Need advice on a threesome

[xboxsets]

Threesome fun.



We are in our mid thirties and over the years I have on occasion asked by wife if she would be interested in having some threesome fun. She has always given me that look you know the one that says don’t go there, but being a man I have kept asking her. The other day whilst making love I told her I would like to watch her sucking somebody else off and watch her being fucked, and then take turns using and enjoying her all night.



It was at this point she asked me why I would like to watch her being fucked by somebody else. so i tried to explain to her how much i love it when we go out and my wife and she is dressed up, I watch as she gets attention from other men and sometimes women,

It excites me to watch. When we have posted photos of my wife on sites, I love to know that other people are looking at her body and sometimes they will be getting just as excited as me.
So I told her that I fantasies about it all the time about watching and sharing her with an other man.


So now again she wanted to know why, i have told that most men will think about it but just not admit it the question I ask is, is it just me or do most men fantasies about sharing their wives and girlfriend with other.

I have thought long and hard about this, and yes I can handle watching my wife and not be jealous about it, its all about the enjoyment of the sexual act, I want her to enjoy herself and have multiple orgasms i would be naive thinking she is not going to enjoy the other cock. I would like us both to enjoy a night to remember of full on hard sex.

She hasn’t said yes and she hasn’t said no, but she did ask who I had in mind and where would we find someone. So can anybody help us out thanks.

 

[northwestenmale]

Ask her what her fantasies are. Find out what she wants, and you might be able to come to some compimise. Most couples can't do threesomes, and it results in pang of jealousy. Not only must you have the right couple, but you need the right person too.

Just a few thoughts...

 

[vanoss]

A couple of things you want to consider here if you want the best a threesome has to offer. My wife and I stumbled into it by chance. We had a lot to drink and her friend started making comments how sexy she looked. A woman loves to feel sexy and needs to be made to feel sexy...not slutty.

If you both have an idea that you may want a third person to enjoy sex with talk to her about it in a manner that doesn't suggest she is a gutter slut. Let her know that her beauty drives you to the point of complete subnission...in others words her wish is your command.

Start out easy. Not the way we did...that caused a little grief until we talked more about it. Go somewhere no one knows you or her and some place reputable...not a saloon. Perhaps talk to her about an innocent flash like leaning over to expose her beautiful breast and notice the reaction from her prey. Or maybe a skirt with a slight parting of her legs...not too much and just long enough to make eye contact with her victum. You will find that when she feels like she has the upper hand and control she may become more acceptable of your desires.

Don't assume she wants a guy with a big dick. In time...maybe but for the first time select someone that is average. Go with her to buy some sexy clothing and underthings. Again..she wants to feel sexy. When you meet..don't meet at a hotel room. Go some place night...dim lights and have a few drinks to loosen up. Let her flirt and don't make comments like "show him your big tits" or "are you getting wet yet". These are stupid and will make her feel like your sex object instead of your wife.

She will give you signs that she is ready but you need to take the lead to excuse to the hotel room or wherever you decide. Encourage her and assure her you are there and you love her and that you are turned on by her sexiness. When she feels sexy she will want to flaunt it and she becomes aroused by the event you have all assembled for. If she is comfortable and you are assuring her the sex will be great.

My wife and I have had a few threesomes, two with her friend and a couple with guys we met on Craigslist (casual encounters). I always insist they treat her like a lady even when sex gets down right dirty. When they cum in her mouth I expect them to be gentlemen when it is over. Trust me there is enough raw sex somewhere in the middle usually initiated by my wife. How you make her feel and look at her after a threesome will determine how your relationship evolves. Make sure you treat her like she is still very sexy and make you touch gentle and let her see in your eyes that you still adore her.

That's what works for us. See the thread below...married 21 years now.


http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=692180

 

[Sweet_Carolina]

it would be better if you consider her fantasies, ask her about what she wants what are her fantasies and act accordingly

 

[seemoreme]

If want to involve the third person to enjoy sex with talk to her about it.

 

[dave110256]

finally!

My only advice would be to keep talking about it and don't force the issue. We finally had our first MFM last week after talking about it for 6 years.
My wife has always been interested in doing it and now she says the reason it never happened was she was afraid of what my reaction would be (after)....
I absolutely loved it and think I may have created a monster. She already wants to do it again. We've talked about it a lot and what we enjoyed about it. I can't wait to do it again and know she'll make it happen soon.
We were fortunate that a little flirting turned into reality.