Need to get this off my chest

[BlackSatinKnight]

I’m a long time member here on Lit, and I’ve trolled many boards liking some posts and replying to others. I’ve never started my own thread, but I needed some arena to fully express myself. As my profile says I’m a married bi male. I’ve been more open with her in the past six months about some of my desires, but not all of them. I was “seduced” by my best friend’s Dad after graduating High School 40 years ago, and I’ve loved to suck cock since then; however, 20 years in the Army severely limited my opportunities. I’ve frequented many ABS and porn theaters, experiencing the occasional blow and go (both giving and recievng), or at least a mutual hand job. After a period of about 24 months in a sexless marriage she finally started to warm back up to the idea of intimacy. About six months ago I gathered up my courage and admitted that I wanted to wear woman’s panties and shave my legs. I’ve also been introducing anal play in the bedroom. I’ve asked her to fuck me with an old vibrator of hers, and this evolved to buying 2 dildoes that she will fuck me with. I don’t have the courage to admit I want a real cock in my ass, or my ultimate fantasy where I’m in stockings, a bra, and on my knees with my ass up in the air, my head between her thighs tonguing her pussy and another man behind me slowly penetrating my ass.

I know open communication is essential to a successful marriage. The problem is that she has said that she doesn’t share or play well with others. I know I’ve been unfaithful, and I’m working through that guilt.

I would love to find someone safe that we could explore each other’s sexuality, but the chances of that are slim to none since she no longer works and the expectation is that I spend all my time away from the office with her.

Thanks for listening, sorry if this was long winded. If there are any comments I’ll reply as I get a chance. It’s actually easier to get on Lit at the office than at home.

 

[Arngrim]

I can understand your frustration. Feeling like a prisoner to your own desires isn’t an easy thing to deal with, especially when other lives hang in the balance. We all want what we can’t have.

Considering that you’ve shared with her that you enjoy women’s clothes and anal play, you’ve gotten further than a lot of guys have with their wives. Perhaps it’s just a matter of the right conversation and mood to push the envelope. But remember, relationships are about give and take - what are you doing for her needs? As they say, happy wive, happy life.

 

[wetsawdust]

There's a lot of great minds here that will have some valuable insight for you. It's hard to not be what you want (or need) to be. Hugs.

 

[BlackSatinKnight]

There's a lot of great minds here that will have some valuable insight for you. It's hard to not be what you want (or need) to be. Hugs.

Thanks

 

[bobbyinhouston]

Thanks

Hello I like your post. I am a bi married man in a similar situation. Drop me a line if you want to chat. Bobby.

 

[TrailerHitch]

My wife and I are talking with a Bi man right now about getting together. She expressed curiosity today about having me eat her pussy while she sucked the other guys cock. She is well aware that I will be having sex with this guy and she will too. Being open, honest and communicating has worked very well for us. She has her other playmates and I have mine and this is working very well for us.

 

[Uncut1969]

My wife and I are talking with a Bi man right now about getting together. She expressed curiosity today about having me eat her pussy while she sucked the other guys cock. She is well aware that I will be having sex with this guy and she will too. Being open, honest and communicating has worked very well for us. She has her other playmates and I have mine and this is working very well for us.

Wow I wish I had that marriage you are very lucky

 

[BlackSatinKnight]

My wife and I are talking with a Bi man right now about getting together. She expressed curiosity today about having me eat her pussy while she sucked the other guys cock. She is well aware that I will be having sex with this guy and she will too. Being open, honest and communicating has worked very well for us. She has her other playmates and I have mine and this is working very well for us.

Lucky guy. I’m glad you are in a marriage where this type of play is lovingly endorsed.

 

[BlackSatinKnight]

I know how you feel. You would think being single would make it easier but in a small town where everyone seems to find out everything looking to find someone discreet to experiment with is hard. I have had m2m fantasies all my life and wish I could find a way to at least try to live them out.

I wish you good luck.

