Newly Bi-curious...any advice?

[pagemaster]

Just figured it out today, really.

Met a new co-worker and found myself really attracted to her. Fascinated by her, really. It's not something I can talk about to my friends or family as I'm generally surround by straight-laced conservatives and for a lot of reasons I don't think I can really approach her about it. For the time being it will have to remain "just" a crush, but it's the kind of secret that I feel like delightfully hugging to myself and smiling when I think about it.

So, does anyone have any advice on how to begin exploring my new curiosity?

 

[board6969]

is it just her or are you starting to look at other women aswell ?

 

[pagemaster]

Just her, I think.

There were two other women who've caught my attention in the past few days as well, but nothing like the sheer fascination I have for my co-worker. The other two are clearly a couple, so I've spent some time just observing them.

Now that I think about it, all three of them have similar body type and hair cuts. Maybe that's what's catching my eye.

In any case, the other two, while fun to watch, don't make me tingle the way she does.

I'll admit, when I realized that today, it was a little bit of a shock!

 

[board6969]

its a tough spot with a co-worker if you do anything and she doesn't the same someone could lose there job i feel for you hun

 

[Mujer_Bonita]

I totally understand how u feel... It wasnt until the last year or so where my thoughts about other woman began. I have gone as far as kissing another girl but that was it... I would like to experience being with woman but I can be a little shy. I do agree with board6969 it could really cause some issues if things go bad and u work with the girl.

 

[pagemaster]

She doesn't normally work in my office, she was "on loan" while we were having some staffing issues, but she does work in my building. It might be to my (mental) advantage that I don't work with her regularly.

In the year that I've worked here, I think I've seen her once or twice, but never actually LOOKED at her until yesterday.

So, perhaps there's hope?

 

[board6969]

Page if it is only this girl you like might be best to just enjoy the crush while it lasts

 

[Little Bird]

My idea would be not to rush things. Noticing you're not completely heterosexual happens quite suddenly, but really realizing what it means to you takes time, even if you don't feel uncomfortable about it.
Just take some time thinking about it and same sex relationships in general.

Which is not to say I'd advice against pursuing this current thing further. You at least seem to like her, so just getting to get to know her better wouldn't hurt, even if it turns out to be nothing but a temporary crush.