Nice date

[BiBBWToronto]

Looking for a bi/lesbian lady in my area for discreet meetings. Age 30 + , BBW or slim, whatever, openminded, relaxed.

My idea of an nice afternoon, meet for lunch, talk, have a couple of drinks, go to a hotel, listen to music, have conversation, kissing, touching, being close in bed together, me licking and suckling her nipples, putting my tongue in her mouth, undressing her.

I want to totally dominate this intimacy with a willing partner who is, very relaxed, submissive and open to toys, anal, rimming, oral, all with a gentle touch.

I want my lady on the bed, on her knees and elbows, legs wide apart, ass in the air, presenting herself to me, I want full access to pleasure her from behind with my mouth, hands, fingers, toys.

I am interested in a good long session of rimming and fucking her anally with my tongue, also going down on her clit from behind, tonguing her vagina all while she is spread wide for me on all fours, face buried in the pillow.

Then with a gentle touch, some lube and 2 dildos I want to fuck her vagina with a good sized dildo while while rimming her asshole with my tongue, I am going to probe deep with my tongue and work my way in and out over and over. My partner has to be open, willing and prepared for this.

When she ready and fully aroused I want to use small lubed dildo for fucking her anally while still fucking her vagina with the larger one.

Eventually, I want her to turn over, relaxed on her back, she'll touch her breasts and enjoy me going down on her with my face buried between her legs. I'm going to eat her out and fuck her with the dildo for a long time.

As for myself, I don't expect her to perform any sexual acts on me, I can make myself climax by masterbating or using the toys. The whole point is me doing her and her wanting to be dominated.

Thanks for listening

 

[hardway]

Damn, that was hot.

 

[BiBBWToronto]

No submissive women in the Toronto area that need a good ass rimming?

It will be a nice afternoon for you, I promise.

 

[jonathan83]

... And is willing to be photographed for posting on lit.

 

[BiBBWToronto]

Sorry to dissapoint, jonathan but there would be no pics, this would be a private, intimate time for myself and this lady. Photos would ruin the atmosphere, but I would be happy to tell you how it went.

Still hoping there is a Toronto lady out there who would like a nice afternoon with me.

 

[rl_dylan]

Sorry to dissapoint, jonathan but there would be no pics, this would be a private, intimate time for myself and this lady. Photos would ruin the atmosphere, but I would be happy to tell you how it went.

Still hoping there is a Toronto lady out there who would like a nice afternoon with me.

I knew it was more fun to be a woman

 

[SynfulSweet]

come down here

Or if I ever come to Canada I want the weekend at your place special. I would love to chat anyway because you describe some awesome sex there......made me wet

I am 29 bi curious fem in Kentucky.

I use yahoo
sinfullysweet01

 

[BiBBWToronto]

Hi Synful, where are you in your photo? Looks like Windsor Castle or something.

You have a sexy body

 

[deluxe3000]

Hello BiBBW,

Wow, that was a hot post about what you'd want to do with a bi female! That certainly got my motor running. Thanks!

 

[BiBBWToronto]

My pleasure, deluxe3000

 

[BiBBWToronto]

I may have scared off some ladies by my strongly worded opening post and I apologize for that

I would like to share a little about myself and why I have posted.

I'm 41 years old and have been married for 10 years. I have a good sex life with my husband. We have sex several times a week and are open with each other for keeping it spiced up through positions, role playing, toys, we are not prudes in any sense of the word.

The only time I think about being with another women is when he is going down on me, I close my eyes and imagine it is a woman there between my legs, licking me and I literally ache to return that favor and pleasure another lady. I am also interested in anal and rimming because I enjoy that so much myself so I want to give that experience to someone else if they are willing.

I have only had relationships with men dating, getting married etc and I have had only 2 sexual encounters with other women, both long before I was married.

When I was 15 years old in Grade 9, I was very naive sexually. My parents never talked to me about sex and all I learned was from hearing other kids talk about it at school and the occasional romance novel or R movie I could sneak seeing. I was curious about boys and sex, penises etc...very curious, but I was also chicken. Once when a older boy had driven me home after a school dance he had tried to kiss me and taken his penis out of his pants, I was mortified! He asked me to touch it and tried to put my hand on it. I was scared to death and got the heck out of there. I felt like such a loser after that.


