No man is an island-1624

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John Donne
Meditation 17
Devotions upon Emergent Occasions

'No man is an iland, intire of it selfe; every man is a peece of the Continent, a part of the maine; if a clod bee washed away by the Sea, Europe is the lesse, as well as if a Promontorie were, as well as if a Mannor of thy friends or of thine owne were; any mans death diminishes me, because I am involved in Mankinde; And therefore never send to know for whom the bell tolls; It tolls for thee....'

The quote is from https://en.wikisource.org/wiki/Meditation_XVII written in 1624 by a man who thought he was probably dying at the time because he had sinned against in some way.

Unfortunately, many of us still carry the notion that people are victims because of something they did or choose to be rather than an unlucky bit of fate.

We ignore the constant killings in the inner cities because it is too overwhelming, is happening to people who we don't feel is one of us, and to those who somehow chose to be there. Although I am not sure how being born into poverty in a ghetto is something a person chooses

The terrorism in Paris hits most people like a ton of bricks because they can relate to the city, people and activities that were attacked.
It wasn't the usual target of synagogues which have a long history of being attacked in Paris, but indiscriminate, so anyone who was out and about in Paris at the time was and possibly still is at risk.

People who have no connection to Paris, and never will, are understandably not going to feel the same ways as those of us who have.

When I first heard about the Paris attacks, I thought of the Mumbai attacks in 2008 which started on November 2008. It was my birthday. I had people in the area of the attacks, one who used the Taj quite regularly so for me it was probably more disturbing than for most on LIT.

During that time the GB had the usual jokes and insensitive threads regarding the events. It was a while ago, but I didn't notice anyone getting really offended by the down right nasty posts probably because it didn't relate to them.

People are getting killed everyday all over the world. It doesn't mean that their deaths have no meaning, but it really depends on how you feel connected to those deaths that determine your response to a specific incident.
I don't think anyone is saying the Paris attacks don't matter, but to some deaths more closely connected to them are what they are focusing on.

I hate the phrase check your privilege but if this attack was in non-western country, directed specifically at the poor, non whites, and/or non Christian targets, would there be the same level of outcry on this board?
 
indeed :) i believe des(?) posted this up last night -if not des, someone else with a more enlightened attitude than too many reveled in late last night.
 
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John Donne
Meditation 17
Devotions upon Emergent Occasions

'No man is an iland, intire of it selfe; every man is a peece of the Continent, a part of the maine; if a clod bee washed away by the Sea, Europe is the lesse, as well as if a Promontorie were, as well as if a Mannor of thy friends or of thine owne were; any mans death diminishes me, because I am involved in Mankinde; And therefore never send to know for whom the bell tolls; It tolls for thee....'

The quote is from https://en.wikisource.org/wiki/Meditation_XVII written in 1624 by a man who thought he was probably dying at the time because he had sinned against in some way.

Unfortunately, many of us still carry the notion that people are victims because of something they did or choose to be rather than an unlucky bit of fate.

We ignore the constant killings in the inner cities because it is too overwhelming, is happening to people who we don't feel is one of us, and to those who somehow chose to be there. Although I am not sure how being born into poverty in a ghetto is something a person chooses

The terrorism in Paris hits most people like a ton of bricks because they can relate to the city, people and activities that were attacked.
It wasn't the usual target of synagogues which have a long history of being attacked in Paris, but indiscriminate, so anyone who was out and about in Paris at the time was and possibly still is at risk.

People who have no connection to Paris, and never will, are understandably not going to feel the same ways as those of us who have.

When I first heard about the Paris attacks, I thought of the Mumbai attacks in 2008 which started on November 2008. It was my birthday. I had people in the area of the attacks, one who used the Taj quite regularly so for me it was probably more disturbing than for most on LIT.

During that time the GB had the usual jokes and insensitive threads regarding the events. It was a while ago, but I didn't notice anyone getting really offended by the down right nasty posts probably because it didn't relate to them.

People are getting killed everyday all over the world. It doesn't mean that their deaths have no meaning, but it really depends on how you feel connected to those deaths that determine your response to a specific incident.
I don't think anyone is saying the Paris attacks don't matter, but to some deaths more closely connected to them are what they are focusing on.

I hate the phrase check your privilege but if this attack was in non-western country, directed specifically at the poor, non whites, and/or non Christian targets, would there be the same level of outcry on this board?
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Exactly how I feel about the situation.
 
