Nipple Sucking

How hard are you sucking? Sometimes my guy is a bit rough, but if I tell him he's being rough, he backs off a bit or takes a break.

Also, at certain times in a woman's cycle, nipple stimulation is uncomfortable if not downright painful at times.
 
Reba67 said:
Also, at certain times in a woman's cycle, nipple stimulation is uncomfortable if not downright painful at times.
Yup. Depending on where I am in my cycle, I love a little bit (or a lot) of pain with nipple play. Sometimes, though, I can't stand even the gentlest touch.

OP, the bottom line is that all women are different, and if your GF says that sucking her nipples hurts in a not-so-good way, then you should be gentler. After all, if she squeezed your balls really, really hard and you didn't like the pain from that, you'd want her to stop, right?
 
When I suck on the nipple of my girl she says it hurts


thoughts?

THE nipple? She's only got one?!?! :eek: ;)

Listen to your girlfriend. As Eilan so eloquently points out, you wouldn't want the G.I. Joe kung fu death grip on your balls if it wasn't your thing? Talk to her about her nipple sensitivity, it may be a monthly cycle thing as suggested or it may be that you are getting a little too exuberant at times and you need to back off a bit. If sucking is uncomfortable no matter how gently you are, then how about resorting to nipple massage with your tongue?
 
THE nipple massage with your tongue?

...had a partner who did not like even the gentlest of nipple play. Total no go area "Too sensitive"... had another who always said "bite harder" ...then there was the partner who could orgasm from nipple play... everyone is different.

Apart from being very gentle, don't just dive in fast... indulge in other areas of foreplay first... build the mood up.

My partner of now is one who is "too sensitive" if I go for a quick flick of the tongue when she is just out of the shower, to a "bite me harder" when she is all steamed up...

If she does not like it... don't do it...
 
When I suck on the nipple of my girl she says it hurts


thoughts?

Apart from the obvious advice ('let me do it for you') there is a whole gradation of nipple play. I gentle graze from the tip of your tongue being the beginning, is that too much for her?
 
Same here with my wife ...after nursing our daughter her nipples were off limits...and thats that..I suggest you tie her down and do it anyway!
NO! dont do that Im joking. I do prefer ladies who enjoy having their nipples abused and bitten.. but thats something I seldom encounter..
 
You should be nicer to your lady's nips!

However the sensation from mine are one of the few things that gets me through the day! haha
 
Funnny thing about nips..I can be all day on a nude beach and simply enjoy but for a memorable event let me see a ladys nipple slip out into view and itis burned in mymind for years
 
Yes - from my experience I suggest very many women have very sensitive nipples and this sensitivity can change more or less sensitive depending upon time of month, time of day, mood, how arroused she is, and for a miriad of reasons. I suggest exploring gently to see how reponsive she is and dont go straight for nipples.
 
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Funnny thing about nips..I can be all day on a nude beach and simply enjoy but for a memorable event let me see a ladys nipple slip out into view and itis burned in mymind for years

haha... SSSooo true
 
Funnny thing about nips..I can be all day on a nude beach and simply enjoy but for a memorable event let me see a ladys nipple slip out into view and itis burned in mymind for years

That is because there's a difference between an all you can eat buffet and forbidden fruit. It's the things we're not supposed to see that are the most titillating ... No pun intended ... :D
 
I recall being at the lake in Berlin in 1958...and a young woman sleeping ..her left nipple had worked its way free from the bathing suit cup and was dark brown and so apparent against the soft white breast...She awoke to find me staring, but just smiled and closed her eyes again...how nice of her.
 
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