hi everyone i know this really shouldnt go here it should be in how to and i ahve posted there twice but i am not getting any responces to my question. So i came here to ask the amazing girls of lit for some help (men also) my gf wants to fullfil my fantasty of stripping for me and giving me a lap dance. BUt she dont know where to begin. So i ask the kind women of lit please if you have suggestions of songs, moves that you have done that work please please respond to this post thank you and i hope some kind person out there will help me
need the help from the amazing women
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SexyAmber
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I will help
Ok the song she should do is "Want" by disturbed it will crank both your sexual enegry up...definately....
it's on this website http://www.angelfire.com/rock/staindincubus/
it is also on my personal page
Have her wear something she can tear open..the song calls for a hungry, feral strip
And as far as the dancing just tell her to do what comes natural..
When she lap dances you have her not allow you to touch her...it will intensify the experience...feeling her body against yours, her touching herself but you going crazy not being allowed too
hope that helps
Ok the song she should do is "Want" by disturbed it will crank both your sexual enegry up...definately....
it's on this website http://www.angelfire.com/rock/staindincubus/
it is also on my personal page
Have her wear something she can tear open..the song calls for a hungry, feral strip
And as far as the dancing just tell her to do what comes natural..
When she lap dances you have her not allow you to touch her...it will intensify the experience...feeling her body against yours, her touching herself but you going crazy not being allowed too
hope that helps
ZoeKat
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lap dance tips for rubin's sweetie
1. eye contact, very important she should hold your eyes with hers the whole dance
2. like amber said NO TOUCHING..keep your hands to yourself, sit on them if neccessary..it'll really increase the enjoyment for you both
3. clothes..like amber said remove-ability is important for the top layer..maybe a dress she can let slide off,
or a slightly too big mens white dress shirt works well..fray the thread on the buttons a little with nail scissors before the dance for maximum button popping impact.
any colour other than white lingerie looks very sexy under this.
teamed with a little flippy skirt, which is good for peekeboo's even after the shirt goes
leave the skirt on while removing the stockings and gstring..this is a tease
bra's that open in front are easier to undo sexily..but i would reccomend doing the "slide the shoulder straps down and "bodyroll" the cleavage in his face "before removing the bra and crowning him with it.
stockings g-string..
ok to remove the gstring..
smile keeping eye contact..twirl around and bend over in one movement,
place palms on but cheeks with a little slap, hook fingers under waisband and pull SLOWLY down,
then staighten up slowly, rubbing your hands over the tops/sides of your thighs as you turn to face him again.
big Smile..then angle your leg on to the arm of his chair Across your body,
so the his veiw of your pussy id limited and he's looking at your breasts swinging free and your upper thigh is almost on his chest as you lean across to slide the stocking down you leg, drape it around his neck..twirl, shimmy repeat on other side
now dance away a little distance, twirl a bit..then rip off the skirt..
umm velcro is the best thing to use for fastening the skirt..
now you've just got a garter belt on..leave it there.. shimmy in closer..
hook arms lightly around his neck..leaning away from him gazing into his eyes leave one hand on the nape of his neck..
trail the other over his chest and down the inside of his arms/wrist
"undulating" umm body roll..err i can't demonstrate on here, DRATS!
but from here on in it's pretty easy..just remember not to ever lean your weight on him, keep eye contact and light feathery sensual touching of him and yourself while swaying the hips and rolling the shoulders..since its your bf..finish the dance by stradling his lap suddenly adn kissing him forcefully
best move to start with if a begginer..