Anyway,at 15 I was really just starting to explore my own body and learn to pleasure myself by touch. The strange thing was that I would climax much quicker and stronger if I thought about girls and maybe touching them or seeing them naked instead of boys.

A girl I didn't know well named Stephanie, she was 15 as well and had a bit of a reputation at school. The teacher picked us as Science Fair partners and we had to do a project together over a few weeks. She was extremely developed for her age with large breasts - especially compared to me, I was flat as a pancake in grade 9.

Our project was down to the final crunch and we had only the weekend now to finish it. We agreed to work all Saturday and Sunday at my house to get it done. So we hung out worked on our stuff, listened to music and our talks always seemed to come around to boys and sex.

She told me she had 'done it' and I was amazed, I wanted to know everything, hell I hadn't even really seen what a penis looked like (no internet back then!) and it was dark in the car the night the boy tried to get me to touch his. I didn't have a clue. She was my hero at that point because she was not a virgin anymore.

So she told me in a very matter of fact way, about what she and her boyfriend(s) had done. She had let him put it in her and it hurt the first time, she had sucked on a boys penis (acutally a few boys) and she said the boys loved to lick and suck on her boobs.

Something came over me that moment, it was just like my fantasies when I masturbated, thinking about touching and licking breasts. I knew I really wanted to do that. I kept asking her questions about how it felt when the boys did that. If it hurt, did her nipples get bigger? did she like it? did she have milk? (dumb question but at the time I thought sucking a tit made it give milk) She answered all my questions and suddenly asked me if I wanted to know how it felt. She said would show me.

I didn't know what she meant at first but she told me to lift my top up, so I did. She leaned in and put her mouth to my small nipple and licked a little. The room started spinning for me. She licked one nipple then the other just for like 10 seconds each and then pulled my top back down and sat back like it was nothing.

Did you like it? she asked me, and I nodded yes, I don't think I could speak.

Would you let a boy do it? she laughed and I nodded again that I would.

She asked me if I wanted to lick hers a little

I still don't think I said anything. I just nodded yes like an idiot. My hands and legs were shaking. She lifted her tee shirt and I saw she had on this big white bra, her breasts were so large, my eyes were probably huge looking at her. She pulled one strap off her shoulder and lifted a heavy breast out of the bra cup. I was just sitting there staring.

'try it', she said

I leaned over to her and licked her nipple once and pulled back like it was going to bite me or something.

She told me to I was supposed to put my mouth on it and suck a little bit, and that is what boys like to do. So I leaned in again and slid my mouth over her whole nipple and sucked a bit. She told me to lick at the same time, so I sucked and licked for maybe 20 seconds on one big nipple. I can still feel it in my mouth.

We were interrupted by my parents calling us from upstairs that they had pizza for us and we both quickly fixed our clothes and that was it.

That really was it, physically that is, but I thought about that experience for years and years afterwards. I still do. We were both really innocent about it, we didn't do anything else, although I don't know what we would have done if my parents hadn't broken us apart, maybe she would have asked me to touch her pussy. I don't know.

After that, as I got older I started dating and experimenting with boys, I was a virgin until I was 19 and already out of high school. The guy I slept with the first time was 30 years old. Before that I had give head to a few boys, but did not let then climax in my mouth and I had let them touch my breasts, one boy put his finger in my pussy once and I liked that feeling but all and all I was still way behind my friends in sexual activities.

In my early 20's had a several serious boyfriends and regular sex. The whole time I never thought about women except once in a while when I was being licked.

One time I was at a party and they had porno tapes playing, there was some girl on girl action and I had NEVER seen anything like that before. I was like 24 years old and never seen girls having sex, I was obsessed with watching this porno, but trying not to show that I was watching or interested. My boyfriend was getting hard and wanted to leave, I didn't want to leave! I wanted to watch this tape, I was so wet and wantan. I started dreaming about going down on women and I started trying to find lesbian pornos for home use.

It was about then that I decided I must be gay and wondered if I should be dating girls? wondering what my family would think, etc... but being that I had no desire to have a relationship with a woman, just the sexual aspect of it was appealing I finally figured out I must be bi.

