New with an older gent

[Kblondie1]

Hello everyone. I have involved myself with an "older" man. I'm 41 and he's 56. He's had super vanilla sex his entire life but keeps mentioning that he wants to "submit" to me. Here is the caveot.....our last tryst, I noticed an erection enhancing drug in his luggage. I'm into orgasm denial but I'm afraid since he has "issues" that wouldn't be the best thing for him. Can anyone here relate? Any advice for someone who has never experienced anything but missionary sex his entire life? He had never even been ridden his WHOLE LIFE!!! Never orgasmed in someone's mouth.

 

[abvt75]

I would recommend that you discuss the side effects of the sexual enhancement drug with the individual as it wouldnt be safe for him and his health. Its a risk not worth for him. If its deal breaker for you then you have to move on different ways of fulfilling the mutual sexual desires you have with this man.

As far as teaching him various positions of sex.... you could tell him about exploring this website to get himself knowledgeable so both if you can enjoy. He can also rea stoies, watch videos... read Kamasutra.... there are many options. Since he is vanilla , you will have to be very patient with him, in short teach him ... if he doesnt follow instructions.... feel free to punish him