NiteLight... Or Kitten or anyone who cares

[Cyan BloodsBane]

Asw I said Thrusday, I would explain why I came then left..

My wife has been sick for the last year... what is causing it we don't know. The problem is that she feels a sharp stabbing pain in her lower stomach... which can be anything from the womb to the intestines... and so forth...

She has been on so many drugs that I lost count. Also with in turn.. intercousre is to hard for her because.. to penetrate more than 2 to 3 inchs causes pain... She as had a cat... blood work... sttol.. urin.. and so forth doen.. now the last thing that they want to try is exploritory surgry..

With the amount of drugs and tests... hat we have had to by it as equaled up to about 17,000 dollars... and that for a country that has free health care is alot... that means most of this stuff is not covered....

So most of my night is spent awake listening to her moan in pain or trying anything I can do to help her...


That is the simple version of the reason I left so early.. and quickly and rudely...

Cyan

 

[R Nitelight]

Cyan BloodsBane

Love her, my friend. Be there with her. Be there for her. She is lucky to have you.

 

[Bobtoad777]

my prayers are with you and your wife
as well as my understanding, i had gathered from your bits and pieces something serious was up, just not realized this serious.

 

[Silverlily]

You were never rude, and we understand completely.

I am so sorry you have to go through this, both of you. I have a pretty good idea what it's like. Give your beautiful wife a hug from me.

 

[Cyan BloodsBane]

Nite

Thats all I try to do... but you would not believe how hard it is to sit by and watch... If I could take the pain away and bring it on to myself I would do it.. But hence I can't so I must live with the fact that I get only 1 to 2 hrs a sleep a night and ... try to bring her joy...

 

[Sammyjo]

*hugs*

There's more where that came from...if you need them.

 

[Thumper]

What Nite said...

brief but it said it all.

I shall say a prayer...

 

[Cyan BloodsBane]

my prayers are with you and your wife
as well as my understanding, i had gathered from your bits and pieces something serious was up, just not realized this serious.

Yes Toad... very serious... but I try not to let it through.. but sometimes I am to tried not to let things slip..


Will do Kitten... But I don't mind I married her for life... and that's what its going to be...

(But on a funny note: As soon as she feels up to it... man is she going to be hurting... heheheh...)

 

[Nobody Special's wife]

I'm so sorry that she has to go through all this pain ...Please take her to a specialist anything and get her drugs that at least help her stop some of the pain.....Good luck with all this and I hope everything goes well ...

THe Wife

 

[Bobtoad777]

If you can sometime drop me an email with what the docotors think it may be And I can do some searching into some legit alternaticve healings alternatives for you

 

[Cyan BloodsBane]

If you can sometime drop me an email with what the docotors think it may be And I can do some searching into some legit alternaticve healings alternatives for you

No prob.... I will even translate for you the terms used....

 

[Cheyenne]

So most of my night is spent awake listening to her moan in pain or trying anything I can do to help her...

I can't imagine a hell worse than having to watch a loved one suffer. I did it with two of my grandparents, and I know it must be much much worse than that for the one in pain to be your partner, your wife. I'll add both of you to my prayers, and also your doctors.

I never thought about doctors not being able to finally figure out what is wrong with someone until recently. They are the experts, aren't they? How can they not know after all their training, all their tests? But my best friend in the world is going through something similar- unexplained chest pain. And after all of the tests, and all of the specialists, and all of the different drugs, they still don't know for sure the cause of his pain. I guess doctors aren't any more perfect than the rest of us.

 

[pandora]

Cyan,
You're doing what your wife needs from you, being there for her. Just hold her tight, love her right and with all the prayers from your friends, she should get better. I'll say an extra special prayer for her tonight. Good luck friend.

 

[BlondeBeauty]

((((Cyan))))

Cyan, I tried to think of something inspirational to say and just couldn't come up with the right words. Here are a couple of my favorite quotes.

"Love does not make you weak, because it is the source of all strength, but it makes you see the nothingness of the illusory strength on which you depended before you knew it." ~Leon Bloy

"A man is only as good as what he loves."
~Saul Bellow


Take good care of her and yourself Cyan. She's lucky to have someone supportive by her side. If you need to talk, feel free to email me. I'm always there if you need someone to talk to. Take care and let us know how things go. We love you! *Hugs*

 

[Juliangel]

{{{Cyan}}} Hugs to you both. If you ever need anyone to talk to I am usually on. Hope you are able to find something out soon. Good Luck!!!

 

[CelestialBody]

 

[Renegade]

Man that's terrible Cyan. I know we've never talked, but I've been through situations that like before and my prayers go out to you man. Here's hoping for the best.

 

[Dirk13]

hey...man....be there with her, when ever you can just sit, lay, anything, just be with her, comfort her, do anything that needs to be done, get some movies or somethen that she likes, and sit there and watch them with her. Just do what you can...but my heart goes out to you and your wife, i hope she recovers...and nothing permenant is wrong...hey, you always got people to talk to here, even if it isn't me, but take it easy, and the prayers are being sent.

 

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[Samuari]

I have posted several times about Madam Samuari's health problems; the big diference is that we know what we are facing, and what her problems are. I can't imagine how worried you must be, not knowing. I will light a candle for you now, and see that you are both remembered at our alter tomorrow. May the Great Physican visit her and bring her comfort and healing.

 

[Becca Btr N Btr]

I understand and feel for you both. My only advice is make them figure out what it is and don't let them put her off. I have had so much good, and some really bad with all of my doctors. They sometimes just need to be pushed to do all they can to really help.
I can with total certainty and experience tell you that you and your love and cuddling is the BEST thing she will get and need. Keep up your strength, as she need you!
All my best wishes and prayers for you both will be thought and prayed in the times ahead.

God's Peace and Love be with you both.