 

[Superfungurl]

I’m a long time member here on Lit, and I’ve trolled many boards liking some posts and replying to others. I’ve never started my own thread, but I needed some arena to fully express myself. As my profile says I’m a married bi male. I’ve been more open with her in the past six months about some of my desires, but not all of them. I was “seduced” by my best friend’s Dad after graduating High School 40 years ago, and I’ve loved to suck cock since then; however, 20 years in the Army severely limited my opportunities. I’ve frequented many ABS and porn theaters, experiencing the occasional blow and go (both giving and recievng), or at least a mutual hand job. After a period of about 24 months in a sexless marriage she finally started to warm back up to the idea of intimacy. About six months ago I gathered up my courage and admitted that I wanted to wear woman’s panties and shave my legs. I’ve also been introducing anal play in the bedroom. I’ve asked her to fuck me with an old vibrator of hers, and this evolved to buying 2 dildoes that she will fuck me with. I don’t have the courage to admit I want a real cock in my ass, or my ultimate fantasy where I’m in stockings, a bra, and on my knees with my ass up in the air, my head between her thighs tonguing her pussy and another man behind me slowly penetrating my ass.

I know open communication is essential to a successful marriage. The problem is that she has said that she doesn’t share or play well with others. I know I’ve been unfaithful, and I’m working through that guilt.

I would love to find someone safe that we could explore each other’s sexuality, but the chances of that are slim to none since she no longer works and the expectation is that I spend all my time away from the office with her.

Thanks for listening, sorry if this was long winded. If there are any comments I’ll reply as I get a chance. It’s actually easier to get on Lit at the office than at home.

Yes, it is unfortunate that you still have those appointments with me, your financial planner or proctologist or therapist, in Pueblo. When is our next appointment? I don't have my calendar in front of me.

 

[BlackSatinKnight]

Yes, it is unfortunate that you still have those appointments with me, your financial planner or proctologist or therapist, in Pueblo. When is our next appointment? I don't have my calendar in front of me.

While I don’t get to Pueblo often, I may have to make a special trip.

 

[J1biboi]

I know how you feel. You would think being single would make it easier but in a small town where everyone seems to find out everything looking to find someone discreet to experiment with is hard. I have had m2m fantasies all my life and wish I could find a way to at least try to live them out.

I have been in the same situation my whole adult life, although I did manage to suck one cock a long time ago.

 

[TrailerHitch]

The biggest issue here on Lit is getting guys who say they want to hook up to actually follow through. I've had multiple guys say they want to meet and when it's time for the rubber to hit the road they just disappear, or come up with bull shit excuses. Sniffies is a better alternative than Lit for real hook ups.

 

[drobert44]

The biggest issue here on Lit is getting guys who say they want to hook up to actually follow through. I've had multiple guys say they want to meet and when it's time for the rubber to hit the road they just disappear, or come up with bull shit excuses. Sniffies is a better alternative than Lit for real hook ups.

I have met and dated 2 ladies here, but before the date, lots of emails, chats, pics, etc..

 

[Nightspeed]

I know how you feel. You would think being single would make it easier but in a small town where everyone seems to find out everything looking to find someone discreet to experiment with is hard. I have had m2m fantasies all my life and wish I could find a way to at least try to live them out.

I am in the exact same situation. One of the only things I hate about living here.

 

[joepiko]

