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[curiouswife19]

Okay im new here with a question. Hope yall dont mind answering. My husband and i are pretty newly married but have been together for years so we were wanting to spice things up. We have decided to try roleplay. Well he already knows i like to be dominated and whatnot, so we wanted our first to be a mock rape. So here is the actual question. How do i make it seem more real and not just like my husband is pretending to rape me?

 

[whalee]

How real do you want to go? I'm imagining there is a lot of anger involved in real rape. Do you want to go there? How out of control do you really want to be and the "role" to get?

 

[whalee]

Besides anger there has got to be immense fear. Are you willing to step that far out in your emotions? Real rape is not a game. It's not a woman playing very hard to get then when the man can no longer take the tease, he over powers her and takes her. I just think you have to really think about the ramifications of trying to create a rape scene. Rape isn't a sex tool.

 

[VelvetDarkness]

There's loads of info on this over on the BDSM Forum. You might find these threads interesting:

Question about consensual rape scenes

Rape roleplay

Check out the BDSM Library sticky too, I'm sure there's useful stuff in there.

 

[infinity706]

Okay im new here with a question. Hope yall dont mind answering. My husband and i are pretty newly married but have been together for years so we were wanting to spice things up. We have decided to try roleplay. Well he already knows i like to be dominated and whatnot, so we wanted our first to be a mock rape. So here is the actual question. How do i make it seem more real and not just like my husband is pretending to rape me?

I'm not sure that sounds like the best idea. In real rape, there's a good chance of being seriously injured. I can't really think of a good way to safetly replicate it. If you did, though, it would probably involve you being taken totally by surprised and subdued with a lot of force. It would be him surprising at a time and/or place you wouldn't expect and leading to a violent struggle.
For example, you're out for a walk by yourself. You're walking down an alley and he sneaks up beind you and knocks you to the ground.
I have a feeling, you might want to make it a little less realistic.

 

[bambikiller]

I know you just want to play a game, we're not talking any thing voilent here and you want it to be kind of a surprise.
I went out with a girl who had a rape fantacy and here's what I did. But now if you read any farther you are going to know what it is so maybe you should have him read the rest.

I was dating the girl not living with her at the time but you can do this still.
There are two ways that I did it. I sneaked in here apt. when she was asleep
(it was late at night) I started tying her arms up when she woke. Yes she knew it was me and I banged her. The other time was a more scarrier gameI discounted her phone (before cell phones) made some noise when I was in. Yes she was scarred at first but then I said "Oh what do we have here alittle slut, You better keep quite if you know whats good for you" or somthing like that. Of course she knew if was me as soon as I said the first word but thats what I wanted, it was just a game not anything real, a little scare like Holloween its fun because it's not real.
Oh the second time I had a butter knife in my hand.

 

[curiouswife19]

Lol. Iguess i should have thought about this first. I mean i think about it plenty,here i shall explain. I suppose i didnt mean more real. We have a safe word, but we have to actually plan for it because he works away and isnt home often.AND we havea four month old. Sponteneity isnt a luxury right now but, i guess i was asking for little details i could put into it instead of ways to make it real

 

[sugarisnice]

Lol. Iguess i should have thought about this first. I mean i think about it plenty,here i shall explain. I suppose i didnt mean more real. We have a safe word, but we have to actually plan for it because he works away and isnt home often.AND we havea four month old. Sponteneity isnt a luxury right now but, i guess i was asking for little details i could put into it instead of ways to make it real

The way to make it seem real is to let your husband do all the planning. He works away? He could easily choose to come home a night earlier than you expect. He will already know if you have your child staying with grandma or someone else over the night. Then he makes the arragements to take you by surprise any time, any place, any where. If you have a safe word, he knows it and should respect it. That is one way to do what you want. But, there are tamer ways to role play, such as wearing costumes in the bedroom, or greeting him at the door in a seethrough negligee.