Hello there. I'm a mixed race F in her 30s with a +1 and a worker bee in a flyover state who wanted a new way to hibernate. I have no formal BDSM training and have trust issues that keep me from alot of the parts of it that interest me. Someone said a site like this may be my speed since there are stories and conversations ( not just vids and pics ) and my mind is far from vanilla so here I am.