New here; help me explore D/S?

[NewIndianSub]

Hi,

I'm a 24 year old female from India and I am fairly certain that I'm a sub. I've been involved in D/S play for a few months now. I'd love to have a better understanding of myself and explore my submissiveness, other kinks, dark fantasies, sexuality etc.

I also need to add this...I open up slowly. Two reasons to this- firstly, I'm new here and even D/S itself is relatively new to me. Secondly, I have quite a high bar to 'trust' someone. Not that I don't trust people; it's just that it takes me a lot longer to open up.

If there is anyone out there who can patiently engage in conversations with me, especially doms or subs, I'd love to know from them what their journey has been like. If there's anyone out there who's a dom and who can be a patient and caring mentor, I'd love to connect with him as well.

Thank you so much! Looking forward to your responses

 

[KoPilot]

You'd probably get better responses from the BDSM Personals board.

 

[IrisAlthea]

I think you will have better luck if you post in the personals section.
This forum is meant for discussions here in the forum.

Look around though and read some of the threads here. There are several recent threads started about being new to this and there is a whole library of threads on different topics.

 

[NewIndianSub]

Oh okay. Thanks IrisAlthea and KoPilot. Will do.

 

[desertslave]

Hi there and welcome!

For open discussions, just poke around the BDSM Talk and BDSM Cafe threads, read and post whenever you feel comfortable. Most people don't object to questions, even if they're in a PM. Be prepared for trolls to bother you just because you are new and they are rude. Conversation for learning purposes is mostly safer here than in the Personals.

 

[NewIndianSub]

Hi desertslave!

Thanks a lot. That helps. Let me read up stuff in Talk and Cafe then.