Aisline2007
Virgin
- Joined
- Sep 29, 2023
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Hello to everyone! I have recently discovered my inner sub and have had a lot of great conversations with people helping me to unlock things inside. And through those conversations, I have determined that I think I'd like to find someone to help me further along this path. Basically, I'm a sub, looking for a Dom.
What I am looking for:
1. Someone with whom I can have a great conversation. Someone who brings intelligence, wisdom, humor, wit, and stimulation to a conversation. I believe a D/s relationship starts with a good foundation, and if you can't have a discussion,there is no trust/intimacy that can be developed.
2. Someone experienced and creative. Someone who gives tasks and takes control. The whole point of giving up control is to have someone take it over. If I have to be the one coming up with things and tasks, that defeats the purpose.
3. Someone strict. Demanding, but kind. Who realizes hard limits, pushes right up against them, but never crosses. Gives tasks and ideas that will push me outside my comfort zone, but in a safe way.
4. Who is interested in something more than just the sexual part of a D/s relationship, while still keeping that as the focus?
Does this person even exist? If you think you might fit the bill, please respond here or send me a DM. I don't know if my wants/needs in this post are even realistic because I'm so new to this whole world, it's embarrassing. If you have some insight or comments on this please let's chat!
What I am looking for:
1. Someone with whom I can have a great conversation. Someone who brings intelligence, wisdom, humor, wit, and stimulation to a conversation. I believe a D/s relationship starts with a good foundation, and if you can't have a discussion,there is no trust/intimacy that can be developed.
2. Someone experienced and creative. Someone who gives tasks and takes control. The whole point of giving up control is to have someone take it over. If I have to be the one coming up with things and tasks, that defeats the purpose.
3. Someone strict. Demanding, but kind. Who realizes hard limits, pushes right up against them, but never crosses. Gives tasks and ideas that will push me outside my comfort zone, but in a safe way.
4. Who is interested in something more than just the sexual part of a D/s relationship, while still keeping that as the focus?
Does this person even exist? If you think you might fit the bill, please respond here or send me a DM. I don't know if my wants/needs in this post are even realistic because I'm so new to this whole world, it's embarrassing. If you have some insight or comments on this please let's chat!