I’m the single bi guy in a LTR with a married couple. I love his cock and I love her clit. I tell them so all the time. 40 years ago…She initially recruited me to the threesome activity by crawling into bed with me, (after a solstice party) in their guest room and sucking my cock to completion and then getting me a warm washcloth. (Total keeper of a woman). The next morning, I awoke and when she heard me rustle, she called my name and said to come naked into their bedroom. She was sitting cross legged in front of her man sucking his beautiful cock verrrry slowly. I laid on the bed next to them and watched. I visibly got hard and while I wanted to lean in and take his juicy plum into my mouth, I had never….. so, I didn’t. When he came, he reached over and grasped my cock and I came right then, in his hand. Our relationship has lasted up until current era.
My thoughts on your situation would be to just pace slowly. She knows you are into anal play, let her know how wonderful it makes you feel and if there are any fantasies or ideas she might have, let her know you want to listen to her. Get her tipsy, or stoned…. Not too much, but enough to lower inhibitions. Then talk about both of your fantasies.
Most all the women I hear talk about m2m action are turned on by it. Watching it. Our female partner says she gets the best blowjob action she could ever hope for, from watching us. When he cums in my mouth, she tells me she watches his face, not me taking it. She truly loves him as her lifelong mate. She lusts for me, because I worship her clit and she is super multiorgasmic. This has taught me and him to contain our orgasm until the time is right. It is super incredible to have two mouths on you. Our favorite position is a triangle. He doesn’t fancy oral with her, so that is my domain. I love having her ride my face while he sucks me, and we have done it a couple of times where I fuck him while she rides my face. MY All time favorite, is him straddling my chest and feeding me his cock while she sucks me or jerks me off expertly.
Be honest with your wife, suck on the dildo with her holding it, tell her what a turn on she is. Be open enough, to, when the time is “right” that your ultimate fantasy would be between her legs licking her clit whilst you have a “real” cock in your backside, instead of a dildo.
A woman told me once that a man should never choose a partner (fmf, the common male fantasy) let the woman choose.
Open a conversation as to the kind of man she would like to see you be with, watching you suck each other, or, more.
The key issue is to let her know you want her involved in whatever you do with whomever. Communicate. Watch the TED talk called “Cliteracy”!
Does she get turned on by reading sexy stories? Make your love for her understanding your quirks paramount in all of this. Good Luck.
Before we got into a monogamous whatever you wanna call it, my female partner revealed to me that she had tried to find a bi or gay man to partner up with them. The woman I was very much into broke up with me. As a result, we fell back into the relationship we had long ago and it’s been damn good since.
Sorry for being long winded etc, but be open and honest and tell her you LOVE her, truly only her. I think that’s important.

Me female partner HAS revealed to me that she would rather share him/his cock rather than lose him by him looking for his satisfaction elsewhere. That, was her greatest fear. She’s over that now, but it still creeps up once in a while. We occasionally meet one on one. I notice if she gets a mf session with me, he wants a mm session as soon as possible. I tell him all the time, what a lucky guy he is to have her and be happy. He just told me in a text last night how much he loves looking down at me when I am deep throating him. I’m the lucky guy!!

 

[Smileyouronnow]

I’m a long time member here on Lit, and I’ve trolled many boards liking some posts and replying to others. I’ve never started my own thread, but I needed some arena to fully express myself. As my profile says I’m a married bi male. I’ve been more open with her in the past six months about some of my desires, but not all of them. I was “seduced” by my best friend’s Dad after graduating High School 40 years ago, and I’ve loved to suck cock since then; however, 20 years in the Army severely limited my opportunities. I’ve frequented many ABS and porn theaters, experiencing the occasional blow and go (both giving and recievng), or at least a mutual hand job. After a period of about 24 months in a sexless marriage she finally started to warm back up to the idea of intimacy. About six months ago I gathered up my courage and admitted that I wanted to wear woman’s panties and shave my legs. I’ve also been introducing anal play in the bedroom. I’ve asked her to fuck me with an old vibrator of hers, and this evolved to buying 2 dildoes that she will fuck me with. I don’t have the courage to admit I want a real cock in my ass, or my ultimate fantasy where I’m in stockings, a bra, and on my knees with my ass up in the air, my head between her thighs tonguing her pussy and another man behind me slowly penetrating my ass.

I know open communication is essential to a successful marriage. The problem is that she has said that she doesn’t share or play well with others. I know I’ve been unfaithful, and I’m working through that guilt.

I would love to find someone safe that we could explore each other’s sexuality, but the chances of that are slim to none since she no longer works and the expectation is that I spend all my time away from the office with her.

Thanks for listening, sorry if this was long winded. If there are any comments I’ll reply as I get a chance. It’s actually easier to get on Lit at the office than at home.

Hi there. I'm also a married bi guy on the DL. Wife doesn't know about my past or my desires.

My ex-wife knew about my curiosities and she was curious to see me play with an attractive guy.
She also tried to match me up with one of her bi male friends many times until she found a guy I clicked with.
You may need to find a hobby that allows you to be out alone, so you can then find another guy to meet.
Simple as that!

