The reason you don't see Dommes post here because all they have to do is post an ad in something local like craigslist and then pick and choose which ones they will allow the privilege of PAYING them for the opportunity to serve them.
You probably just need to give it more time. Besides, many young males on Lit are looking for mature women and/or dommes. Their threads are all over the place. It gets old after a while.
Before someone jumps in trying to embarrass you....(unless that's your thing)... When its spelled Domme it generally refers to a female.
There actually are a few non pros around here my suggestion would be to go over to the BDSM talk area and simply participate as best you can in threads. Be yourself, be personable. As I stated above the odds are not in your favor however, It never hurts to dream good luck to you.
- Just one of those dom-iest of the dominant dudes just stalking about looking for the vulnerable to separate from the flock.