No, people are saying the Paris deaths don't matter. You're not being a champion for the downtrodden multitudes in the Third World.

You're excusing the behavior of a bunch of self-centered shit piles.
 
indeed :) i believe des(?) posted this up last night -if not des, someone else with a more enlightened attitude than too many reveled in last last night.

I missed most of last night, I am still dealing with stuff that took me off line for several days. I started trying to catch up this morning, but at one point was moved to post this thread.

Many people quote the no man is an island thing, but not many seem to realize its origins.

Hi Butters!
 
No, people are saying the Paris deaths don't matter. You're not being a champion for the downtrodden multitudes in the Third World.

You're excusing the behavior of a bunch of self-centered shit piles.

Everyone sees stuff through their own particular view on the world.
I am not excusing anyone, I am merely stating my opinion on why everyone might not feel the same way about it.

I will do an anonymous poll and see how people really feel.

I think people often post things in the extreme to get a rise out of the others, or at least that is how I took it. For instance, in the Mumbai threads, I did not really believe that Busybody though that the events there were not horrible.
 
I missed most of last night, I am still dealing with stuff that took me off line for several days. I started trying to catch up this morning, but at one point was moved to post this thread.

Many people quote the no man is an island thing, but not many seem to realize its origins.

Hi Butters!

I don't think anyone is saying the Paris attacks don't matter, but to some deaths more closely connected to them are what they are focusing on.
hi noor, glad you're coping with life :kiss:

unfortunately, the likes of paella, smooth and a few others brought the true self-centered ugliness of humanity to that thread. their posts were entirely inappropriate. no one's saying they can't express their shitty attitudes; out of humane respect to the issue and those with friends/relatives involved, or potentially involved, they should have posted elsewhere or kept their damned vileness to themselves. as it now stands, a lot of people's ignore lists have grown overnight - people who might not normally bother ignoring these same posters.
 
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I don't think anyone is saying the Paris attacks don't matter, but to some deaths more closely connected to them are what they are focusing on.

hi noor, glad you're coping with life :kiss:

unfortunately, the likes of paella, smooth and a few others brought the true self-centered ugliness of humanity to that thread. their posts were entirely inappropriate. no one's saying they can't express their shitty attitudes; out of humane respect to the issue and those with friends/relatives involved, or potentially involved, they should have posted elsewhere or kept their damned vileness to themselves. as it now stands, a lot of people's ignore lists have grown overnight - people who might not normally bother ignoring these same posters.

Because I don't give a fuck about Paris my attitude is shitty? How many of you gave a fuck about the gang violence in LA? The everyday homicides in Chicago? The homicides in Philly? And if you'll don't give a fuck about those big cities, I know you'll don't give a fuck about mines. So why should I give a fuck about yours? Simply put, what happened in Paris was bad for the people in Paris. Running from gunshots and trying to survive, but maybe they got a taste of what we do everyday. I'm worried about me and mines, not yours and theirs.
 
unfortunately, the likes of paella, smooth and a few others brought the true self-centered ugliness of humanity to that thread. their posts were entirely inappropriate. no one's saying they can't express their shitty attitudes; out of humane respect to the issue and those with friends/relatives involved, or potentially involved, they should have posted elsewhere or kept their damned vileness to themselves. as it now stands, a lot of people's ignore lists have grown overnight - people who might not normally bother ignoring these same posters.

The only objectiveness in all those words is the fact that you happen to post on a Board where a significant number of people who share your unicorn feelings also post - so you naturally feel more ignorant to post such utter subjectivity.

Hate to tell you, wannabe, but your feelings only matter more to those who agree with them, yet they are factually no more relevant than those whose own feelings you so much need to condemn.

Keep pimping your fake equality and tolerant kumbaya feelings crap as you effortlessly keep proving just empty your actual words truly are.
 
Wait, maybe they didn't hear about those, because it wasn't on national television. But I got one that was. Did you care about the killings in Baltimore?
 
I don't think anyone is saying the Paris attacks don't matter, but to some deaths more closely connected to them are what they are focusing on.

hi noor, glad you're coping with life :kiss:

unfortunately, the likes of paella, smooth and a few others brought the true self-centered ugliness of humanity to that thread. their posts were entirely inappropriate. no one's saying they can't express their shitty attitudes; out of humane respect to the issue and those with friends/relatives involved, or potentially involved, they should have posted elsewhere or kept their damned vileness to themselves. as it now stands, a lot of people's ignore lists have grown overnight - people who might not normally bother ignoring these same posters.

