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Call me Essie :)
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Coming back to the BDSM Cafe

Coming back after a few years because I'm looking for a real, serious connection with some mind-blowing, nerve-tingling sex, spasm-inducing sex. Please check out my personal if you're patient, passionate and looking for a devoted, affectionate submissive.

I don't have many kinks but I think they fit in this tantalizing category.

- Bondage and restraints
- Rough, animalistic sex
- Spanking, flogging, etc
- Blindfolds
- Gags
- Hair pulling
- Was always curious about knife play
- Masochism
- Worship; Feet, Scrotum, Face, Dick (of course)
- Affection!
- Pet play

Other than that, I'm into very romantic, passionate, fiery sex.

Limits include:

- Anal sex (I'm a virgin)
- Bestiality
- Humiliation
- Bodily fluids
 
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Nice thread!
Is there anything you don't want done to you or that you won't engage in?
 
Eep, you're right!

- No anal.
- No scat.
- No bestiality.
- No golden showers.
- No receiving oral.
 
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Welcome.

The best thing you can do is just take your time.....more so with a physical encounter then an online one.....at least there you have the option of simply signing off or ignoring anyone that isn't meeting your vibe or crosses a boundary you don't want crossed.

Greeting spanks are in order.

I prefer a belt or my hand though to be honest. ;):devil:
 
Welcome.

The best thing you can do is just take your time.....more so with a physical encounter then an online one.....at least there you have the option of simply signing off or ignoring anyone that isn't meeting your vibe or crosses a boundary you don't want crossed.

Greeting spanks are in order.

I prefer a belt or my hand though to be honest. ;):devil:

I feel that the physical encounter would be so~ very hard for me to work up to. Plus a lot of being online is me passing the time with fun people and fun times, but I have, I'll admit, ignored and/or rejected people who I didn't want to continue talking with. Which is a reasonable way to go about it I think, :cool:

Okay possibly rude, but convenient as well. :eek:

Mehh..

In regards to the spanks:

That made me blush for a moment :eek:
 
I feel that the physical encounter would be so~ very hard for me to work up to. Plus a lot of being online is me passing the time with fun people and fun times, but I have, I'll admit, ignored and/or rejected people who I didn't want to continue talking with. Which is a reasonable way to go about it I think, :cool:

Okay possibly rude, but convenient as well. :eek:

Mehh..

In regards to the spanks:

That made me blush for a moment :eek:

And usually it being very hard is a damn fine thing indeed......*smirks and winks*

But seriously speaking......nothing is easy on the first try...though if it is something you are truly wanting, it is more then worth any discomfort you may feel along the way......besides, you may just find out, that just makes it all the more better. ;)

Hell I've never honestly put anyone on my ignore list. But that said, if I don't like someone, I don't let it get to me. I'm here to have fun, keep up with friends and meet new folks. If someone has a problem with that...that's their issue, not mine.

Just for a moment huh? Methinks you look blushing.....so I'm gonna have to work on getting that to last longer.

*grins wickedly as I unfasten my belt, pull it ever so slowly through it's loops, then bend it in half before grasping both hands and snapping it several quick times in succession* I do enjoy "problem solving". :devil:
 
Hell I've never honestly put anyone on my ignore list. But that said, if I don't like someone, I don't let it get to me. I'm here to have fun, keep up with friends and meet new folks. If someone has a problem with that...that's their issue, not mine.

Well, I've never put them on ignore. :catgrin:
 

Nothing to be sorry about. I was just teasing. :D


Dont mind him, he's only scary if someone feeds him after midnight.


""quickly puts pencil erasers on all Ken's pointy bits''


Welcome to lit darlin.

Hehehe. Oh dear....you have yet to see me scary. But it can be enjoyable to some. And funny enough, when I get a particular form of....scary......eating is surely on my mind.

Um.....what is with the erasers?
 
Hehehe. Oh dear....you have yet to see me scary. But it can be enjoyable to some. And funny enough, when I get a particular form of....scary......eating is surely on my mind.

Um.....what is with the erasers?
-giggles- I'm sure you are..... and I'm sure it is.

Dude, look at your mugshot, all them points man!
 
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