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[smart_and_sexytxgirl]

Here's the situation:

I'm a 25 year old woman, and I had always thought that I was straight vanilla. Recently, several people have outright asked, or implied that they thought i had lesbian or bi tendencies.

I want to explore this and see if I really do.

I know I love breasts, and can get very turned on by them. I also know that I have had fantasies about being with a woman. (one of them being my roommate)

With this said, I'm looking to explore. Maybe just online, maybe in person if we click. If nothing else, if you could tell me what you went through, and give me some advice, I would appreciate it.

Thanks for reading!

~Cae

PS my apologies if I posted this in the wrong section....I'm still figuring this site out....

 

[cockringerny]

You're in the right section and I hope you find a woman nearby to talk with.

But Im curious, if you dont mind....is your roommate gay or bi? Is she is, why not talk with her about it? Or is it something still too new to go so far with?

 

[smart_and_sexytxgirl]

You're in the right section and I hope you find a woman nearby to talk with.

But Im curious, if you dont mind....is your roommate gay or bi? Is she is, why not talk with her about it? Or is it something still too new to go so far with?

She is not. She is completely straight. And I can't tell her how I feel because that would change everything between us.

 

[blueberree]

sexuality

People have fantasies, preferences, experience and joy all along the spectrum from completely straight to completely lesbian/gay. On the one hand, a lot of women who are more or less straight get turned on by seeing a woman's body, or enjoying porn that involves two or more women having sex with each other. And they have fantasies about themselves in that role themselves or they are curious about the experience.

That you have a person specifically in mind might indicate that you are more interested in real experiences than fantasies. Or it might not. To me it is wise to consider your own sexuality and what appeals to you.

Do you live in an area that is friendly or not?

If you do decide to explore experiences, be careful and safe!

 

[Fmature2play]

Dear don't stress, label, analyze or even be overly concerned about it. At your lovely age you will experience it all more than once. Enjoy the things and more importantly the people that make you happy and give it back to them in return and the ride will be an enjoyable one I assure you.

 

[Nikki31]

What a thoughtful post.... It sounds like you are wise to explore your feelings and fantasies. I would love to chat with you or the other women in this thread.

 

[smart_and_sexytxgirl]

Thanks for replying! (to all three of you)

I am not sure where I stand.
I just know that I am confused and I want to figure it out.
I appreciate all the advice! Thanks a million!