When I was 26 years old and full throttle into my career, I had to travel with another woman (about my age) from the office to a convention/meeting thing in Vancouver. We were sharing a hotel room. I had known this girl for 3 or 4 years, also her fiance', her sister, etc... we had all socialized and I can honestly tell you I never thought of her sexually. I didn't even occur to me.

After 2 days sharing a room walking around in our bras, getting dressed in front of each other I still never thought of her as anything other than a co-worker and a friend.

Our last night however, the convention done we decided to get drunk & go dancing. We went to this wild club and there were woman grinding against each other on the dance floor and we started laughing our heads off, it just looked so strange to see that in public. I had never seen anything like that before at a club.

The next time we got up to dance Linda started rubbing against me as a joke and her sexuality hit me like a ton of bricks. I rubbed against her too, touching her hips and thighs with my hands and she laughed. I was getting really turned on even though I knew she was just pretending.

Later we went for something to eat, it was way late, like 2am and we still were giggling about our dirty dancing and I asked how her fiance' would react if he saw us doing that? We both agreed he would probably be turned on and we laughed about it.

I asked her if she missed him or more importantly his penis. Linda told me she missed him a lot but not the sex at all. I asked her why and she started telling me that she couldn't climax with him, she always faked it and it was depressing her that she didn't enjoy sex, it was like a chore and she tried to get out of doing it or get it overwith asap.

She was frustrated that she just couldn't relax enough or something, so she would fake her orgasm then wait till he was alseep and quietly masturbate or after sex she would say she was going to the bathroom and touch herself in there until she climaxed. She said she had been like this her whole life but figured it would stop when she fell in love. She did get horny and could make herself climax but not with a partner.

I started talking to her about needing to figure this out and that she should talk to him, and how important this all was. Maybe she could go to a sex therapist. I didn't think she shouldn't be getting married to him if sex is a chore (already!)

I asked her if she enjoyed anything about sex at all? like when he went down on her and she said she didn't like it so tried to avoid it all the time. If he did go down on her it was just for a few minutes and she would try to suck him or something to get him to stop. Distract him.

She asked me why I liked it?, why it felt good to me? and said she wished she could relax and get into it but as soon as her pussy was spread and his mouth was there she got all tense and basically just put up with it pretending it was good without feeling anything.

I tired to describe what I felt when I was being licked, the playfulness, the total trust in your partner, abandon, closing off your mind and just feeling your clit being teased and that the thought of someone doing it was as much as a turn on then the actual act. She said she felt really jealous and wished she was like me.

We eventually went back to the room, both of us feeling good from the drinks we had consumed all night. She went to have a shower and I flipped through the pay per view movies and noticed they had some porn flicks. I decided to put one on for a laugh since we had been talking about nothing but sex for an hour. When Linda came out from her bath she was surprised the porn movie was on.

I got in my bed, she got on hers. She was lying on top of the duvet with a hotel robe on watching the show and I was under the covers. We both watched the movie and I was getting so horny, it was 2 girls giving a guy a blowjob. Linda laughed that she was getting horny and it was all my fault. I suggested that we should both just touch ourselves until we climaxed, no need to be shy now after what we did on the dance floor.

Her hand slipped under her robe and mine went in my panties. Eventually the 2 woman turned to each other in the movie and the guy was giving them directions on what to do. I was more turned on by watching Linda touching herself 6 feet from me than I was watching the movie, her other hand was on her nipple which I could see plainly in the tv light. She looked over at me and asked if I was okay, I kicked off the blanket and she saw my hand in my panties and laughted at me. 'We are pathetic horny women' she declared.

In the movie, one of the girls started going down on the other one. Linda was watching and commented they both really seem to be enjoying it. She laughed, slapped her thigh and announced "that's it! I need a lesbian to show me how it's supposed to feel"

I knew she was joking but I decided I was going to take this situation a step further .

