I’ve never been fucked with a cock, but have road and fucked myself with dildos. Sometimes I get hard, sometimes I go completely soft and retracted, I’ve had a lot of precum, dripping and stringing, but never full cumming orgasm with out resorting to jerking. Do you cum while being fucked? I really want to, What am I missing?
Need some guidance from the gay guys please!
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saintcero
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I have never had a hands free orgasm and that includes the few times I have been fucked. I tried all sorts of toys but they never worked. Only one guy has fucked me but he gave me six loads. I thought I was getting close once with him but the feeling faded. My cock stays mostly limp when my ass is host to a toy or cock but, like you, I am leaking buckets of precum.
i love being on the bottom with the guy on top of me, that way my hard cock is rubbing against his body with him inside of me and we can make out
write_or_wrong
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Good thread - I have wondered myself. I have had really strong orgasms while using dildos on myself so I would have expected an even hotter experience with a cock attached to a real guy. But most of the porn videos say no to that. Are the bottoms so used to penetration that it's not exciting any more?
Even though I have been fucked by my girl probably a hundred times, I have never gotten hard or cum while she has been fucking me with her big cock. I am not sure why but the fact that I am completely focused on her cock may have something to do with it.
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I don't usually cum when being anally fucked. Dildos the same. It's too uncomfortable and not really sexually stimulating. I cum watching guys being anally fucked, on screen or in the room. I only bottom when it's expected, in exchange for me getting to fuck him anally. I can cum if my fucker or a third person is tugging my cock while another cock is up my ass, but threesomes and group sex don't happen every day. And I cum whether giving or receiving oral which for me is by far the more enjoyable way to fuck.
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I too haven't really managed to stay hard or cum while taking it in the ass. Not sure why because the feeling of anal is a real turn on, and I can get plenty hard while masturbating or 69ing, but maybe it's like Escierto says and focussing more on the other person's pleasure.
One exception to this was a pegging session when my wife and I were at a hotel. I was sitting on her lap, riding her Feeldoe and taking it really deep, and I stayed hard and wanked myself to a really explosive orgasm all over her tits, maybe because the sensation and position was making her cum like crazy as well. I think any neighbours listening must have got a good audio show
One exception to this was a pegging session when my wife and I were at a hotel. I was sitting on her lap, riding her Feeldoe and taking it really deep, and I stayed hard and wanked myself to a really explosive orgasm all over her tits, maybe because the sensation and position was making her cum like crazy as well. I think any neighbours listening must have got a good audio show
Although I have never experienced it myself, I believe what you are saying is true.
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You do not need to be hard. In fact, I'm never hard during prostate orgasms. It's a totally separate sensation from a regular ejaculatory orgasm. For me, my prostate drains fluid out of my cock at the start, but not cum. And after continued stimulation, I'll have long contractions with a soft cock and no release of cum. It feels like filling a balloon full of air really tight (the build up) and then slowly letting the air out. Opposed to a regular penile orgasm which is popping the balloon.
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I cum hands free nearly every time I am fucked
