Need advise

[richgo50]

I love to crossdress and am seriously thinking about getting together with another crossdresser, hopefully. My problem is once I cum I am done. Take the clothes off and any desire for more sex or even touching is completely gone. How do I overcome this? I do not want a blow and go. How do I keep going once I have shot my load?
Any comments and advise is greatly appreciated.

 

[KingDavid234]

My suggestion is that you hold off in cumming until you have played as long as you want and until after you have made your partner cum. Save your orgasm until the very end.

 

[Aleisterwolfe]

I’m a very new cross dresser but I’d say work on embracing that part of yourself. It’s not just about getting off, it’s part of who you are.

 

[richgo50]

My suggestion is that you hold off in cumming until you have played as long as you want and until after you have made your partner cum. Save your orgasm until the very end.

That is definitely what I had planned to do everything for him first and then me .

 

[Lemmetri]

It's not unusual to lose the urge after you cum. There are other threads about this same issue. Here are a couple unscientific questions. Do you continue to masturbate after you cum? With a woman do you roll over and go to sleep after you cum?

 

[richgo50]

It's not unusual to lose the urge after you cum. There are other threads about this same issue. Here are a couple unscientific questions. Do you continue to masturbate after you cum? With a woman do you roll over and go to sleep after you cum?

I don't masturbate after I cum, I am essentially done. I don't go to sleep after sex with my wife we are just done, no cuddling or kissing she is not into that.
I think for me it is the testosterone is super low after I cum. I can feel it build up over the next few days and I am ready to go again. I am 75 years old so the re-boot takes a while.

 

[Lemmetri]

I don't masturbate after I cum, I am essentially done. I don't go to sleep after sex with my wife we are just done, no cuddling or kissing she is not into that.
I think for me it is the testosterone is super low after I cum. I can feel it build up over the next few days and I am ready to go again. I am 75 years old so the re-boot takes a while.

So it's not different. My advice is don't stress about it. Have fun. Try to work around the issue but chalk it up to being normal guy.