I went over to her bed and sat at the bottom, between her and the TV. I told her to lie back and that I was going to see if I could help her with her orgasm problem. I moved up the bed, lying on my tummy between her knees. She said something like, 'you are joking, right?' and I said we're 'friends, and it was okay, just to relax and lie back and let me take care of her"

I touched her thighs and coxed them apart, she was all warm from her shower. Her robe fell open and she was naked underneath. By the light of the TV I could see her pussy, really dark and furry, she didn't shave at all. I moved up more and she wasn't protesting, I lowered my mouth to her pussy and it was the sweetest smell, I lapped at her lips there and moved them apart with my fingers and she gasped. It really was like heaven spread open before me, I licked her gently and softly, playing with her clit.

I lifted my head and asked her if she wanted me to stop and she said no, she had her head back watching the movie in a trance. I kept licking and after a few minutes her hips started moving, she had her hands on her breasts touching herself. I looked up at her again and her eyes were closed now I wondered if she was imagining her boyfriend and then I went back to licking.

She breathed that it felt so good and that she thought she could cum but could I just keep my tongue on her clit and not stop licking.

So I worked her clit, my tongue was aching from the repeated licking over and over in the same spot. She started shuddering and pulled my head to her pussy. I kept licking and she moaned and thrust her hips up to my mouth. She was gasping and then settled down... I could feel her clit twitching under my tongue.

I sat up and was really happy, soooo happy, I had made her climax and showed her that she could. Plus I fucking loved going down on her and I was horny as anything.

I had to ask her though, was she faking??

She said no, and I could tell by looking at her she had an real orgasm, she still had her eyes closed and she looked like a wreck.

I asked her if she wanted to try licking me and she said no.

I asked if I could suck her nipples and touch myself until I climaxed and she said no.

One word answers.

I asked her if she was okay and she said no.

What's wrong? you climaxed right? this is a good thing I am so happy for you. I wanted to hug her.

She opened her eyes and looked at me, she was so serious. She asked me to go to my bed, and just leave her alone for a while.

It became really uncomfortable and my horniness evaporated, I said I was sorry and she just cut me off and told me she didn't want to talk.

I turned off the TV and got back in my bed and lay there staring at the dark wall. with my back to her bed. Her pussy taste was all over my face but I was not aroused at all anymore, I felt really sick actually.

Later I heard her in the bathroom vomiting, I don't think it was the booze I think the realization that I performed a sex act on her made her sick as well as the fact that she enjoyed it.

The next morning there was a cold feeling from her and I was miserable. We didn't talk for a long time, the flight was 5 1/2 hours and everytime I tried to talk to her she basically gave me one word answers. Eventually, I tried to talk about it, to apologize and she got so upset told me never to mention it again and that she would kill me if I told anyone what happened and her marriage was at stake. She also said I took advantage of her and her vunerability. I told her I was sorry but she didn't seem too vunerable when she was rubbing her pussy on my thigh on the dance floor. We had a bit of a verbal fight on the plane and she spat her words at me never to talk to her again and to stay out of her life. I was absolutely devestated and sick about everything.

It was uncomfortable at work between us after that (duh) and eventually I moved offices, nothing to do with her.

So now years later, 15 years later, I would like another experience with a woman who is willing and wants to be pleasured.

I put in my post that she doesn't have to do anything sexual for me, probably because of my fear of rejection like what happened Linda, but truthfully I would like a partner who wants to please me too.

If there is anyone in my area who wants a nice afternoon filled with gentle and loving touches, please drop me a line.

Thanks for reading.

 

[fn2b1]

Wow BiBBW. Your honesty is so humbling. Thank you for being so open and sharing your experiences. I wish I were closer to you, if nothing else, just to sit and talk. I wish you the best in finding what you are looking for.

 

[BiBBWToronto]

Thanks for the kind comment, fn2b1

 

[indyfun51]

It is amazing how things that happen so long ago can shape our desires now. The young woman within you fearing rejection from her partner. As being one who was cast aside for thirty plus years, I feel your hurt. I wish for you the most wonderful, tender, sensitive encounter you can possible have. Hopefully that will help ease the pain you feel from all this.

 

[fn2b1]

Thanks for the kind comment, fn2b1

You're welcome!

 

[sweetcuriousity]

I wish

I was close to you. I would so love to be the woman you dominate. To be on my hands and knees (perhaps blindfolded?) losing myself into the depths of my secret desires Mmmmmmmmmmm

 

[BiBBWToronto]

Update, I have met a lady through PMs and now telephone. We are getting together this week for drinks at a local restaurant. (Wed. I think) We'll see what happens after that.