 

[BlackSatinKnight]

Hi there. I'm also a married bi guy on the DL. Wife doesn't know about my past or my desires.

My ex-wife knew about my curiosities and she was curious to see me play with an attractive guy.
She also tried to match me up with one of her bi male friends many times until she found a guy I clicked with.
You may need to find a hobby that allows you to be out alone, so you can then find another guy to meet.
Simple as that!

I’ve used the “hobby” excuse to get out of the house, the problem is finding someone who shares the same interests. I’ve been stood up a few times and the couple of times I’ve actually hooked up, the guy wasn’t what he portrayed himself on line. Oh well, eventually I’ll finds some one to play with that’s safe and discrete.

 

[Smileyouronnow]

I’ve used the “hobby” excuse to get out of the house, the problem is finding someone who shares the same interests. I’ve been stood up a few times and the couple of times I’ve actually hooked up, the guy wasn’t what he portrayed himself on line. Oh well, eventually I’ll finds some one to play with that’s safe and discrete.

I find that I have the same issues with guys I chat with. Although, I haven't met with anyone in several years.
Years ago I met with another married guy who was as cautious as myself, but he had some issues to deal with at home. So, I thought it was best to not get involved.
I believe if you really want something bad enough, it will pan out somehow! Deciding what you want and not settling for less.

 

[GD6720]

I’m a long time member here on Lit, and I’ve trolled many boards liking some posts and replying to others. I’ve never started my own thread, but I needed some arena to fully express myself. As my profile says I’m a married bi male. I’ve been more open with her in the past six months about some of my desires, but not all of them. I was “seduced” by my best friend’s Dad after graduating High School 40 years ago, and I’ve loved to suck cock since then; however, 20 years in the Army severely limited my opportunities. I’ve frequented many ABS and porn theaters, experiencing the occasional blow and go (both giving and recievng), or at least a mutual hand job. After a period of about 24 months in a sexless marriage she finally started to warm back up to the idea of intimacy. About six months ago I gathered up my courage and admitted that I wanted to wear woman’s panties and shave my legs. I’ve also been introducing anal play in the bedroom. I’ve asked her to fuck me with an old vibrator of hers, and this evolved to buying 2 dildoes that she will fuck me with. I don’t have the courage to admit I want a real cock in my ass, or my ultimate fantasy where I’m in stockings, a bra, and on my knees with my ass up in the air, my head between her thighs tonguing her pussy and another man behind me slowly penetrating my ass.

I know open communication is essential to a successful marriage. The problem is that she has said that she doesn’t share or play well with others. I know I’ve been unfaithful, and I’m working through that guilt.

I would love to find someone safe that we could explore each other’s sexuality, but the chances of that are slim to none since she no longer works and the expectation is that I spend all my time away from the office with her.

Thanks for listening, sorry if this was long winded. If there are any comments I’ll reply as I get a chance. It’s actually easier to get on Lit at the office than at home.

Thank you for sharing and expressing your thoughts openly here, Best wishes for the future

 

[RipleNStllWtr]

