Need advise

[richgo50]

I love to crossdress and am seriously thinking about getting together with another crossdresser, hopefully. My problem is once I cum I am done. Take the clothes off and any desire for more sex or even touching is completely gone. How do I overcome this? I do not want a blow and go. How do I keep going once I have shot my load?
Any comments and advise is greatly appreciated.

 

[KingDavid234]

My suggestion is that you hold off in cumming until you have played as long as you want and until after you have made your partner cum. Save your orgasm until the very end.

 

[Aleisterwolfe]

I’m a very new cross dresser but I’d say work on embracing that part of yourself. It’s not just about getting off, it’s part of who you are.

 

[richgo50]

My suggestion is that you hold off in cumming until you have played as long as you want and until after you have made your partner cum. Save your orgasm until the very end.

That is definitely what I had planned to do everything for him first and then me .

 

[Lemmetri]

It's not unusual to lose the urge after you cum. There are other threads about this same issue. Here are a couple unscientific questions. Do you continue to masturbate after you cum? With a woman do you roll over and go to sleep after you cum?

 

[richgo50]

It's not unusual to lose the urge after you cum. There are other threads about this same issue. Here are a couple unscientific questions. Do you continue to masturbate after you cum? With a woman do you roll over and go to sleep after you cum?

I don't masturbate after I cum, I am essentially done. I don't go to sleep after sex with my wife we are just done, no cuddling or kissing she is not into that.
I think for me it is the testosterone is super low after I cum. I can feel it build up over the next few days and I am ready to go again. I am 75 years old so the re-boot takes a while.

 

[Lemmetri]

I don't masturbate after I cum, I am essentially done. I don't go to sleep after sex with my wife we are just done, no cuddling or kissing she is not into that.
I think for me it is the testosterone is super low after I cum. I can feel it build up over the next few days and I am ready to go again. I am 75 years old so the re-boot takes a while.

So it's not different. My advice is don't stress about it. Have fun. Try to work around the issue but chalk it up to being normal guy.

 

[cubbyfire04]

I love to crossdress and am seriously thinking about getting together with another crossdresser, hopefully. My problem is once I cum I am done. Take the clothes off and any desire for more sex or even touching is completely gone. How do I overcome this? I do not want a blow and go. How do I keep going once I have shot my load?
Any comments and advise is greatly appreciated.

Don't overthink it... I always find the post-nut clarity is far more pronounced when I'm alone. Having a partner keeps me more present in the entirety of the situation. Even if I lose desire, it seems to be a fleeting feeling and will pass rather quickly if I just keep moving forward in that slightly uncomfortable mindset. Enthusiasm may wane momentarily, and your partner may even notice. Address it with kindness and honesty, and stay as engaged as your body will allow. You'll be back in action far sooner than you think.

 

[BriannaHope]

I love to crossdress and am seriously thinking about getting together with another crossdresser, hopefully. My problem is once I cum I am done. Take the clothes off and any desire for more sex or even touching is completely gone. How do I overcome this? I do not want a blow and go. How do I keep going once I have shot my load?
Any comments and advise is greatly appreciated.

If you're a bottom and offer yourself for anal sex you won't be disappointed, an anal orgasm just keeps going and going, long after you've drained the main. A hard penis sliding across your prostate just keeps you squirming and shaking until he or she is done