cecilia2197
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Hi, I'm new to this forum. I had a sexual encounter that made me realize I was into bdsm so here I am
new to BDSM
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MeekMe
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Welcome! Here's the introduction stickie. It's located at the top of the board along with other useful topics, check them out.
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=974763
Ok?
BDSM is a pretty broad umbrella term and to be into just a little bit is totally ok. Also, to enjoy BDSM there is no d/s or m/s dynamic needed. Some people hate power exchange dynamics but love to be spanked.
Lord_Steve
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get up and slam, and welcome to the jam
Miss_Lucie
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I agree. I started off with just spanking and breath control, I researched and read more and it progressed to a D/S relationship.
Enjoy Cecilia, hope that you have fun exploring here!
Hello. I am a 43 yr old female and recently had an experience that made me realize I love being controlled, having my ass spanked and choked a bit. After reseating stuff online I found this community and decided to join. Looking forward to getting to know all of you.
CherylLee83
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Yes Great advice there
Everyone starts somewhere and moves forward at their own pace and style. No two people are alike and each finds their own way that allows them to realize their own "self". The worse thing to do is judge yourself against others and push yourself to be someone you aren't.
LicketySwich
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Going for it
My wife and I have just learned and came out to each other (not because of some movie but it was some time after a traumatic experience with infidelity, in an attempt to save my marriage) about how in to BDSM we are. We have always been kinky, enjoyed punishment and bondage on occasion and both have very high libidos. Its unfortunate we never gave this community much thought before, maybe because me wearing leather didn't appeal to me? Maybe we thought it was all about torture, metal studded leather outfits and dark menacing dungeons. Well, my wife and I have come to the conclusion that we are totally okay with now identifying as a "BDSMers"(at least to ourselves, each other, and this forum for now). We are much more in to 'suits and dresses' type scenes when I am the dom. I am a switch with women, my wife is a switch with men. We talked about group sex and hiring professional and legal services for us. I came out with my desire to (sexlessly)dominate other (heterosexual or bisexual)men without or with my wife there, as my sub or co dom in a scene, with or without sex afterwords. A man and my wife begging me and calling me master, all tied up and submissive all the same time sounds really enthralling! I have never done anything like that at all and I didn't even know that I wanted to do that until recently. We are beginning to transform our exorcize room in to a much more fun and exciting room with a mirror wall already installed. We are going to accessorize it with wall bars, hookers, as I like to call wall and ceiling hooks, for strapping to and swinging from etc. We are still trying to decide one a leather mat or another bed, one thing is for sure is I am probably going to spend G money this year on some new lifestyle choices Life seams a lot better with all of this excitement, that is for sure.
My wife and I have just learned and came out to each other (not because of some movie but it was some time after a traumatic experience with infidelity, in an attempt to save my marriage) about how in to BDSM we are. We have always been kinky, enjoyed punishment and bondage on occasion and both have very high libidos. Its unfortunate we never gave this community much thought before, maybe because me wearing leather didn't appeal to me? Maybe we thought it was all about torture, metal studded leather outfits and dark menacing dungeons. Well, my wife and I have come to the conclusion that we are totally okay with now identifying as a "BDSMers"(at least to ourselves, each other, and this forum for now). We are much more in to 'suits and dresses' type scenes when I am the dom. I am a switch with women, my wife is a switch with men. We talked about group sex and hiring professional and legal services for us. I came out with my desire to (sexlessly)dominate other (heterosexual or bisexual)men without or with my wife there, as my sub or co dom in a scene, with or without sex afterwords. A man and my wife begging me and calling me master, all tied up and submissive all the same time sounds really enthralling! I have never done anything like that at all and I didn't even know that I wanted to do that until recently. We are beginning to transform our exorcize room in to a much more fun and exciting room with a mirror wall already installed. We are going to accessorize it with wall bars, hookers, as I like to call wall and ceiling hooks, for strapping to and swinging from etc. We are still trying to decide one a leather mat or another bed, one thing is for sure is I am probably going to spend G money this year on some new lifestyle choices
Life seams a lot better with all of this excitement, that is for sure.