I’m the single bi guy in a LTR with a married couple. I love his cock and I love her clit. I tell them so all the time. 40 years ago…She initially recruited me to the threesome activity by crawling into bed with me, (after a solstice party) in their guest room and sucking my cock to completion and then getting me a warm washcloth. (Total keeper of a woman). The next morning, I awoke and when she heard me rustle, she called my name and said to come naked into their bedroom. She was sitting cross legged in front of her man sucking his beautiful cock verrrry slowly. I laid on the bed next to them and watched. I visibly got hard and while I wanted to lean in and take his juicy plum into my mouth, I had never….. so, I didn’t. When he came, he reached over and grasped my cock and I came right then, in his hand. Our relationship has lasted up until current era.
My thoughts on your situation would be to just pace slowly. She knows you are into anal play, let her know how wonderful it makes you feel and if there are any fantasies or ideas she might have, let her know you want to listen to her. Get her tipsy, or stoned…. Not too much, but enough to lower inhibitions. Then talk about both of your fantasies.
Most all the women I hear talk about m2m action are turned on by it. Watching it. Our female partner says she gets the best blowjob action she could ever hope for, from watching us. When he cums in my mouth, she tells me she watches his face, not me taking it. She truly loves him as her lifelong mate. She lusts for me, because I worship her clit and she is super multiorgasmic. This has taught me and him to contain our orgasm until the time is right. It is super incredible to have two mouths on you. Our favorite position is a triangle. He doesn’t fancy oral with her, so that is my domain. I love having her ride my face while he sucks me, and we have done it a couple of times where I fuck him while she rides my face. MY All time favorite, is him straddling my chest and feeding me his cock while she sucks me or jerks me off expertly.
Be honest with your wife, suck on the dildo with her holding it, tell her what a turn on she is. Be open enough, to, when the time is “right” that your ultimate fantasy would be between her legs licking her clit whilst you have a “real” cock in your backside, instead of a dildo.
A woman told me once that a man should never choose a partner (fmf, the common male fantasy) let the woman choose.
Open a conversation as to the kind of man she would like to see you be with, watching you suck each other, or, more.
The key issue is to let her know you want her involved in whatever you do with whomever. Communicate. Watch the TED talk called “Cliteracy”!
Does she get turned on by reading sexy stories? Make your love for her understanding your quirks paramount in all of this. Good Luck.
Before we got into a monogamous whatever you wanna call it, my female partner revealed to me that she had tried to find a bi or gay man to partner up with them. The woman I was very much into broke up with me. As a result, we fell back into the relationship we had long ago and it’s been damn good since.
Sorry for being long winded etc, but be open and honest and tell her you LOVE her, truly only her. I think that’s important.

Me female partner HAS revealed to me that she would rather share him/his cock rather than lose him by him looking for his satisfaction elsewhere. That, was her greatest fear. She’s over that now, but it still creeps up once in a while. We occasionally meet one on one. I notice if she gets a mf session with me, he wants a mm session as soon as possible. I tell him all the time, what a lucky guy he is to have her and be happy. He just told me in a text last night how much he loves looking down at me when I am deep throating him. I’m the lucky guy!!

This is straight up the most awesome thing I have read today. Might as well turn my phone off and go back to bed. This fucking rocks. Wish I was you.

 

[Iwillgo]

I’m the single bi guy in a LTR with a married couple. I love his cock and I love her clit. I tell them so all the time. 40 years ago…She initially recruited me to the threesome activity by crawling into bed with me, (after a solstice party) in their guest room and sucking my cock to completion and then getting me a warm washcloth. (Total keeper of a woman). The next morning, I awoke and when she heard me rustle, she called my name and said to come naked into their bedroom. She was sitting cross legged in front of her man sucking his beautiful cock verrrry slowly. I laid on the bed next to them and watched. I visibly got hard and while I wanted to lean in and take his juicy plum into my mouth, I had never….. so, I didn’t. When he came, he reached over and grasped my cock and I came right then, in his hand. Our relationship has lasted up until current era.
My thoughts on your situation would be to just pace slowly. She knows you are into anal play, let her know how wonderful it makes you feel and if there are any fantasies or ideas she might have, let her know you want to listen to her. Get her tipsy, or stoned…. Not too much, but enough to lower inhibitions. Then talk about both of your fantasies.
Most all the women I hear talk about m2m action are turned on by it. Watching it. Our female partner says she gets the best blowjob action she could ever hope for, from watching us. When he cums in my mouth, she tells me she watches his face, not me taking it. She truly loves him as her lifelong mate. She lusts for me, because I worship her clit and she is super multiorgasmic. This has taught me and him to contain our orgasm until the time is right. It is super incredible to have two mouths on you. Our favorite position is a triangle. He doesn’t fancy oral with her, so that is my domain. I love having her ride my face while he sucks me, and we have done it a couple of times where I fuck him while she rides my face. MY All time favorite, is him straddling my chest and feeding me his cock while she sucks me or jerks me off expertly.
Be honest with your wife, suck on the dildo with her holding it, tell her what a turn on she is. Be open enough, to, when the time is “right” that your ultimate fantasy would be between her legs licking her clit whilst you have a “real” cock in your backside, instead of a dildo.
A woman told me once that a man should never choose a partner (fmf, the common male fantasy) let the woman choose.
Open a conversation as to the kind of man she would like to see you be with, watching you suck each other, or, more.
The key issue is to let her know you want her involved in whatever you do with whomever. Communicate. Watch the TED talk called “Cliteracy”!
Does she get turned on by reading sexy stories? Make your love for her understanding your quirks paramount in all of this. Good Luck.
Before we got into a monogamous whatever you wanna call it, my female partner revealed to me that she had tried to find a bi or gay man to partner up with them. The woman I was very much into broke up with me. As a result, we fell back into the relationship we had long ago and it’s been damn good since.
Sorry for being long winded etc, but be open and honest and tell her you LOVE her, truly only her. I think that’s important.

