Newbie conservative seeking out liberal side

[CarnalDesires]

Hello all.

I’m new here and this is my first post. Yay! I figure the best way to get started is to get straight to the point and tell you a little about me and my chief objective. I’m a 22 year old college student who has always been very conservative and religious. However, I have this wilder side of me that I’ve always wanted to let out but have always kept subdued because of my background and the views of my family and friends. I’m about to graduate and I’ve just recently gotten married… and now I realize that I never allowed myself to experience all the sexual promiscuity associated with college life – and even more importantly – how much I really want to experience it! I’m experienced enough, though, to know that if I don’t fulfill those curiosities and desires, I will always wonder and never truly be happy. Even though I’m happily married and love my wife deeply, I find myself wondering and fantasizing about other women more and more. I’m starting to really get turned on by the idea of secret sex partners, hot fuckbuddies and doing all those other things of that nature that people in my personal life “know” I would never do. I want to finally be able to unleash that “bad” side of me.

Is there anyone else out there like me? or am I just a weirdo perv and a bad husband? If there is anyone out there sympathetic to my situation, I’d like to hear your feedback… and maybe even get together eventually if it works out that way. This seems to be the only way I can think of to ever have the chance of acting out any of those desires without getting caught or changing my life completely… because as far as anyone who knows me is concerned I will be no different. The thought of leading a double life is pretty exciting too, don’t you think?!

Though I think it would be ideal to find and hookup with someone in a similar situation as I and my general age range, all I need is someone who understands and wants some great no-strings sex on the side. Please contact me if you are even slightly interested in what I have written and we can just let things evolve naturally from there. Oh… one last thing you may be wondering. I am told I’m quite attractive. We can swap pictures and the like on an individual basis.

 

[WetPussyLicker]

I've been wondering around Lit now for a little while and reading posts wondering the same thing. I'm in a similar situation. Just wanted to let you know there's at least one person out here sympothetic to your situation. It's just to bad we are both straight men. haha.

 

[babydoll2u]

Hello all.

I’m new here and this is my first post. Yay! I figure the best way to get started is to get straight to the point and tell you a little about me and my chief objective. I’m a 22 year old college student who has always been very conservative and religious. However, I have this wilder side of me that I’ve always wanted to let out but have always kept subdued because of my background and the views of my family and friends. I’m about to graduate and I’ve just recently gotten married… and now I realize that I never allowed myself to experience all the sexual promiscuity associated with college life – and even more importantly – how much I really want to experience it! I’m experienced enough, though, to know that if I don’t fulfill those curiosities and desires, I will always wonder and never truly be happy. Even though I’m happily married and love my wife deeply, I find myself wondering and fantasizing about other women more and more. I’m starting to really get turned on by the idea of secret sex partners, hot fuckbuddies and doing all those other things of that nature that people in my personal life “know” I would never do. I want to finally be able to unleash that “bad” side of me.

Is there anyone else out there like me? or am I just a weirdo perv and a bad husband? If there is anyone out there sympathetic to my situation, I’d like to hear your feedback… and maybe even get together eventually if it works out that way. This seems to be the only way I can think of to ever have the chance of acting out any of those desires without getting caught or changing my life completely… because as far as anyone who knows me is concerned I will be no different. The thought of leading a double life is pretty exciting too, don’t you think?!

Though I think it would be ideal to find and hookup with someone in a similar situation as I and my general age range, all I need is someone who understands and wants some great no-strings sex on the side. Please contact me if you are even slightly interested in what I have written and we can just let things evolve naturally from there. Oh… one last thing you may be wondering. I am told I’m quite attractive. We can swap pictures and the like on an individual basis.

I can be sympathetic, but on the opposite side. I'm a married - now separated - woman, who had the same desires. Hubby found out and left me, taking our 4 yr old son with him.

IF you TRULY love your wife as "deeply" as you say you do, then use your "wild side" on your her, act out your fantasies with her, rather than seeking satisfaction elsewhere.
On the other hand... if you want your fun so bad that you're willing to risk losing her, then go for it. Just don't cry over the consequences. Trust me, I've learned the hard way.

Good luck

 

[CarnalDesires]

Thanks for the input. My relationship with my wife is actually really great. I’m only seeking sexual fulfillment that I won’t/can't get with my wife. In fact I have her approval to seek it elsewhere… in a manner of speaking. Just trying to fill you in a little bit on my situation without getting too detailed. If I’ve raised more questions than answers, however, pm or email me and I’ll be happy to explain further if you are interested. Anyone else have any contributions?