Need Help

[nickncat]

So I want my wife to play with my ass more. I like being stretched, fisted etc. Its just a no go. She is a BBW and I play with her a lot. Multiple large toys plus hand, whole hand, etc. We have even gotten in some Ball tying and stretching. She says the ass is just to icky. I have run out of ideas. Has anyone else run into this with the other party. Any hints or tips would be helpful.

 

[silverwhisper]

nick, check out the links in this post in the blank manual thread, which is stickied at the top. :>

specifically, see the section labeled anal, and you probably will want this thread. :>

ed

 

[SweetErika]

If it's occasional play (like a couple of times a month) you're seeking, you could do a plain warm-water enema beforehand and of course have a good shower with a thorough washing after that. That should remove most of the "icky" stuff in your colon. However, enemas also remove the good stuff that aids in good general and bowel health, which is why you want to limit the frequency of them and definitely only use plain old warm water (vs. anything that could irritate the bowel or seriously screw up its natural balance of bacteria).

Admittedly, I'm also squicked by unprotected anal play. However, condoms and gloves fix this quite nicely. For fisting, I believe you can purchase vinyl or plastic gloves that go all the way up to the elbow (you might want to check out farm/large animal supply places because that's what I've most often seen them used for).

My point is that you should ask her what she finds objectionable and suggest work-arounds if possible. Maybe those will be fine for her; maybe they won't, but at least you communicated and tried to find a compromise.

I'm not sure what your wife's size has to do with anything, but if your attitude is that you're doing her some kind of favor by pleasing her because she has more curves, I'm afraid you have far bigger issues to address than figuring out how to make your ass more attractive to her. And if her size is a problem for you deep down, it's likely that she's picking up on any lack of acceptance of her body that you may have, which could very well affect her willingness to please you.

 

[nickncat]

I will have to try your suggestions. As far as her size it is a turn on for me actually. I love her curves. Makes for one sexy woman.

 

[RAddams]

Long latex gloves that reach to the elbow.

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