New to this

[RedJuniper]

OK, so I am kinda new to all of this, and I am just looking for input from people like me!!

I have recently found that I like pain. Not in extream measures, but I have not explored it all that much yet!!

It all happend when I was in the middle of some particullarly vigurose activity and his hands slipped from my chest to my throat and it choked me. I have to say it sent me right over the edge. I have bee n trying new, and more painfull things since then.

so my question is.....what do you like? What is the most painfull thing you have done, and or had done to you?

I guess I am looking for things that might interest me!!

 

[RedJuniper]

No one has anything to say? Too bad, I am very open to suggestions. Give me a few and we can talk.

 

[Blushing Bottom]

Welcome to the board.


Jump in and have fun.

edited to say: perhaps you'll learn something here.

 

[Evil_Geoff]

No one has anything to say? Too bad, I am very open to suggestions. Give me a few and we can talk.

This is perhaps why no one has responded. The initial post reads like a troll hunting for fantasy fuel. Not saying that is your intent, but there are several hundred threads on this forum about various BDSM activities. Have you bothered to see what's already out there?

Your question is, literally, as general as "I don't know what I want to do when I get out of college. Any suggestions?" Since we know absolutely nothing about you (beyond you saying that your SO accidently choked you and you got off on it), how in the world could we possibly make suggestions for things for you to try?

Lit is slap full of erotica, stories about pain, suffering, humiliation. Read some. What gets you hot? Have questions about a _specific_ kind of activity? Then we've narrowed the field down to something we can focus on.

Wanna try new things? Try flogging. Or caning. How about needle play? Cutting? Branding? Electrical play? Water sports? Scat? Humiliation? Age play? Bondage? Mummification? Roleplay? Interogation? Objectification? Puppy/kitty/pony/other animal play? Anal play? Spanking? Do you want to be a slave, serving his every whim? Do you just want kinky sex? Do you want to be kidnapped and ravished? We need more information about you if we're to help.

There are so many places to find information on BDSM in general, about D/s relationships, about SM activities. Read some of the excellent books on the subject, make use of the existing online resources. Not meaning this unkindly, but you know yourself and your fantasies far better than we do. What turns you on, gets you wet, gets your motor running?

Then we might have some decent advice to share.