need help with this one...

[Cumaddict]

I was dating this girl and we got serious and i told her about my sexual past with guys. I have only have done oral sex with guys, nothing anally. She was okay with it. Well long story short we broke up a while back and now I want her back I know she loves me but doesn't trust that i'm not gay. She thinks i will not be happy with her, and i know i will be. I explained it best as i could...

"Its just a sexual urge of mine, i like it every now and then, but if i was with someone man or female, i wouldn't because that still would be cheating."

she said "well i just think you aren't sure... blah blah blah"


what do i do?

 

[iluvyou3638]

I was dating this girl and we got serious and i told her about my sexual past with guys. I have only have done oral sex with guys, nothing anally. She was okay with it. Well long story short we broke up a while back and now I want her back I know she loves me but doesn't trust that i'm not gay. She thinks i will not be happy with her, and i know i will be. I explained it best as i could...

"Its just a sexual urge of mine, i like it every now and then, but if i was with someone man or female, i wouldn't because that still would be cheating."

she said "well i just think you aren't sure... blah blah blah"


what do i do?

fucking stupid.

eat her out.

 

[Cumaddict]

fucking stupid.

eat her out.

oh the sex is great, trust me... i'm 26 she's 33 the sexual drives match fuckin perfectly

 

[Chicklet]

There's a possibility that she's just using that as an excuse to avoid giving you the real reason she broke up with you, which could possibly be that she doesn't KNOW why she doesn't like you that way, but she just doesn't.

Don't waste time and energy trying to win someone back that doesn't want you.














(much easier said than done)

 

[Cumaddict]

There's a possibility that she's just using that as an excuse to avoid giving you the real reason she broke up with you, which could possibly be that she doesn't KNOW why she doesn't like you that way, but she just doesn't.

Don't waste time and energy trying to win someone back that doesn't want you.


much easier said than done)

oh i know EXACTLY why we broke up, i lied, i'll admit it. I have apologized and everything and we are still VERY good friends. If she felt she could trust me she has said, I quote "if i could trust you i would be wondering where my ring is... because it doesn't get better than us"

 

[Bicuriousone]

oh i know EXACTLY why we broke up, i lied, i'll admit it. I have apologized and everything and we are still VERY good friends. If she felt she could trust me she has said, I quote "if i could trust you i would be wondering where my ring is... because it doesn't get better than us"

What did you lie about? Did you cut out on her or something like that?

 

[limplizzard]

Some women hate a lier more than the plague, I lost a wife for telling a lie. They never forget.

 

[Aronkim]

Sorry dude...

I think it's over. And if I can say this without being an ass, I think it should be over. It's awesome that you guys can be friends and all (All my exs would pay good money for a chance to hunt me at night with infrared scoped rifles) but you have to let go of that love relationship and move on. Be happy that you can still have her in your life.

Which....might also present a problem if you are going to move on and find another someone. What if you meet a nice man? Won't it get weird when you introduce them and she gives you the "I knew it!" face. I hate I-knew-it-face. It's like heat vision.

From what I have seen during my short time here, there are many womne in the world who would not be fazed by your sexual history. I guess the next time you date a woman you'll be upfront and tell her you're bi. Right?