New here, A bit frustrated... Can anyone help? (Looking4specificW)

[bigjohnnyd2014]

An ALL-OUT-THERE Personal, Can any Ladies help?

Hello,

Where to start.... Ill just start writing and throw it all out there, this is just a shot in the dark anyways... what the hell...

Im an attractive fun 28 M, married and frustrated as hell... Ive never written this out, so here it goes...

And thats the problem, i love my wife very much, we have sex, but thats just it, its "just" sex, nothing really fun / exciting, i can count the number of positions we have tried on 1 hand, i can count the number of places on less than 1 hand... We make love around once a week, give or take.... She is just kinda a "good girl" and isnt interested much in experimenting with her sexuality or my fantasies.

So, I am learning alot about myself and my sexuality, i daydream all day long every single day, i have so many fantasies about sex its making me insane, so insane that i would post this to a bunch of strangers to view.

My sex drive is literally at its peak, yes even more so now than ever, i think i could F*** 6 times a day/night im so horny. I have not slept with any other girl before, but i desire to let this beast inside me out.

The only thing i can think of is to try to find a similar attractive woman in possibly a similar situation, but not required, someone to share fantasies with and play them out, someone to have passionate hot unrestricted ongoing discrete, no-strings-attatched sex.

IDEAL SCENARIO:

I dont know your real name, you dont know mine, i dont know where you live (unless you are comfortable hosting/doing that), you dont know where i live, we can communicate through an email address and let each other know when we are in need of some passionate love making and/or fantasy we want to play out, we plan it and keep the sexual meetings going for as long as we want to.

IS THERE ANYONE OUT THERE WHO NEEDS THIS GIRLS? Please PM me if you are interested in something like this,

I live in California would be willing up to 50 miles radius around Sacramento to meet for this kind of a thing.

(i attached a pic, its not me, but i look VERY similar to this.)

 

[bigjohnnyd2014]

Forgot to mention, we can start things out in chat, share some pics, hang out a bit, meet in public place or w/e, =)

 

[bigjohnnyd2014]

Anyone? I know it seems like a lot / pickey. But there has got to be someone out there that would be a good match for this.

 

[Curiouscouple8]

If you love your wife so much you shouldn't be looking to sleep with other ppl. You need to have a talk with your wife about your sex life. Tell her what your problem is.

 

[NiceNastyMann]

If you love your wife so much you shouldn't be looking to sleep with other ppl. You need to have a talk with your wife about your sex life. Tell her what your problem is.

Well now, its not like he doesn't love her. After all - look at all that he wants to do. Share the potential for STD's, papillomavirus, herpes, out of marriage pregnancy....

 

[PokingFun]

Hey now. He's not out here asking to be judged. Let the man be.

BigJohnny, I understand your plight. I acknowledge the other poster's concerns, but I think we can address them a little more politely. You are taking a risk by stepping outside your marriage, especially if she is as good girl as you imply. She probably will have an intense reaction if she finds out. There are also health risks and pregnancy risks, even with modern precautions.

Consider your idea of not knowing your partner. If you know them, and they have as much to lose as you do, they are more likely to respect your privacy and your health.

I am not a candidate and don't want to be, but I am around if you want to drop a PM to discuss.

 

[NiceNastyMann]

Hey now. He's not out here asking to be judged. Let the man be.

Not judging at all! I clearly only wish him, and his wife, the best!