Me female partner HAS revealed to me that she would rather share him/his cock rather than lose him by him looking for his satisfaction elsewhere. That, was her greatest fear. She’s over that now, but it still creeps up once in a while. We occasionally meet one on one. I notice if she gets a mf session with me, he wants a mm session as soon as possible. I tell him all the time, what a lucky guy he is to have her and be happy. He just told me in a text last night how much he loves looking down at me when I am deep throating him. I’m the lucky guy!!

Nice read…If this were a menu, I’ll be having the ‘all time favorite’, please!

 

[kathyisgr65]

I’m a long time member here on Lit, and I’ve trolled many boards liking some posts and replying to others. I’ve never started my own thread, but I needed some arena to fully express myself. As my profile says I’m a married bi male. I’ve been more open with her in the past six months about some of my desires, but not all of them. I was “seduced” by my best friend’s Dad after graduating High School 40 years ago, and I’ve loved to suck cock since then; however, 20 years in the Army severely limited my opportunities. I’ve frequented many ABS and porn theaters, experiencing the occasional blow and go (both giving and recievng), or at least a mutual hand job. After a period of about 24 months in a sexless marriage she finally started to warm back up to the idea of intimacy. About six months ago I gathered up my courage and admitted that I wanted to wear woman’s panties and shave my legs. I’ve also been introducing anal play in the bedroom. I’ve asked her to fuck me with an old vibrator of hers, and this evolved to buying 2 dildoes that she will fuck me with. I don’t have the courage to admit I want a real cock in my ass, or my ultimate fantasy where I’m in stockings, a bra, and on my knees with my ass up in the air, my head between her thighs tonguing her pussy and another man behind me slowly penetrating my ass.

I know open communication is essential to a successful marriage. The problem is that she has said that she doesn’t share or play well with others. I know I’ve been unfaithful, and I’m working through that guilt.

I would love to find someone safe that we could explore each other’s sexuality, but the chances of that are slim to none since she no longer works and the expectation is that I spend all my time away from the office with her.

Thanks for listening, sorry if this was long winded. If there are any comments I’ll reply as I get a chance. It’s actually easier to get on Lit at the office than at home.

Are u looking for a RL friend?

 

[klippert]

I’m a long time member here on Lit, and I’ve trolled many boards liking some posts and replying to others. I’ve never started my own thread, but I needed some arena to fully express myself. As my profile says I’m a married bi male. I’ve been more open with her in the past six months about some of my desires, but not all of them. I was “seduced” by my best friend’s Dad after graduating High School 40 years ago, and I’ve loved to suck cock since then; however, 20 years in the Army severely limited my opportunities. I’ve frequented many ABS and porn theaters, experiencing the occasional blow and go (both giving and receiving), or at least a mutual hand job. After a period of about 24 months in a sexless marriage she finally started to warm back up to the idea of intimacy. About six months ago I gathered up my courage and admitted that I wanted to wear woman’s panties and shave my legs. I’ve also been introducing anal play in the bedroom. I’ve asked her to fuck me with an old vibrator of hers, and this evolved to buying 2 dildoes that she will fuck me with. I don’t have the courage to admit I want a real cock in my ass, or my ultimate fantasy where I’m in stockings, a bra, and on my knees with my ass up in the air, my head between her thighs tonguing her pussy and another man behind me slowly penetrating my ass.

