need story on how to get wife into swinging

[trippleigh]

I've been trying to get my wife to be more sexually adventurous for years. I have even told her that I have a fantasy about seeing her with another man but she won't even consider it.

She will occasionally flirt with guys when we go out but never will pursue anything. We came close once when she was REALLY drunk but sadly the guys called it off.

So I would love to read a story with a realistic way that a husband moves his wife into the lifestyle. Most of the stories on here all presume the wife is already into it. And the ones with "first time swinging" don't offer much advice on the front end. For example: she has never done anything like this but by the third paragraph she agrees to go to a porn theater. What???

Maybe the husband finds someone online with whom he coordinates a meeting at a bar "by accident" and the guy really puts the moves on her to see if she goes with it?

I don't know. Can't figure it out. But maybe one of you has been successful with this and can write your story!

 

[GorgeousGeekGirl]

The problem is that you want real life to be like fiction. In real life, a woman either is or isn't into swinging.

If she isn't but agrees to try, she will either feel horrible about what she did or will realize what she's been missing out on by being faithful to you. But, all the time she will be resenting you because she isn't enough for you because you'll let her hop in someone else's bed so you can be with another woman.

If she is into swinging, she's already got someone on the side before you bring it up , so she'll be relieved she doesn't have to keep it a secret anymore.

About the only other scenario in real life is she starts drinking or doing drugs, or just wants a divorce but agrees to stick around if she can sleep around and finally get some real dick because you ain't got it.