 

[BiBBWToronto]

Well it finally happened

I met a nice gal named Kathleen, she is a large gal with nice breasts and an ample backside. We met for lunch & and talked. She was nervous and I was strangely very calm. We spent 3 hours ++ together and decided we wanted to meet a week or so later at a local Hotel.

The day arrived and I had some nice new lingerie to wear for her, white lace bustier & panties, and stay up stockings with lace tops. We met at the Hotel and went up to our room, we weren't in the door a second when we were kissing and it was so nice, kissing and hugging, very warm and comfortable.

I opened her blouse to reveal beautiful large breasts with large dark nipples and I sucked and licked them like a I was starving for them. We didn't want to rush just to take our time so we got comfortable, me in my nice lingerie and kathleen in just panties. we got under the sheets and ordered a porn channel through the TV system.

I had brought some wine so I opened that and we both had a glass and just lay together, touching, caressing and watching the show. I was pretty horny and I don't know if I mentioned this earlier but I like to be in control of whats happening and was looking for someone submissive.

At our meeting 10 days earlier, I had told kathleen what I wanted and expected and she had agreed. One of the things that was a must was for her to agree to be rimmed and have anal with a toy. She had agreed, said she wanted it but had never tried ass play before but the thought of it made her hot.

I wanted her to be clean for me so I suggested a shower and I helped her soap up and rinse everywhere. She was very sexy with a nice furry pussy - she didn't shave or trim.

After her shower we wrapped towels around to keep her warm and then back to the bed. I wanted to go down on her from behind so once we hugged and kissed a little more I asked her to get on all fours for me and present her ass to me. This is where she got a little nervous again and said she was scared, that she didn't want it to hurt.

We kissed a while longer face to face on our sides under the blankets until she relaxed again and then I decided to demonstrate what I wanted. I had her close her eyes and pretend her mouth/lips were her asshole. I asked her to purse her lips tightly like it was her anus and hold them like that.

Then I started licking and probing her mouth area, teasing her tight lips, circling them.. she was getting hot and I slipped my hand between her legs.

I kept licking at her tightly pursed lips and she kept them taunt and didn't allow my tongue in. After a while I made my tongue ridgid and pointed and forced my way in between her lips, she opened for me and allowed me to probe. She was hot and moaning, said her asshole was twitching thinking about it. I positioned her on her knees, bending forward on her elbows - face in the pillow.

Then I moved around behind her and asked her to spread, and what a spread it was... she has a large round ass and a large furry pussy, I couldn't even see her clit for hair - it was going to be like looking for burried treasure.

Her asshole was right there, it was dark and also had hair around it - I couldn't wait to get my tongue in. I started off slowly though, licking her from stem to stern, starting down at the slit of her vagina and up to her asshole I just lapped and lapped like a dog licking himself, she was moaning - it was great. I got her pussy lips open enough to get at her clit and spent some time there, she was pressing back on me for more like she couldn't get enough I kept working at her until she climaxed, what a great experience for both of us.

Unfortunately in my fantasies about rimming and oral from behind, I didn't take into account my ackward position and that my neck and shoulders would hurt. I was actually getting a sore/stiff neck from licking in this position. So I directed Kathleen to roll on her back and then helped her get her legs up above her head. She held her legs up and apart for me with her arms behind her knees. I had a great access to all that I wanted.

Her ass cheeks were wide open for me now, and I began my adventure with her anus.

It was something else, one of the most enjoyable, hot, sexy things I've ever done. After about 10 minutes of me working on it she started to open for me like a flower and my tongue was as far up inside as I could reach. I was basically fucking her with my tongue and she was loving it. Moaning and writhing and talking dirty, telling me to fuck her, not to stop saying 'further, further, take it, fuck it' I was so freaking horning with my tongue deep in her ass.

I had brought a few toys along - one was a nice little 5 inch soft rubber one that I stopped for a moment to lube up and then slipped right inside her anus - like a perfect fit. She was loving it and sooooo into it. We were both surprised at how she was reacting, like she couldn't get enough.

