New to the forum.

Why would we want to "flame away" at you? You've said or done nothing here to expose yourself as shamefully ignorant, prejudiced or trollish. :confused:
 
Exactly. You've taken your personal post to the personals forum like you're suppose to and you haven't come here asking for a dom, a sub, a master or where to find specific stories that none of us are going to know the answer to. You've done nothing to piss anybody off.

And while it's not necessary, you could post something in the New Faces, Come Say Hello thread. Some people read that thread to find out more about new posters. It's kind of a place to introduce yourself to those who want to know more about you.

Now, you have posted this thread in the talk forum and so I might tell you that this forum is for posting serious questions about something in BDSM or serious conversations abut something in the BDSM lifestyle. If you intend on using this thread for just getting to know you or maybe talking about things other than BDSM, it might have been better started in the cafe.

But, since you've now started this thread, you can use it to ask a question about BDSM or maybe start a thought provoking conversation about something BDSM related. What better way to get the regulars to know you than to make them think? Nothing in BDSM is cut and dried. You can post your views and give others a bit of insight about the real you in the process.

Oh, and there are some rules to follow. So far, you've done a good job with those, but if we want to call ourselves good regulars, we should provide a link to the forum rules, so you can continue as the good poster you have up to now. These are the rules and the basic how things are done, here.

Oh, here is a link to the BDSM library, where you can search different discussions about BDSM. Maybe someday you'll start a thread that will end up in the library. Oh, don't let Sir Winston know I said this, but we do have a few here that are sticklers for correct grammar and spelling. And it looks better if your thread does end up in the library. :cool:

Some Litsters use PYL and pyl to signify a dominant label or a submissive label in threads. Instead of using Master, Dom or Top, etc. they might use PYL. Instead of submissive, slave or bottom, they might use pyl. Those initials stand for pick your label. It's just a fancy way to keep everything simple and understandable in discussions. And no, it's not a rule to use this. This is just so you'll know what is is, when you see it in a post.

So, like Sir Winston has said, there is no need for a flame here. We flame trolls when they come here posting stupid threads. We flame idiots who post here with ridiculous questions that they should be able to answer for themselves, with a little work. We've seen a lot of that and some of the regulars are eager to pounce on them. Unless you turn into one of those, all I can say is welcome to the BDSM forum. :D
 
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