New Here.... I Don't Get It

[SUPERJET]

Hiya gang......... I'm new here but not new to the site. I very much enjoy the exibitionist stories..... Sparkzone is one of my favorite authors.

Now heres what I don't get......... I don't understand why so many stories are about flashing the wife in public .... so as to find another man..... or lucky stranger to actually have sex with her.
I understand that it may be a fantasy of some guys......... but I don't understand why it is.

If I could get the wife out there in a short skirt with no undies on....... I would want it for myself to enjoy and for her to enjoy.... the thought of some stranger....or even a male friend being able to enjoy seeing the wifes goods or even letting them have access to her. I just can't imagine.

I like the idea of the wife and I going ........ lets say bowling in a not so crowded bowling ally with her wearing a butt revealing mini skirt...... you know.... her bending everytime she throws the ball and her naked butt being on display.......... but the thought of a bunch of guys hangin out watching her every move kinda makes me feel uncomfortable...... and also like its not their bussiness.
And why then would I want to share this hot creature with them?

Another thing that I just don't get is all the stories about white women wanting to have sex with black men.... why is that? I can't think of very many stories of black women just wanting to have sex with white men........ where are they? Or how about stories of white guys telling their wives that they just gotta have a black girl........ So why so many about white women wanting black men? I just don't get it I guess.

I'll be back for more......... soon
Super Jet

 

[cantdog]

There are more things in heaven and earth...

I was an ambulance attendant for ten years. People dress their act up if you visit, but when they've called an ambulance, they don't hide it so well. I can tell you unequivocally: people live wildly different lives from each other. The houses may look the same, but the modes of living within them do not follow the pattern.

Even advocates of conventional morality are putting on a public face, most of them. You can ask a cop or ask an ambulance attendant-- both jobs put you right in the slice-of-life spot, trying not to go wow. And I don't mean just kinks, either. The basic assumptions you have about how life is lived you don't have in common with nearly as many people as you imagine.

The last criterion people strive for is that is should make sense. It's nice if it makes sense, but that one is pretty far down the list.

Remeber the Harvard Law of Animal Behavior. Under controlled conditions the organism will do what it damned well pleases.

cantdog

 

[Boxlicker101]

Hi, Supe and welcome to the AH.

I have two stories listed as exhibitionist and both of them are in the first person. In one, the narrator and a woman give each other hand jobs in a restaurant and in the other, the narrator dry humps with a woman in an elevator. I see nothing wrong with a woman getting off on flashing strange guys or with her husband getting off on her doing it. The subsequent threesome would be frosting on the cake, especially if it is a true threesome, with the husband a bi.

All my interracial stories involve the narrator, who is white, and women who are Black, Chinese or Japanese. I have also had a Black woman in a group sex story and a bondage story. I have never had a Black man in any of my straight stories but I probably will next year. When I do, I will avoid stereotypes because I don't like them. I have had black men in some of my gay stories.

 

[Virtual_Burlesque]

SUPERJET,

I don’t think there are ALL THAT MANY readers who would actually like to have what you just describe happen to them (some yes, but not many) However, readers do like to read about such events, providing it can be written hot enough, without any detail that squicks them.

It sounds like you have been grazing in the wrong category, if you are not enjoying the fetish you are reading. Just from what you mentioned here, you might find stories that are more to your liking in Erotic Couplings or Exhibitionist & Voyeur.

I wish I could recommend one of my stories, but the closest any story of mine gets is in Phantom of the Rush Hour, about a woman getting groped aboard a mid-town bus.

Go to the Category Index, and try out a few different categories.

Don’t forget the Winter Holiday Contest has just started, so there will be plenty of Holiday-Theme stories showing up in the New category, right now.

When you do find a story that you like, that seems well-written to you, write the author and let him know, either through Feedback or Public Comment. Also Vote for the story if it seems well-written. That just might be the incentive needed for the author to write another one.


To answer your other question about why women might want to have sex with black men, I will refer you to two of our Author’s Hangout regulars.

First look for a posting by Blacksnake and look at the AV – the picture to the left of the post.

If you are still wondering, address your question specifically to another member, Svenskaflika. She will be happy to explain. But WHATEVER you do, don’t EVER make the mistake of shortening her name to Sven !

