new --- trying to find reality in the fanasty

[Dude0000]

hello,

I am 20 y/o and going to school at U of I for engineering. I have always been interested in being submissive (very very submissive) but I really haven't be able to find any kind of outlet.

I have been experimenting a lot with several of my friends engaging in threesomes and foursomes. But really I don't know how to branch out from this to more of the sexual experience I'm looking for.

Where do you start when looking to experiement sexually with BDSM? How do you get out of your head and into reality?

Mel

 

[morninggirl5]

Welcome Dude, to the BDSM forum. If you haven't already done so, please read the Sticky at the top of the forum. It will help you get to know who we are here and how the community came to be.

The following thread was designed to have lots of links for newbies to discovering themselves.

http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=73517


There is a lot of information here, for newbies, as well. Just do a forum specific search using the term newbie and you will find a bunch of threads that address different aspects of BDSM for those of us new to exploring it.

 

[Daddyslilpet]

Hiya Dude, Welcome to Lit.

Come on in and have some fun.



dixi

 

[Never]

That's odd, I've spent years trying to find the fantasy in reality.