Needs new ideas! Please help!

Minouners

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Hi there

I'm new at this site so I can't guarantee that I'm posting this on the right forum but I need your help. I am making a list of sexual things I want to do with my partner but my imagination is running short. Do you guys have ideas to add to my list?

To start my list is composed of softer stuff but would like any ideas.

These are a couple of examples I already have:
- Getting tied up and act as a slave
- Getting my lover to ejaculate all over my face with my mouth open
- Deep throat my partner so he can come down my throat
- Getting him to act as a rapist

And so on... just a few examples to get you started for ideas! The more the merrier! Thanks!

Minouners
 
get him to pretend he's a homosexual maniac and mistake u for a bloke :nana:
 
Lord Hungwell

yeah- my nic sounds arrogant, but hey! I am! so it sounds like you like cum-drinking and facials? You have other "ideas", but don't know how to get him to do it?? Also sounds like you need/want to be submissive? Can he handle being TOLD what to do? I get the feeling you need to teach him? I have many ideas if you are interested- I'm a lurker here mostly, but you intrest me.. maybe we can exchange info? I need to know more of what woman wants- got so much weirdass different shit from some girls... don't know what to xpect half the time... maybe ty him up and fuck him over hours when you feel likew it for starters? leave his eyes coverd and just fuck him at will?
 
I am also new to this but here is an idea. Have your partner bind you with silk scarves then tease you by oiling you and rubbing you down with his member till you climax on your own.
 
sounds good... but cept for one bitch who had a clit sooo big she'd cum by going to the bus-stop! (fuckin tight jeans- and i could stroke hre clt likea dick!!!) never seen a bitch like that since! miss her bigtime!
 
Sorry it took me so long to reply. I just moved and I just got the internet! I do have other ideas if you are interested. Wasn't sure if you wanted me to post them online or just send you a PM. Let me know either way. I am a very open minded person and I'll try anything at least once.

I would love to hear your ideas and opinions since like you said you need to know more about what women want, well I need to know more about what men want.

As for tying him up, I've done that a couple of times and it was good but I think he needs to work on lasting longer and I'm not sure how to help with that.

If it was up to me. It would be sex 24/7. But life is not that simple!

Minouners
 
Minouners said:
Sorry it took me so long to reply. I just moved and I just got the internet! I do have other ideas if you are interested. Wasn't sure if you wanted me to post them online or just send you a PM. Let me know either way. I am a very open minded person and I'll try anything at least once.

I would love to hear your ideas and opinions since like you said you need to know more about what women want, well I need to know more about what men want.

As for tying him up, I've done that a couple of times and it was good but I think he needs to work on lasting longer and I'm not sure how to help with that.

If it was up to me. It would be sex 24/7. But life is not that simple!

Minouners
I think it depends on what type of ideas you're looking for. If you're looking strictly for BDSM type fantasies or romantic or sensual... there are plenty for each category :)
 
At this point, I think I'm looking for any category. Maybe something sensual but then maybe something more kinky. Cause different days you have different moods.
 
Minouners said:
At this point, I think I'm looking for any category. Maybe something sensual but then maybe something more kinky. Cause different days you have different moods.
My favorite for a mix of romantic and fun is a bowl of fruit and chocolate syrup... tease each other... feed each other the fruit... dip it in the chocolate and rub it on each other's body's... there are a world of possibilities there ;)
 
As weird as it sounds. He really doesn't like to do anything with food. :(
It is a great idea though!
 
Minouners said:
As weird as it sounds. He really doesn't like to do anything with food. :(
It is a great idea though!
That bites :(

How about silk sheets and a bit of baby oil ;)
 
Yeah he likes that and we've done it before. I like it slippery! ;)
 
That sounds yummy.

But you see... my bf is kinda weird. Like usually it's the guy that wants to always have sex. It's not the case with him. I'm always the one who's horny and wants to do things all the time. I guess he's got a low sex drive.

Hence the reason why I wanted to try new things with him to get him more interested.
 
Tried spanking or whips? A little pain is a lot of fun. How about some hot phone sex as a tease? Being tied up is great. I love it, anyway. Tie him up and tease him for a while, make him almost cum and then stop several times. By the time you actually allow it, he'll cum so much and love it :nana: You have a vibrator? Run it up and down his hard cock. That'll drive him wild.
 
Minouners said:
That sounds yummy.

But you see... my bf is kinda weird. Like usually it's the guy that wants to always have sex. It's not the case with him. I'm always the one who's horny and wants to do things all the time. I guess he's got a low sex drive.

Hence the reason why I wanted to try new things with him to get him more interested.
Try printing out a short erotic story and leaving it on his pillow to find... or in his lunch box or in the bathroom :D

Send him some porn e-mail if he works in an office?
 
I haven't tried the whips or spanking just yet. I didn't want to scare him off. The vibrator is a good idea. I have a couple of toys that I use that I guess I never thought of using on him.

I'm slowly working on his bum so hopefully that'll be another option to explore.
 
pleaz_me said:
Try printing out a short erotic story and leaving it on his pillow to find... or in his lunch box or in the bathroom :D

Send him some porn e-mail if he works in an office?


What would be better. A story already written or something I should write myself?
 
Minouners said:
What would be better. A story already written or something I should write myself?
Start with something already written that you know he'd enjoy.


Then later you can surprise him with your own story. It can leave him *hints* of what you'd like HIM to do TO YOU ;)
 
pleaz_me said:
Start with something already written that you know he'd enjoy.


Then later you can surprise him with your own story. It can leave him *hints* of what you'd like HIM to do TO YOU ;)

That makes alot of sense. I'm sure I can find great stories on this site. Unless you already have stories that you know are good and would like to share??
 
Minouners said:
That makes alot of sense. I'm sure I can find great stories on this site. Unless you already have stories that you know are good and would like to share??
I don't know enough about you or your b/f to know what he would enjoy. Of course, the one I wrote is good :D
 
pleaz_me said:
I don't know enough about you or your b/f to know what he would enjoy. Of course, the one I wrote is good :D

Would you care to share it with me? Please?!
 
ima6uldv8 said:
Tried spanking or whips? A little pain is a lot of fun. How about some hot phone sex as a tease? Being tied up is great. I love it, anyway. Tie him up and tease him for a while, make him almost cum and then stop several times. By the time you actually allow it, he'll cum so much and love it :nana: You have a vibrator? Run it up and down his hard cock. That'll drive him wild.
You got THAT right!
 
You might try coating his cock and balls with massage oil and then stoak it it till hes on the very edge....then pop an ice cube in your mouth to finish him off...while at the same time rubbing the vibe up and down his shaft.

*shudders....*
 
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