 

[sweetnpetite]

I like the idea of the wife and I going ........ lets say bowling in a not so crowded bowling ally with her wearing a butt revealing mini skirt...... you know.... her bending everytime she throws the ball and her naked butt being on display.......... but the thought of a bunch of guys hangin out watching her every move kinda makes me feel uncomfortable...... and also like its not their bussiness.
And why then would I want to share this hot creature with them?

Super Jet

You've very nearly answered your own question here.

The things people claim they do, or write stories about doing aren't always the things they really do.

Many people may fantasize about flashing there wife's goods to strangers, but wouldn't actually do it when it came down to it- so they write a story about it and fantasise. Or some people would so they write a story for those to read who get off on the fantasy.

I myself have a fantasy about being really loud during sex and being heard by the entire neighborhood- but for goodness sake! I wouldn't want it to be more than a fantasy!!! I'd never be able to face the neighbors again.

Then there's the thrill of risky sex behaviors- having sex in public or having sex with strangers. It's still thrilling to read about it, but there's no actual risk to self (unless Ashcroft is spying on your computer use...)

When you write a story about sharing your hot wife with other men, you get the thrill, but you don't actually have to share her. Or when you read a story like that, you can imagine her and in the story.

As for those who go beyond the fantasy, and why- I cannot really explain. Everyone has different sexual tastes and they like what they like just because they do. For every fetish or kink you or I have, there is someone who thinks it's sick and wrong, and even more who just don't understand.

Why do pointy shoes turn so many men on?

Why would anyone want to be tied up during sex?

Why do guys dream about threesome's and lesbians?

How come some people get turned on by causing others pain?


Such are the mysteries of life...

 

[Colleen Thomas]

Hiya gang......... I'm new here but not new to the site. I very much enjoy the exibitionist stories..... Sparkzone is one of my favorite authors.

Now heres what I don't get......... I don't understand why so many stories are about flashing the wife in public .... so as to find another man..... or lucky stranger to actually have sex with her.
I understand that it may be a fantasy of some guys......... but I don't understand why it is.

If I could get the wife out there in a short skirt with no undies on....... I would want it for myself to enjoy and for her to enjoy.... the thought of some stranger....or even a male friend being able to enjoy seeing the wifes goods or even letting them have access to her. I just can't imagine.

I like the idea of the wife and I going ........ lets say bowling in a not so crowded bowling ally with her wearing a butt revealing mini skirt...... you know.... her bending everytime she throws the ball and her naked butt being on display.......... but the thought of a bunch of guys hangin out watching her every move kinda makes me feel uncomfortable...... and also like its not their bussiness.
And why then would I want to share this hot creature with them?

Another thing that I just don't get is all the stories about white women wanting to have sex with black men.... why is that? I can't think of very many stories of black women just wanting to have sex with white men........ where are they? Or how about stories of white guys telling their wives that they just gotta have a black girl........ So why so many about white women wanting black men? I just don't get it I guess.

I'll be back for more......... soon
Super Jet

The key word is usually fantasy. People fantasize about a great many things that they aren't prepared to try in reality. For example the popularity of the non conscent section to women or the popularity of lesbian stories to straight maried women. Where your fantasy life roams is going to varry wildly from person to person, but you can bet every reader of gay male isn't a gay male. Every reader of interracial hasn't tried it and most likely wouldn't if offered.

I write mostly lesbian stories. I get feedback and PC's from curious, but straight women all the time. It's a fantasy. If you, as an author, can bring that fantasy to life in a story, you will hear from all kinds of folks who have/share it. I get alot of feedback from guys who fantasize about their wife and her best girlfreind hooking up.

A lot of couples read stories here, the flashing fantasy may fulfil his fantasy to show off his wife and her fantasy of sex with a stranger, so it's something a couple can read together to augment their sex life.

-Colly

 

[R. Richard]

As Colly has pointed out so well, what is written in Literotica is fantasy.

Some years ago I dated a real babe who liked to have, as I found out, more than one date scheduled at the same time for the same evening. I opted out because, as I told her, I was not going to die for her. However. some really heavy hittin' dude was willing to take the chance. They wrote up the results of his last date in the back pages of the newpaper under Obituaries.

It is wise to separate your fantasies from your real life.

JMHO.