Nice problem to have.....

[cd1_christine]

How to explain this without sounding like an immature, conceited ass......

My dick is somewhat longer than average, at about 8 inches. This works really nice for the slow, grinding type sex, which my wife loves, along with myself.
The problem comes though, when we both want a good pounding: sometimes I'll bottom out in her, which hurts her, and isn't overly comfortable for me, either.

What positions/techniques/naughty know how would anybody recommend to reduce or eliminate this problem?
Not giving her a good pounding is not an option, as we both enjoy it too much. Her being on top is only a partial solution, since she blew out a knee figure skating when she was a teenager, complete with surgery and the whole bit, so riding me with her weight on her knees becomes uncomfortable for her, also.

Any brilliant ideas from the Lit crowd?

 

[M's girl]

Anything that can be used as a buffer could help I suppose ... sounds a bit 'funny' maybe but how about something like a small pillow or so? If we had that problem and wanted to be able to be pounding away without having to think about eventual hurting I would make one myself I suppose... a doughnut shaped cushion maybe...?

 

[cd1_christine]

....how about something like a small pillow or so?

That would maybe work, although it would have to be something easily cleaned, as between her and myself, there's usually a significant amount of....ahem....moisture.

Don't know about the doughnut shaped one. It'd probably remind me too much of a hemorrhoid pillow, and just be weird.....

I'll see if I can find something that will work, and let you know. Thanks.

Any more suggestions from people are still welcome......

 

[simplegirl]

This is what I posted in another thread about painful sex that could apply here:

Another is missionary but with YOUR legs closed. He won't be able to penetrate as deeply and the apex of your thighs will cause delicious friction for him. Don't forget the lube for this one. This is also good when your laying flat out on your belly. Have him penetrate from behind with your legs closed. Again it's shallower and it feels really good.

Also, try to "offset" your positions. What I mean by this, is instead of having both of your legs on the outside and both of his on the inside, try just having one of his legs between yours and one of your between his. This will also allow for a shallower penetration. I hope this is clear. I don't have a pic to illustrate what I mean.

You on top is always good also, since YOU control the depth of penetration. You can lay down on top and move in a circular motion instead of up/down or in/out, so your cervix isn't getting bumped.


here is the thread with other ideas which may help:

Sex positions