New to Dominance - some help

[sepher8125]

hi all, before I started posting I wanted to make sure I'm in the right place so hopefully u can help me out =P.

normally I'm a romantic guy, sinful lust and consensual sex has been primary fantasiies...however I've been speaking with a woman who wants to be taken control of...it turns me on to no end, and my vivid imagination has been running wild with thoughts of dominance.

am I in the right place to share these fantasies?

 

[O'Mac]

You're totally in the right place to talk about these fantasies and thoughts. Welcome to the BDSM boards!

 

[NemoAlia]

Just remember to put up little orange caution signs before you start talking -- it might be a wee bit slippery in here when you do.

 

[sepher8125]

thanks!

thanks for the replies...makes me feel at home now.

yeah the slippery posts, though scary, I find interesting. this should be fun!

 

[VelvetDarkness]

Curls up and makes herself comfortable

Would love to hear your fantasies, check out the BDSM section of the stories here too.

 

[catalina_francisco]

hi all, before I started posting I wanted to make sure I'm in the right place so hopefully u can help me out =P.

normally I'm a romantic guy, sinful lust and consensual sex has been primary fantasiies...however I've been speaking with a woman who wants to be taken control of...it turns me on to no end, and my vivid imagination has been running wild with thoughts of dominance.

am I in the right place to share these fantasies?

As long as they don't take the form of stories, then you are best to go to one of the relevent forums or have them published on Lit for comment.

Catalina

 

[Chicklet]

am I in the right place to share these fantasies?

I think it's good to note that if/when you DO share these fantasies, in this forum (as opposed to the story section) you're going to end up getting comments/advice that might not be what you aimed for. We'll tell you whether what you're thinking about is safe, give you tips on it, or tell you that it's too far out there and you shouldn't do it. just be ready for the critiques = )

 

[s_red830]

hi all, before I started posting I wanted to make sure I'm in the right place so hopefully u can help me out =P.

normally I'm a romantic guy, sinful lust and consensual sex has been primary fantasiies...however I've been speaking with a woman who wants to be taken control of...it turns me on to no end, and my vivid imagination has been running wild with thoughts of dominance.

am I in the right place to share these fantasies?

Welcome! I'm new too.

 

[sepher8125]

thanks again

again a thanks for the replies I'm not necessarily looking to share stories here(though I may begin to write some,they will go in the proper place) rather am looking for individuals with these same interests...primarily women whod love to share in the lust and passion of being dominated.

Reading the forums and reading about experiences and the lifestyle has really brought out the dom side of me, and its so hot!

 

[BigMich]

Im also new to this.

 

[A Desert Rose]

Im also new to this.

Oh please... take my hand. I can show you the way.

 

[A Desert Rose]

Oh my... I think I scared him off.

This is what happens when I try to flirt.

LMAO

Going back to bitch mode. You all had better watch out!

 

[SweetCherry]

Oh my... I think I scared him off.

This is what happens when I try to flirt.

LMAO

Going back to bitch mode. You all had better watch out!

See what happens with the virgins? They freak out and run away when someone's too forward. Good thing you didn't say it with a crop in one hand and a strap-on in the other.

 

[A Desert Rose]

See what happens with the virgins? They freak out and run away when someone's too forward. Good thing you didn't say it with a crop in one hand and a strap-on in the other.

Well, for that I'll call Eb. I'm sure she might, maybe, kinda, oblige... lol.

Contrary to what some think, I'm submissive through and through. But not with just ANYbody. ;-)

 

[@}-}rebecca----]

I'm submissive through and through

Not me my friend Miss Rose I am dominantly challenged

 

[Shankara20]

Oh my... I think I scared him off.

This is what happens when I try to flirt.

LMAO

Going back to bitch mode. You all had better watch out!

He did not run off, he just came the moment you reach out to touch him. At this very moment he is drawn up into the corner sucking his thumb and there is a bit of a mess on the floor by his computer. He has no idea what to do next. He wants more. But fear has a tight hold on him. That happens to many males the very first time they cum....



(I looked in his profile and in his sig is spam. I might be wrong, but I just used him to let out some of my own anger - hmmm I wonder if he is starting to get a hard on about thinking about being used by a man - a man in panties at that?)

(BigMich - If I am wrong about this I'll edit this post, be kinder in the future, and try to assure you that this place realy is safe - most of the time)

 

[Evil_Geoff]

Contrary to what some think, I'm submissive through and through. But not with just ANYbody. ;-)

How about with MY body? ;-)

 

[Evil_Geoff]

Not me my friend Miss Rose I am dominantly challenged

*grins impishly*

And which Dominant is making you feel challenged, hmmm?

 

[Evil_Geoff]

(I looked in his profile and in his sig is spam. I might be wrong, but I just used him to let out some of my own anger - hmmm I wonder if he is starting to get a hard on about thinking about being used by a man - a man in panties at that?)

IIRC I've seen BigMich around on Alt a time or two, so I I don't know if he's new to BDSM or just new to Lit...

 

[A Desert Rose]

How about with MY body? ;-)

Your body's already taken, doll. ;-)

 

[A Desert Rose]

He did not run off, he just came the moment you reach out to touch him. At this very moment he is drawn up into the corner sucking his thumb and there is a bit of a mess on the floor by his computer. He has no idea what to do next. He wants more. But fear has a tight hold on him. That happens to many males the very first time they cum....



(I looked in his profile and in his sig is spam. I might be wrong, but I just used him to let out some of my own anger - hmmm I wonder if he is starting to get a hard on about thinking about being used by a man - a man in panties at that?)

(BigMich - If I am wrong about this I'll edit this post, be kinder in the future, and try to assure you that this place realy is safe - most of the time)

LMAO

I looked at his sigline too and saw that spam. Of course, anyone who knows me knows that my first post to him was a great big joke. I don't initiate a flirt and rarely get flirted with.

I love your post, Shank... good job!!!

 

[Evil_Geoff]

Your body's already taken, doll. ;-)

But ADR, it IS available for rent. Cheap!

Gawd I'm such a play slut...

 

[Ebonyfire]

Well, for that I'll call Eb. I'm sure she might, maybe, kinda, oblige... lol.

Contrary to what some think, I'm submissive through and through. But not with just ANYbody. ;-)

Beating virgins? Moi? I have bigger fish to fry!! I like my meat seasoned...

Looking around for Shanky....

 

[Ebonyfire]

Oh my... I think I scared him off.

This is what happens when I try to flirt.

LMAO

Going back to bitch mode. You all had better watch out!

I think you were hilarious! If he can't take a joke then well, you know...

Eb

 

[Shankara20]

Beating virgins? Moi? I have bigger fish to fry!! I like my meat seasoned...

Looking around for Shanky....

My meat is well seasoned and very tasty....