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[muffladie69]

I'm very curious about becoming someone sub. I've never done anything like this but I am really interest in becoming one. So if you would like to be my master. Please pm me and we can talk more!

 

[kat_or_kitten]

I'm very curious about becoming someone sub. I've never done anything like this but I am really interest in becoming one. So if you would like to be my master. Please pm me and we can talk more!

I understand the curiosity and the desire to try something like this. I've also been learning by talking to different people over the last while.

But if you don't mind a bit of advice? Be cautious in your interactions, and be comfortable asking questions of other members if you're not sure about something. I've met some very nice and helpful people, but I've also met some bastards who don't understand that it takes time when you're just learning.

It's very easy to fall into the 'role' of submissive without fully understanding what it means. It is partly a Master's responsibility to help you with this, and a few people don't take that responsibility seriously. In my experience, the Dom who is open to questions is much better than the one who seeks to 'own' you without taking his/her time making you comfortable.

Everybody has different thresholds of course and maybe you'll find it easier than myself to get comfortable, but just remember that if your gut tells you something is wrong, trust that and move on.

And of course, ask questions! Most of the people here are very nice.

 

[boobsqueeezer]

I understand the curiosity and the desire to try something like this. I've also been learning by talking to different people over the last while.

But if you don't mind a bit of advice? Be cautious in your interactions, and be comfortable asking questions of other members if you're not sure about something. I've met some very nice and helpful people, but I've also met some bastards who don't understand that it takes time when you're just learning.

It's very easy to fall into the 'role' of submissive without fully understanding what it means. It is partly a Master's responsibility to help you with this, and a few people don't take that responsibility seriously. In my experience, the Dom who is open to questions is much better than the one who seeks to 'own' you without taking his/her time making you comfortable.

Everybody has different thresholds of course and maybe you'll find it easier than myself to get comfortable, but just remember that if your gut tells you something is wrong, trust that and move on.

And of course, ask questions! Most of the people here are very nice.

I have highlighted those parts that i found to be best and I completely agree....

Yesterday, I met a novice submissive who was exploring her submissive side. A very elderly lady of 51 yrs. She was NOT sure if she was really a submissive...but felt she was indeed a submissive. She had always felt a need to be dominated since her teens, she said.

She talked a lot and asked a lot of questions and was open to my questions answering them patiently and intelligently.

This submissive female had a low pain threshold and wanted a gentle hand to lead her into this lifestyle....so she was clear about what she wanted and she was clear that she should be careful about the person she choosed. She was ready to be under me as an Online Submissive to be trained...and we are at present working out on her timings..(we are half a day apart and so timezone differences were to be discussed..). I was tempted to share this is a good way for a new submissive/slave to start with....find a person who is willing to discuss. It is NOT worth the hurt that you will undergo later when things go awry!

Here I am reminded of one sub who met a person online and travelled to meet her dom for a session..the person asked, if she had ever given a blow job as soon as she entered...(she was a virgin in all three holes!) and then zipped down and asked her to give him a bj...after that..he asked her to go to couch...and then asked her if she was sure ...as a submissive she felt she had to submit herself and nodded..(then u know what would have happened).

After that.. he gave her a bottle of water to drink and said "Please leave. Thank you. My girl friend is to come here shortly!" And lead her out!!!! This is NOT an isolated case....I would suggest beware and be aware to whom you offer yourself. There are countless subs who tired of fakes and fraud doms/masters chose to be away from the lifestyle until life and time itself leads a master to them and stopped their search!

There are good ones, tough ones, easy ones, lenient ones, and then...there are lots of fraud/fake ones too! So, it is better to be careful before than repent later!


It was a good point kat...I really appreciate your guidance to a novice!

Regards,
Online Orient Master of the East (from India)

 

[boobsqueeezer]

I'm very curious about becoming someone sub. I've never done anything like this but I am really interest in becoming one. So if you would like to be my master. Please pm me and we can talk more!

If you are interested I would take you under my wings....but I train only ONLINE. This is due to geographical reasons among others....

If you are interested, my yahoo id is available in my profile to message me via messenger. I can lead you and help you explore your submissive side. We can discuss....if you wish!


Dominatingly yours,
Online Orient Master of East (India).

 

[boobsqueeezer]

I've never done anything like this but I am really interest in becoming one.

Also look at: Useful Links to learn about entering a submissive life .... good thread! Use it!