The guy I enjoy sex with the most was an asshole. And he never lacked having some girl in his bed. That is not only one of the reasons he was so good in bed, but also the reason I stopped having sex with him. Unfortunately for me, I'm not really good about going after a guy that I want. And any sex partners after the old flame have been TERRIBLE.Is that my fault that the other guys have not been so great or is this a 50/50 blame situation. And how do I make it better?