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Over the years, my wife has indulged my desire to have strap-on sex. She's not exactly "into it," in that she never initiates it, or gets a huge turn-on from it... but she does it willingly and says she enjoys seeing the pleasure I get from it, so no complaints on that front.
However, while she can see the physical pleasure I get when she's giving me a good fuck, she does not understand my desire to suck her strap-on. That's the one aspect that will turn her off and kill the mood, so-to-speak. I have only done it a couple of times, and while it hasn't stopped the sex on a dime, I can tell it bothers her. She's said she just doesn't get how I could get turned on sucking on a piece of rubber (she gets having the prostate stimulation and the "feeling full" aspect of having it in my ass).
I've tried to explain to her the oral sensation can be just as (or more) erotic than the anal, and that I love to feel "her cock" at the back of my throat just like I enjoy feeling my cock in her mouth, but that hasn't really made much difference. On the other hand, she is more than willing to blow me, so I know it's not just an "oral" thing.
I've read many posts here about women who get a big turn on from watching men go down on their strap-on, and many from men who enjoy doing it. I enjoy sucking our dildos, and have done it many times on my own, but would get a much bigger thrill if it was attached to my wife and she was encouraging me.
Anyway... a few years ago, when I was trying to get her to understand how lots of men enjoy strap-on sex, I actually used some quotes from this board (anonymously) so she could hear how good it was straight from other sources, in their own words. That helped her understand from a different perspective than just the two of us.
So if you guys would be so kind, I would really appreciate it if you could respond to this post, and tell me why you, as a man, get off on sucking a strap-on, and why you, as a woman, like having your man go down on your rubber cock. Then I can let her read it, and I hope she will see why I want to, and will be less hesitant about it in the future.
Many thanks!
However, while she can see the physical pleasure I get when she's giving me a good fuck, she does not understand my desire to suck her strap-on. That's the one aspect that will turn her off and kill the mood, so-to-speak. I have only done it a couple of times, and while it hasn't stopped the sex on a dime, I can tell it bothers her. She's said she just doesn't get how I could get turned on sucking on a piece of rubber (she gets having the prostate stimulation and the "feeling full" aspect of having it in my ass).
I've tried to explain to her the oral sensation can be just as (or more) erotic than the anal, and that I love to feel "her cock" at the back of my throat just like I enjoy feeling my cock in her mouth, but that hasn't really made much difference. On the other hand, she is more than willing to blow me, so I know it's not just an "oral" thing.
I've read many posts here about women who get a big turn on from watching men go down on their strap-on, and many from men who enjoy doing it. I enjoy sucking our dildos, and have done it many times on my own, but would get a much bigger thrill if it was attached to my wife and she was encouraging me.
Anyway... a few years ago, when I was trying to get her to understand how lots of men enjoy strap-on sex, I actually used some quotes from this board (anonymously) so she could hear how good it was straight from other sources, in their own words. That helped her understand from a different perspective than just the two of us.
So if you guys would be so kind, I would really appreciate it if you could respond to this post, and tell me why you, as a man, get off on sucking a strap-on, and why you, as a woman, like having your man go down on your rubber cock. Then I can let her read it, and I hope she will see why I want to, and will be less hesitant about it in the future.
Many thanks!
