Need help!

[Guest]

Hello everyone.

I need some good and solid advise.

I'm a 31 yr old male with a an average cock (6 inches). The thing is, I'm a quick shot and I hate myself for it. So here is my question. Does anyone knows of a good, solid, and workable technique that could help me deal with this demoralizing issue?

My fiancee is very understanding with this issue - I assumed most women are - she enjoys what i do give her, but she happens to be one of those ladies who loves a long lasting, hard pounding fucking.

My first wife left me for another guy because I wasn't, as she put it, a stud. Actually, she said I am like an attractive piece of jewelry, beautiful to look at, and very desirable, but once had; I'm to hallow to be wanted - refering to my cocksmanship.

This is a very sensitive issue for me. Please reply if you only have something constructive to say. If you are one of those who take pleasure in other people's pain, don't reply!. My self-esteem is low enough.

To date, I have tried several things and none have worked. I tried creams, coming before sex, viagra; I've even used a penis pump, and nothing.

Please, please, please help me if you can.

Thank you, one and all.

 

[Guest]

Try Prozac or Zoloft...it works. Many of these medications can have sexual side effects. Occasionally (and unfortunately) they can sometimes cause trouble in achieving erections. For men who have a strong libido (desire), many times these meds will simply prolong the time to ejaculation.

 

[KnightWing]

Mind over ...

Sorry to hear of your problem. I was a quick shot in my younger years also. However I have since learned that if I take the mental stimulation away from the situation at hand, it takes longer to fire. Sometimes you can get yourself so worked up just thinking about having sex, that the moment you get there it's over. Not as much fun for either partner.

Hope this helps. Not professional in this field, just love to have sex and enjoy it.