Need Some Advice From Bi Women

[corky319]

I'm still a beginner at writing erotic stories. I want to write a F/F/M story (one of my favorite fantasies).

I have no actual experience with this type of scenario, and my wife is not interested in trying any type of threesome.

I want my story to be realistic, and appeal to the readers of Literotica. Since I don't have actual experience in this area I could really use some help from any bi women on the board who would be comfortable providing help.

In my story the husband and wife are going on vacation and she wants to surprise him by living out one of his favorite fantasies. The wife has never had a bi experience, and is not sure whether she would enjoy being with another woman. The wife places an ad on the internet and finds a bi woman who lives in the city they will be visiting. They trade emails and chat and she explains her husbands fantasy about being with two women at one time, and her reservations about being with another woman. This new friend agrees to help her surprise the husband. They set everything up without telling the husband. The other woman meets them at the swimming pool, acts like a complete stranger, and asks to sit next to them. This allows everyone to become better acquainted. The wife coaxes the husband to drink more than normal until he is tipsy. The other woman helps the wife take him back to their hotel room.

This is the point where I start to have a problem with the story.

The wife wants the bi woman to have sex with her husband while she watches.

I have two major questions, and would also appreciate any suggestions you may have to help me with this story.

1. If you are the bi woman in this situation how would you seduce the wife into either joining you and the husband, or how could you get the wife to experiment with just you while the husband watched?

2. Can you describe the difference between having a woman touching, licking, and sucking you versus a man?

Thank you so much for your help.

 

[Chicklet]

Hey there,

Good questions. Logical questions. Easy to answer? Maybe.

First, your wife character, she's never been with a woman before but is curious, right? Quick question for you: are you including the conversation that the two women have before they meet, or is it in the background of the story? I suggest having a teaser prologue of conversation between the two women where they discuss some of the details, then breaking into the actual story with the husband and wife sitting next to the pool or something. Anyways...

The wife is reluctant, and you've got to play on that reluctance to keep it real. Her first time she might be pretty insecure about going down on the other woman, so start out with the other woman making the moves. Have the second woman scoot close, sort of caress, sort of kissy-kissy around the neck and such. The husband's probably going to be aroused just by the petting, right? And that'll help him join in. Although it sounds as though this story is being written to arouse a man, I think in the real situation the man would want to make sure his wife is happy first. He'll probably pet both women at once, keeping an eye on his wife.

I think if you make this a completely active threesome story it'll be more realistic. I don't know of many couples who've watched each other with same sexes, but I do know people who've had active threesomes where sex all around was involved. BUT, that doesn't mean it doesn't happen, okay? The second woman, the one not in the relationship, is going to need to be very friendly. Not all touchy and hands-on, but actually flirty, smiley, happy, jokey, stuff like that. I think that women relax around each other when they're happier. I gave someone advise a while ago about how women seem to be able to flirt with each other harmlessly, whether they're interested in each other or not. So have them flirt - even a nervous, reluctant woman can flirt with another woman. That's the seduction. Keep the "no pressure" attitude applied to your wife character.

The main diference between a woman and a man, I think, in oral sex at least, is that a man will concentrate lower down on the body than the woman...a woman will concentrate more of her effort on the clit, and use her fingers in the holes. In my experience men try to be all over the place, and very rarely use their hands in oral sex. For your story, if you're going to be writing from the POV of the wife, I would concentrate on the differences in skin textures - the roughness of her husbands' hands, the softness of the womans.

That's my advise. Good luck = )

Chicklet

 

[MsLinnet]

Praise of Chicklet

I am with you on this one Chicklet you have got it in one good advise.

Good Luck with the story…

Love Linnet

 

[Colleen Thomas]

On further difference I would note. Most of my experience with men indicates they in general seem to think women have one or two, at most three erogenous zones. They tend to concentrate on the breasts, vagina or butt with occasional stabs at the neck or ears before the clothes come off.

My female lovers have all seemed to understand that with porper attention just about any part of me can become an erogenous zone. If your bi character is acting as seductress she could lavish attention on some part of your reluctant wife's body that isn't normally considered a hot spot. Shoulders and the insides of the elbow are good places. It can seem "innocent" but get steamy.

Once the action becomes heavy and all three are participating try not to confine your bi character's explorations to just the spots most men go after. She will seem more realistic if she isn't as "locked in" as mostmen are on the major hot spots.

-Colly

 

[LustiRusti]

... In my story the husband and wife are going on vacation and she wants to surprise him by living out one of his favorite fantasies. The wife has never had a bi experience, and is not sure whether she would enjoy being with another woman. The wife places an ad on the internet and finds a bi woman who lives in the city they will be visiting. They trade emails and chat and she explains her husbands fantasy about being with two women at one time, and her reservations about being with another woman. This new friend agrees to help her surprise the husband. They set everything up without telling the husband. The other woman meets them at the swimming pool, acts like a complete stranger, and asks to sit next to them. This allows everyone to become better acquainted. The wife coaxes the husband to drink more than normal until he is tipsy. The other woman helps the wife take him back to their hotel room.

This is the point where I start to have a problem with the story.

The wife wants the bi woman to have sex with her husband while she watches.

I have two major questions, and would also appreciate any suggestions you may have to help me with this story.

1. If you are the bi woman in this situation how would you seduce the wife into either joining you and the husband, or how could you get the wife to experiment with just you while the husband watched?

2. Can you describe the difference between having a woman touching, licking, and sucking you versus a man?

Thank you so much for your help.

Gary

Gary,

Hello. Being a bisexual woman I will try my best to answer your questions for you.

1.) First of all, I am not very aggressive and tend to be shy around new people until I feel I've gotten to know them much better. (Then I'm bold and can't shut up! lol) So, I could never be the person who would "seduce" another woman. In fact, I never assume that a woman may be bi and/or attracted to me. I don't make the first move. So, I guess I can't help you with question one. Sorry.

In your story, is the wife simply "giving" her husband another woman to have sex with as a "gift" or is she going to "live out" his fantasy of her being with the other woman as well? If it's the second, I don't think you should make the wife unwilling. After all, the wife is setting up the arangement and it's a surprise for the husband. It sounds to me like that character is already willing!

2.) In all honesty, other than roughness/smoothness in bodies, I don't feel a "difference" in partners. Obviously men have facial stubble (if they don't grow out a beard, goatee, etc.) and most women are hareless on the face. But when it comes to "technique" or whatever I've never noticed a difference yet.

 

[not_so_innocent_flirting]

advice from a bi-woman, for what it is worth

I of course cannot speak for all women, however I feel a great percentage of them are at least curious about experiencing something sexual with a another woman.

To keep something 'real' as you have stated just think about what pleases your wife normally and let the other woman do it. Women have a way of touching and arousing another woman because they know what feels good to themselves.

The 'other woman' in your story must make your wife feel willingly seduced, her curiousity ovewhelmes her. She may not make her first contact in your presence. Perhaps she should experiement a bit and then you 'discover her' with this woman.

I simply love men, adore them. Mind blowing explosive sex with them is hard to beat. BUT..... sex with a woman, when I need compassion or comfort, or to just 'feel' things and be reminded I am a woman with many needs and desires, the hands and lips of another woman bring great pleasure.

This fantasy story is more for your pleasure, so make it exactly what you desire and what will bring you the end result you want. Good luck.


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