Stand with your feet shoulder distance apart, let your backbone "slip" just a littel to "almost" the position it's in to do lunges at the gym,
place hands fingers splayed on tops of thighs, tilt head slightly to side and back..roll head around slowly like your trying to work out a neckache..slide your hands up and down your thighs and torso lightly as you do this..you should feel a littel like roling your hips at this point, cos of the position of your spine..do so
err i find being a littel drunk or stoned helps and whatever you do..don't laugh at her too much rubin..this can look very silly till the dancer is comfortable doing it..have fun
1. eye contact, very important she should hold your eyes with hers the whole dance
2. like amber said NO TOUCHING..keep your hands to yourself, sit on them if neccessary..it'll really increase the enjoyment for you both
3. clothes..like amber said remove-ability is important for the top layer..maybe a dress she can let slide off,
or a slightly too big mens white dress shirt works well..fray the thread on the buttons a little with nail scissors before the dance for maximum button popping impact.
any colour other than white lingerie looks very sexy under this.
teamed with a little flippy skirt, which is good for peekeboo's even after the shirt goes
leave the skirt on while removing the stockings and gstring..this is a teasebra's that open in front are easier to undo sexily..but i would reccomend doing the "slide the shoulder straps down and "bodyroll" the cleavage in his face "before removing the bra and crowning him with it.
stockings g-string..
ok to remove the gstring..
smile keeping eye contact..twirl around and bend over in one movement,
place palms on but cheeks with a little slap, hook fingers under waisband and pull SLOWLY down,
then staighten up slowly, rubbing your hands over the tops/sides of your thighs as you turn to face him again.
big Smile..then angle your leg on to the arm of his chair Across your body,
so the his veiw of your pussy id limited and he's looking at your breasts swinging free and your upper thigh is almost on his chest as you lean across to slide the stocking down you leg, drape it around his neck..twirl, shimmy repeat on other side
now dance away a little distance, twirl a bit..then rip off the skirt..
umm velcro is the best thing to use for fastening the skirt..
now you've just got a garter belt on..leave it there.. shimmy in closer..
hook arms lightly around his neck..leaning away from him gazing into his eyes leave one hand on the nape of his neck..
trail the other over his chest and down the inside of his arms/wrist
"undulating" umm body roll..err i can't demonstrate on here, DRATS!
but from here on in it's pretty easy..just remember not to ever lean your weight on him, keep eye contact and light feathery sensual touching of him and yourself while swaying the hips and rolling the shoulders..since its your bf..finish the dance by stradling his lap suddenly adn kissing him forcefully
best move to start with if a begginer..
Stand with your feet shoulder distance apart, let your backbone "slip" just a littel to "almost" the position it's in to do lunges at the gym,
place hands fingers splayed on tops of thighs, tilt head slightly to side and back..roll head around slowly like your trying to work out a neckache..slide your hands up and down your thighs and torso lightly as you do this..you should feel a littel like roling your hips at this point, cos of the position of your spine..do so
err i find being a littel drunk or stoned helps
and whatever you do..don't laugh at her too much rubin..this can look very silly till the dancer is comfortable doing it..have fun
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Zoe/ Amber
You ladies are driving me crazy already. My advice to the guy is to have some smelling salts handy. He's gonna need it if they follow your advice.
Zoe/ Amber
You ladies are driving me crazy already. My advice to the guy is to have some smelling salts handy. He's gonna need it if they follow your advice.
you two are the sweetest ladies ever thank you sooooooo much for the information i will pass it all on to my gf and thank you for making it it happen she was getting nevious wihtout having any responces to the question these was like like my 5th post you are the sooooooooooo great i love literotica and the people so nice and helpful
i will definitely write a either a story or a post about this as it is the least i can do for you ladies for being so helpful, i am sorry this responce was late but i havent been on in a couple of days. but you will have to wait for this as it is my val day present thank you again rubin
i will definitely write a either a story or a post about this as it is the least i can do for you ladies for being so helpful, i am sorry this responce was late but i havent been on in a couple of days. but you will have to wait for this as it is my val day present thank you again rubin
SexyAmber
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Cibo
You are welcome Rubin let us know how it goes...most importantly she is doing it just for you and wants to try and that is what will make the dance beautiful
Cibo sugar thanks...LOVE that CD...also love the songs "Voices" and "Down with sickness"
You are welcome Rubin let us know how it goes...most importantly she is doing it just for you and wants to try and that is what will make the dance beautiful
Cibo sugar thanks...LOVE that CD...also love the songs "Voices" and "Down with sickness"
