't play coy 'no'.

Your not doing the next young lady to come along any favors. Boys are stupid shits, and may think she is just playing games also.

No means no.

 

[T.H. Oughts]

If I'm asked, "Can I tie you up and whip the shit out of you." Then no means no...

If I ask, "Can I have another Easter egg." And you say no. I'm gonna press the issue...

 

[AusTess]

I dont like being told no.



Everyone that live under my roof is taught that "Yes Tess",is the ONLY right answer.

 

[Yoni]

If I'm asked, "Can I tie you up and whip the shit out of you." Then no means no...

If I ask, "Can I have another Easter egg." And you say no. I'm gonna press the issue...

so a no means knowin the context in which it is said..no?

 

[T.H. Oughts]

so a no means knowin the context in which it is said..no?

When not talking sexualy...... it is acceptable to question a "no" I think.

 

[morninggirl5]

No means No. Maybe means I probably want to say yes, but convince me. Yes mean oh yes, please.

 

[Fly_On_Wall]

when someone says no to me it means to ask again later in a diff way.

when I say no, depending on what I said no to, I usualy say it just to be coy.... but there are times I truely mean it

 

[Unclebill]

I suppose I'm not the one with whom to be coy and teasing because if you say "no", that's it; it ends. I take the word for what it means. No offense, no foul, no harm. I respect your right to choose or refuse just as I require you to respect mine.

 

[perks]

no at the time, doesn't mean no forever. Unless I say... no forever. It also means no five minutes from now.

example

"Do you want to suck my dick?"
"No"

a day later

"Do you want to suck my dick?"

"NO"


a day later

"Suck my dick"

"Yes Sir"








<snicker> that just amused the hell out of me, someone join me for a chuckle

 

[PrincessSalome]

You have to know your partner. As someone who loves to wrestle, rough-house, tickle fight and tease, I have said (and do say) no when I meant yes, but only to someone who knows me well enough to know the difference.

In my sexual experience, men have been awesome at respecting my no's when I really meant them. I've honestly been very impressed. I am, however, the direct kind of girl who doesn't often have trouble with mixed messages. I say, be very clear about your limits and your expectations in an unheated conversation, and then be shy and coy. It can be very fun.

 

[BarberBabe]

No means No ...if I mean maybe I say maybe . I accept No from someone else ..but don't like it .

 

[MechaBlade]

For me I take a simple rule...

If she says no once ... it means maybe.

If she says it twice ... stop. No reasons needed no questions asked.

I find this to be true, which disappoints me because I am a man of his words. I say only what I mean.