Newly separated kinkster looking for others in similar situations...

[Pink_Milkmaid]

Long time lit user. Been on a long hiatus. I'm now newly (and a bit unexpectedly) separated from a very, very vanilla partner. I'm looking to connect with others in their 40s or older who are or have been in this situation, and who have navigated exploring their kinks beyond the keyboard in safe, sane, consensual ways. I'm not looking for in-person yet--I need the time and space to work on myself--but I'd love to chat with others who have been in similar situations. Lit has always been a wealth of fun info for for me. I'm in the PNW, USA, with a variety kinks including lactation and DD/lg. No offense to the younger crowd, but I'm looking specifically for those coming out of long term relationships in their forties or older. PNW would be a plus, not b/c I want in person yet, but because I'd love to hear about local-ish resources for the kink community. Please be separated/divorced/single--I've been married and frustrated myself, but I'm looking for similar circumstances right now as far as single goes.

 

[J D Danger]

Long time lit user. Been on a long hiatus. I'm now newly (and a bit unexpectedly) separated from a very, very vanilla partner. I'm looking to connect with others in their 40s or older who are or have been in this situation, and who have navigated exploring their kinks beyond the keyboard in safe, sane, consensual ways. I'm not looking for in-person yet--I need the time and space to work on myself--but I'd love to chat with others who have been in similar situations. Lit has always been a wealth of fun info for for me. I'm in the PNW, USA, with a variety kinks including lactation and DD/lg. No offense to the younger crowd, but I'm looking specifically for those coming out of long term relationships in their forties or older. PNW would be a plus, not b/c I want in person yet, but because I'd love to hear about local-ish resources for the kink community. Please be separated/divorced/single--I've been married and frustrated myself, but I'm looking for similar circumstances right now as far as single goes.

I am not sure how much help I can be

but I am a 45 year old Dom who would love to chat

feel free to PM me

 

[RudyGardet]

Been there. Agonist 20 year mostly vanilla marriage ended a few years ago which enabled me to start to explore kink and kink-based relationships. Took me a while to hit my stride and feel my way through the local community (figuratively, although there was a but of literal feeling along the way ). Happy to report that I had a lot of fun, grew as a person birth sexually and in general, and in the end found the most amazing partner to explore more and more with.
Happy to chat about it if you'd like and I'm not married, but I'm definitely not single.
Regardless, good luck!!