Yep, there are times when people forget that others are strongly connected to the events and should keep their opinions to themselves.

It sounds like some of it is the reaction to broadcast TV.
I don't watch television, I stopped when someone that I knew and cared about died. The endless, mindless broadcasts about it were very upsetting and I kept thinking about how their family was coping with it all.
 
Maybe we can all agree that killing innocent people and terrorism is bad then go from there?
 
Yep, there are times when people forget that others are strongly connected to the events and should keep their opinions to themselves.

It sounds like some of it is the reaction to broadcast TV.
I don't watch television, I stopped when someone that I knew and cared about died. The endless, mindless broadcasts about it were very upsetting and I kept thinking about how their family was coping with it all.

And I told the people that have family there that I wish them the best. And that I hope all is well and all that. But that doesn't mean that I should have to care. People just want a reason to be outraged when they don't have no connection to the situation. They shot up Paris for a reason. Did the same people here give a fuck when the French was shooting up and bombing the Muslims? No.
 
Yep, there are times when people forget that others are strongly connected to the events and should keep their opinions to themselves.

It sounds like some of it is the reaction to broadcast TV.
I don't watch television, I stopped when someone that I knew and cared about died. The endless, mindless broadcasts about it were very upsetting and I kept thinking about how their family was coping with it all.

you're way more generous with that word than i believe they merit

in the case of paella, it was deliberate attention-whoring
in the case of smooth, he didn't begin to grasp the fact that people can care what happens to strangers but berated us for having any empathy as a case of us posting trying to look like we care for some kind of internet brownie points. a theme quickly adopted by paella. in the end, since i fully accept i have no control over how they think (nor want it) nor how and where they post, i used that wonderful ignore option provided by management here. life's ugly enough at times without allowing the filth here to make it worse.
 
Maybe we can all agree that killing innocent people and terrorism is bad then go from there?

I don't remember anybody saying what the terrorists did was good, but I didn't read every post. It's obvious that #parislivesmatter more, because it was Paris wall to wall coverage.

I posted a pic of those severed heads (which turned some stomachs) to make a point, what about these guys? That kind of stuff happens every day, every day it's been happening since the 7th century. Beheadings happen down in Mexico over drugs and that's in out backyard. It wasn't Paris so #outofsight

That kind of evil which was perpetrated in Paris needs to be recognized for what it is and dealt with accordingly. NOT just because it happened in Paris but because it is vile. If expressing empathy in public makes people feel better good for them but not everyone feels the need to do so.

BTW thanks for making this thread .
 
Maybe we can all agree that killing innocent people and terrorism is bad then go from there?

Nothing wrong at all with that...

But until haters quit murderously denying all innocent human life the natural right to exist, by conveniently devaluing that life as not human at all, there's no place to go with such killers.

No amount of Coke or singing in harmony can bridge that fundamental grand canyon between life and death.

The fact is killing innocent human life is always some form of terrorism, and that terror is fully state-sanctioned in the USSA today.
 
I don't remember anybody saying what the terrorists did was good, but I didn't read every post. It's obvious that #parislivesmatter more, because it was Paris wall to wall coverage.

I posted a pic of those severed heads (which turned some stomachs) to make a point, what about these guys? That kind of stuff happens every day, every day it's been happening since the 7th century. Beheadings happen down in Mexico over drugs and that's in out backyard. It wasn't Paris so #outofsight

That kind of evil which was perpetrated in Paris needs to be recognized for what it is and dealt with accordingly. NOT just because it happened in Paris but because it is vile. If expressing empathy in public makes people feel better good for them but not everyone feels the need to do so.

BTW thanks for making this thread .

You are welcome.:rose:
 
Because I don't give a fuck about Paris my attitude is shitty? How many of you gave a fuck about the gang violence in LA? The everyday homicides in Chicago? The homicides in Philly? And if you'll don't give a fuck about those big cities, I know you'll don't give a fuck about mines. So why should I give a fuck about yours? Simply put, what happened in Paris was bad for the people in Paris. Running from gunshots and trying to survive, but maybe they got a taste of what we do everyday. I'm worried about me and mines, not yours and theirs.

WORD.
 
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