Newbie sub looking for experienced sub for mentorship/friendship

[Charliegrl81]

I am new to this lifestyle and I have found a Daddy who’s perfect for me. Sometimes I have questions and while I always go to Daddy first, I also want to hear from someone who has been in my shoes. My vanilla friends don’t get it, so my Daddy encouraged me to seek out someone here who is also a sub to learn from and hopefully become friends. Women only please!

 

[htester]

You definitely don't need a mentor. I would suggest just posting to some of the groups the questions you have In how to or BDSM talk. There used to be a couple ask a woman or complaint groups, but I don't know if they are still around or not. Also if you are a member of fet life they have a couple groups as well. However you are correct to not want to get all of your answers from your dom. I would suggest taking advantage of the numerous kink books that are available on amazon. Anton fulman is great for defining what a healthy bDSM relationship is. Tristan taormino has put out numerous books on practical applications from a female perspective. She also has videos on her puckerup site. As for finding another person to be friend, It is good to have someone outside your dom to bounce ideas off of, but pay attention to the profiles of people who post and reach out to a couple to see if you can bounce questions off of them. Good luck

 

[LiverpoolMaster]

As if. The clue is in the final sentence.

 

[Amandyla]

I am new to this lifestyle and I have found a Daddy who’s perfect for me. Sometimes I have questions and while I always go to Daddy first, I also want to hear from someone who has been in my shoes. My vanilla friends don’t get it, so my Daddy encouraged me to seek out someone here who is also a sub to learn from and hopefully become friends. Women only please!

Please feel free to contact me privately. I've been in the lifestyle for quite sometime and it is nice to always have someone to share and chat with.