I know open communication is essential to a successful marriage. The problem is that she has said that she doesn’t share or play well with others. I know I’ve been unfaithful, and I’m working through that guilt.

I would love to find someone safe that we could explore each other’s sexuality, but the chances of that are slim to none since she no longer works and the expectation is that I spend all my time away from the office with her.

Thanks for listening, sorry if this was long winded. If there are any comments I’ll reply as I get a chance. It’s actually easier to get on Lit at the office than at home.

" I don’t have the courage to admit I want a real cock in my ass". she knows Bro. I'm glad we're here for your chest.. seriously I am. I had a similar seductions after H.S. as well, only it was a man that I was training with for the summer who was suppose to be getting me ready for the rigors of College Baseball. That is a completely different topic. I went into college mixed up to say the least.. I can honestly say I meet a man who had gone through what you are experiencing, and he was Married (assuming he stills is) and one of my Engineering instructors, I know... erotic story that could write itself.
To the point:
He openly told me about his crossdressing life.. when he came clean to his wife, who wasn't surprised-ish if you will. She did ask a mountain of questions #1... are you gay. They then began a process of new sexual experiences he told about his struggling with the desire to be with a Man... as a bottom. To be clear their relationship wasn't Mistress / slave or Dom this and that. He said to me when told her about these desire that he could no longer keep suppressed he thought he would pass out. She looked at him and said "took you long enough to tell me". there was more questions and she wanted direct answers...because that was the early 90s. and he had yet to be with a man.

So, It is true...men and women think differently.. the CDz I've been with, who like dress and act womanly can never have their thought process. Satin Knight, I'm assuming, You suck your wife's strap-on, moan and cum when she's pegs you all while you cross-dress. Buddy, she knows there's something missing she can't provide, and that may scare her.... What my friend told me was. His wife needed to know; Their marriage was secure or its time to split. He wasn't going to embarrasses her (You're not the victim in this) and he was going to take all precautions...
I eventually meet his wife and there is so much more to their story. They eventually began dressing together. I was invited into bed with them. And he introduced me to a group of men that had a 'club' if you will.
Look Black Satin... If you're wife is an emotional type... tread lightly, but, don't think she's 100% lost on the idea that you are NOT thinking about sex with men.

 

[BlackSatinKnight]

" I don’t have the courage to admit I want a real cock in my ass". she knows Bro. I'm glad we're here for your chest.. seriously I am. I had a similar seductions after H.S. as well, only it was a man that I was training with for the summer who was suppose to be getting me ready for the rigors of College Baseball. That is a completely different topic. I went into college mixed up to say the least.. I can honestly say I meet a man who had gone through what you are experiencing, and he was Married (assuming he stills is) and one of my Engineering instructors, I know... erotic story that could write itself.
To the point:
He openly told me about his crossdressing life.. when he came clean to his wife, who wasn't surprised-ish if you will. She did ask a mountain of questions #1... are you gay. They then began a process of new sexual experiences he told about his struggling with the desire to be with a Man... as a bottom. To be clear their relationship wasn't Mistress / slave or Dom this and that. He said to me when told her about these desire that he could no longer keep suppressed he thought he would pass out. She looked at him and said "took you long enough to tell me". there was more questions and she wanted direct answers...because that was the early 90s. and he had yet to be with a man.

So, It is true...men and women think differently.. the CDz I've been with, who like dress and act womanly can never have their thought process. Satin Knight, I'm assuming, You suck your wife's strap-on, moan and cum when she's pegs you all while you cross-dress. Buddy, she knows there's something missing she can't provide, and that may scare her.... What my friend told me was. His wife needed to know; Their marriage was secure or its time to split. He wasn't going to embarrasses her (You're not the victim in this) and he was going to take all precautions...
I eventually meet his wife and there is so much more to their story. They eventually began dressing together. I was invited into bed with them. And he introduced me to a group of men that had a 'club' if you will.
Look Black Satin... If you're wife is an emotional type... tread lightly, but, don't think she's 100% lost on the idea that you are NOT thinking about sex with men.

Klipp, I guess I just need to pull my head out of my ass and look at what I’ve presented to her. I’m sure she knows, but I still have a lot of trepidation about talking to her.