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[Danny xxx]

ok, im 21 and ive had a few relationships .. ive been chatting to an older woman (35) on the phone/net for a while, sharing fantasies etc.

now im meeting her tonight to a bit of fun, we both looking forward to it but im very nervous & worried at the thought that i might not 'perform' or cum too soon ...help! ?

lol i dont want to mess this up ...

 

[chelleb]

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[VelvetDarkness]

Easiest trick is to spank it before you go out the door. It'll calm you down and you'll last longer with your lady.

Couple of beers couldn't hurt either.

 

[Camilleon]

ok, im 21 and ive had a few relationships .. ive been chatting to an older woman (35) on the phone/net for a while, sharing fantasies etc.

now im meeting her tonight to a bit of fun, we both looking forward to it but im very nervous & worried at the thought that i might not 'perform' or cum too soon ...help! ?

lol i dont want to mess this up ...

I would suggest you tell her exactly what you've told us.

And then, take your time...

 

[Colton_White]

ok, im 21 and ive had a few relationships .. ive been chatting to an older woman (35) on the phone/net for a while, sharing fantasies etc.

now im meeting her tonight to a bit of fun, we both looking forward to it but im very nervous & worried at the thought that i might not 'perform' or cum too soon ...help! ?

lol i dont want to mess this up ...

she would be equally worried about 'how am I looking?' what would he think of my body? etc.etc.
so better for both of you is..don't be shy and tell it to each other what you are thinking/feeling I think then it'd be really comfortable and enjoying time.

 

[Paxter]

ok, im 21 and ive had a few relationships .. ive been chatting to an older woman (35) on the phone/net for a while, sharing fantasies etc.

now im meeting her tonight to a bit of fun, we both looking forward to it but im very nervous & worried at the thought that i might not 'perform' or cum too soon ...help! ?

lol i dont want to mess this up ...

I know your meet was for last night. But,I think it's safe to say that most men (and women?) would be anxious their first time with a new partner. So just enjoy the moment.

by the way - How did it go?

 

[subwannabe]

If you have had some experience I don't know what you are worrying about. Frankly I never understood these posts. The women I have been with don't even like a hard guy in them for hours and hours. They seem to like a lot of foreplay with me spending a lot of time fingering and licking their pussies to several orgasms and then I can basically do what I want after that. If I were to cum in less than two minutes they really wouldn't give a shit but, personally, I like it to take a while myself so I can enjoy it for a while too. You're worrying about it too much. Just be yourself and give her great sex.

 

[Xeekk]

I remember back when I was a virgin and went to go eat with a girl a friend introduced to me. She was interested in sex immediatly as under the table she would play games with her foot. Something I had never experienced before. She was a lot older than I was (still in her 20s).

I had no doubt I would perform flawlessly in all the kissing and play as I had plenty of experience with that, but I was so amazingly afraid i would cum early during intercourse.

The time came and being very instructional to this once confident now scared boy told me to go in. I take it slow and keep going, eventually after a lot of time we start changing positions, and 3 whole hours pass! Now I dont have this sort of success all the time, believe me, but I never thought id last that long.

Point to the story is you may perform completley opposite than what you are afraid of. Take it slow, very slow, going at it like teenage rabbits will only take you 15 minutes. I turn it into a relaxing time rather than a workout.