Kathleen was moaning and asking me to go down on her clit so I did while pumpingthe dildo in and out of her ass. It took about 5 minutes of this and she was climaxing again. I also needed to climax, I was super horny and could feel my clit twiching. I mean I could have had an orgasm just squeezing my thighs together thats how close I was.

I let her lower her legs and lie flat and then I got into a 69 position with her with me on top, my cunt over her mouth.

I still had my lacey panties on so she moved it to the side and I lowered myself on her mouth, she was a GREAT licker, (IS a great licker) very determined and dedicated to giving pleasure. I wanted to go down on her in the 69 at the same time but I was so lost in what she was doing to my clit I couldn't concentrate on licking her. So I just closed my eyes and grinded on her mouth until the first orgasms hit me.

After all this I was suddenly pretty tired, weary, exhausted even. It was like all the tension and worry was gone and I was beat. We both got under the blankets again and picked another movie from the TV selection. Not even a porno! we picked a comedy.. and we had some more wine and some laughs and cuddled and kissed. Our faces smelled like pussy juice and it was very comfortable being together.

After a while Kathleen asked me what I wanted and I said I needed to be fucked hard in the ass.

I got up on all fours and she lubed up the big dildo I had brought (7 inches, & pretty thick) She was so gentle and tender teasing me with it until I told her NO - I wanted it hard, just ram it, take my ass, she got comfortable behind me and the next thing I knew I was crying out from her onslought on my hole. It hurt but it was a good kind of hurt and I was used to it because I do myself anally all the time, but it is so much better when there is someone else doing it for you.

After a while I told her to stop and get the other vibrator, she lubed that one up and slid it in my vagina so I had 2 toys inside me and then she began fucking me again. She was probably disappointed because I came so fast it was only like 2 minutes.

Although I am multiple, I need to have a rest inbetween, I just feel so wiped after a climax. I wanted to lick her ass some more so I lay on my back and rested but got her to come squat above my face. I played with her clit and ass just licking slowly,taking my time, reaching up to rub her nipples.

Eventually she needed more so I got her in a doggy position and fucked her with the vibrator she had just done me with until she came. Iloved hearing her call out my name and tell me to do things.

After this we decided to have a shower together and it was very nice because you don't run out of hot water in a hotel like you do at home so we took our time, hugging, kissing, soaping and rinsing each other.

I loved sucking on her nipples and enjoying her body, her round tummy and ass, large thighs. She said she was still a little bit horny and could probably have another orgasm so I asked her what she wanted...she just wanted to lie on her back with me going down on her,so thats what we did. She was wet from the shower, all pink and warm and her furry pussy was matted, I loved all the fur she had, usually I fantasize about clean shaven or trimmed pussies but what she had to offer was Grade A++ yum.

After I brought her to climax with my tongue and fingers I asked her to go down on me too. She didn't want to lick my asshole - even though she is a big fan of recieving, (now) she just isn't into giving but she agreed to finger my hole whle she licked my pussy and this brought me to a shuddering orgasm like you wouldn't believe.

All this transpired over about 4 1/2 hours - we laughed and talked and feel like friends now - well at least I do and I hope Kathleen is being genuine when she also said she feels like this. We are getting together again in October - both of us have husbands and busy lives so it will be a few more weeks before I have another go at her.

Kathleen has a girlfriend who she has experimented with sexually, they are both bi and have enjoyed going down on each other in the past.

Well, the reason that all stopped was because her friend got pregnant and now has an 8 month old baby. She is pretty loney as she broke up with the father of her baby so she wanted to get back to having sex again with Kathleen, she wondered if she minded that she was lactating and nursing still.

Kathleen is MAJORLY turned on about sucking (heather's) breasts and wants to nurse on them. She is going to talk to Heather about meeting me and maybe the three of us having a nice afternoon together. I am so turned on thinking about nice milk filled tits to suck on - but we'll have to see what happens.

Anyway, thanks for reading.

 

[ima6uldv8]

Mmmmmmm honey. How I wish I lived near you I'm so wet after reading all this.

 

[BiBBWToronto]

We have another day Sep 30th

 

[anne27]

We have another day Sep 30th

Do we get to hear about that one as well?

I have enjoyed reading about your life and adventures. Thank you for sharing with everyone.