Steamrunner
Experienced
- Joined
- Jul 19, 2016
- Posts
- 98
Hi,
First, apologies to those who've seen my post before in the Welcome and UK kink threads. Having done lots of reading and chatting with a few people, I felt it was time to get a bit more exposure.
New guy here (hi, hey, how you doing) - north-west London, UK. I first signed up to Lit just looking to find people to chat to, but recent conversations have led me to look for more...
I am exploring my potential as a Dom. Whilst I've never deliberately intended to be dominant, and I try to be "a nice guy", I must admit that there are many occasions where, looking back, the behaviour was quite Dominant. Not in abusive way - never abusive - but in being firm (I'm not ready for you to cum yet), or instructive (taking women shopping for toys and explaining how they will be used on them), or loving (punishment for masturbating when I'm not there, or being cheeky or teasing me). Always within boundaries, always consensual, always considerate to her needs. I accommodate the need for instruction, guidance, affirmation - I will never criticise or judge beyond what you need me to.
I'm not looking to get my kicks of having power over women; far from it. It just seems like women enjoy being commanded by me - want to be commanded by me - and perhaps this is something that I can use to enrich someone else's life.
This is still something new to me; I'm learning and ideally I'm looking for someone to learn with, or who is already an experienced sub who can guide me as I grow.
Full disclosure:
I am a 43y/o married man with a vanilla wife who will not be part of anything that happens.
I am looking for a primarily online relationship (at which I have a lot of experience, and shall we say 'satisfied customers'), or one with infrequent meetings - perhaps more often if you work in Central London. I am not looking to be a sugar daddy, and I am not looking for someone who needs to be abused in an extreme way, however I am happy to explore such things as I/we grow.
I enjoy sexual chat/role play, I will make you cum as we chat (sometimes - if I want you to) and I will share stories/scenarios/images/video with you to illustrate or titillate as necessary. I would like to try Lovense toys perhaps, and I will discuss and guide you in the use of a number of toys.
Above all, and I cannot stress how important this is to me, I will respect you and work to earn your trust as you do mine.
Happy to get PMs, whether it's introductions or pointers. Always open to receive constructive criticism. If it sounds like I'm not ready, feel free to tell me - I'm learning!
Hope that makes sense! Questions, comments, sighs of exasperation at my .sig - all welcome below.
First, apologies to those who've seen my post before in the Welcome and UK kink threads. Having done lots of reading and chatting with a few people, I felt it was time to get a bit more exposure.
New guy here (hi, hey, how you doing) - north-west London, UK. I first signed up to Lit just looking to find people to chat to, but recent conversations have led me to look for more...
I am exploring my potential as a Dom. Whilst I've never deliberately intended to be dominant, and I try to be "a nice guy", I must admit that there are many occasions where, looking back, the behaviour was quite Dominant. Not in abusive way - never abusive - but in being firm (I'm not ready for you to cum yet), or instructive (taking women shopping for toys and explaining how they will be used on them), or loving (punishment for masturbating when I'm not there, or being cheeky or teasing me). Always within boundaries, always consensual, always considerate to her needs. I accommodate the need for instruction, guidance, affirmation - I will never criticise or judge beyond what you need me to.
I'm not looking to get my kicks of having power over women; far from it. It just seems like women enjoy being commanded by me - want to be commanded by me - and perhaps this is something that I can use to enrich someone else's life.
This is still something new to me; I'm learning and ideally I'm looking for someone to learn with, or who is already an experienced sub who can guide me as I grow.
Full disclosure:
I am a 43y/o married man with a vanilla wife who will not be part of anything that happens.
I am looking for a primarily online relationship (at which I have a lot of experience, and shall we say 'satisfied customers'), or one with infrequent meetings - perhaps more often if you work in Central London. I am not looking to be a sugar daddy, and I am not looking for someone who needs to be abused in an extreme way, however I am happy to explore such things as I/we grow.
I enjoy sexual chat/role play, I will make you cum as we chat (sometimes - if I want you to) and I will share stories/scenarios/images/video with you to illustrate or titillate as necessary. I would like to try Lovense toys perhaps, and I will discuss and guide you in the use of a number of toys.
Above all, and I cannot stress how important this is to me, I will respect you and work to earn your trust as you do mine.
Happy to get PMs, whether it's introductions or pointers. Always open to receive constructive criticism. If it sounds like I'm not ready, feel free to tell me - I'm learning!
Hope that makes sense! Questions, comments, sighs of exasperation at my .sig - all welcome below.
