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scorpio1121
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Really easy to make friends and do a lot of fun things but the best thing I can tell you is to hang back and watch for a bit. Find a room or group that interests you and slowly introduce yourself. Think of it like joining a gym. Most of the regulars wont pay you any attention because they don't think you will be around for very long. I t took me time to learn how to learn how to edit the signature and ect but it is most all on the control panel.
Wordsworth
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As far as advice? Just like any online or real-life community, participate. Before you seek to make connections have a bit of history behind you. Have a couple of hundred (hopefully brilliantly clever) posts behind you for people to peruse when they are trying to take a measure of our jib or whatever.
If that fails, rinse, repeat, and start over.
As far as advice? Just like any online or real-life community, participate. Before you seek to make connections have a bit of history behind you. Have a couple of hundred (hopefully brilliantly clever) posts behind you for people to peruse when they are trying to take a measure of our jib or whatever.
If that fails, rinse, repeat, and start over.
suckonsimon
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Welcome Joe. I've read your posts. Good start!
In terms of relating to the women on Lit, I'd say let them get to know you on the threads in open exchange where all can read. Don't be eager for pm exchanges while you are still something of a stranger, and a happily married stranger at that. I have some great friendships here with women as well as with men, and, for me, the best are the ones where there's an understanding that I love my wife and we have great sex. I get a sense that that's where you're at, and the good women of Lit will wish to respect that. Then of course there are all the guys pretending to be women who will want to get straight to lurid with you but I find that's a side-line of a site like this!
Anyway. I hope this goes well for you! Simon
In terms of relating to the women on Lit, I'd say let them get to know you on the threads in open exchange where all can read. Don't be eager for pm exchanges while you are still something of a stranger, and a happily married stranger at that. I have some great friendships here with women as well as with men, and, for me, the best are the ones where there's an understanding that I love my wife and we have great sex. I get a sense that that's where you're at, and the good women of Lit will wish to respect that. Then of course there are all the guys pretending to be women who will want to get straight to lurid with you but I find that's a side-line of a site like this!
Anyway. I hope this goes well for you! Simon
I definitely appreciate that advice. Yes I am definitely happily married and me and my wife enjoys flirting with new options everyday. We have a great relationship even after 9 years of being together. She loves the thought of me being on here chatting with women. The only conditions is if a conversation is getting interesting she wants to see. Which to me is no problem there. How many men have it as lucky as guys like us? I will take it slow and sit back and hang out for a bit and comment here and there where I feel my input can relate.
