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vargas111

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I am writing as story that is intended to be an over-the-top advice column from in somethimg like "Redbook" about how a wafe can become a "hot wife." I want to use a woman's voice as the advice giver and wish to run it by someone who will give me pre-post comments.

I most would like comments from women, but I would be grateful whoever wished to respond.

Thanks

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GUIDELINES FOR HOT WIVES
By Evangelina Vargas
vargas111@yahoo.com

OK, you have heard about "hot wives." It sounds sexy but a little scary, too. You have lots of questions and uncertainties and wrote to my brother, Homer Vargas for advice. Well, he has asked me to reply because this is something better handled between us girls. “Been there done that.”

Probably your first question is "Why should I become a ‘hotwife?’” There are many reasons but the most important one is, love. You have a husband whom you love more than anything in the world. You want to please him, to make him happy. You think that he might like a hotwife, but maybe you are not sure that's what he wants you to be. What if he thinks you are a slut? Put that out of your mind, sweetie. Take it from me; if your husband is a heterosexual male, he wants a hotwife. If he is not heterosexual (or is a little underpowered sexually), there may be other reasons for you to become a hot wife, but I will not deal with those here. Men want hotwives; therefore you want to become the woman he wants.

Besides wanting to please your man, it's also a matter of elementary justice. Your husband deserves a hotwife. He has made a commitment to you. He loves you above all other women. He has promised to be faithful to you, giving up pussy from all those other little hotties he was fucking before he met you. You owe him at least the sexual satisfaction he could be getting from those other women if he were still "on the loose."

In addition, being a hotwife should be a mater of personal fulfillment. You are a woman and you want to be the best, the sexiest, the most feminine woman possible. Becoming a hotwife -- an ever hotter hotwife -- will give meaning and purpose to your life, releasing you from self centeredness and ennui.

Then, too, being a hotwife is a very healthy lifestyle. To become and remain a hotwife, you will have to exercise daily, watch what you eat, maintain your body in top form. Dieting and physical fitness will not seem like a chore when you keep in mind that you are honing your body for your adored husband's sexual gratification. You are a "sex object" and proud of being a damn good one, a sex object d’art!

Moreover, being a hot wife is to your material advantage. You want the good things of life: a nice house, fancy clothes, travel, and fine food. So how does being a hotwife get you these things? Simple, honey. To acquire the material possessions you want, you need a financially successful husband. And nothing contributes to a man's success more than having a hotwife.

For one thing, a hotwife at home does wonders for a man's self confidence. After a night with you, he walks into that boardroom or law office or shop floor and looks around knowing that no other man in that room has a wife as hot as his! No one else, only a few hours ago, had a woman riding his cock, screaming his name in ecstasy as she orgasmed over and over, begging him to fuck her longer, harder. A man with a couple of good early-morning fucks like that under his belt can kick ass and get other men to see things his way.

But in addition to his self confidence, the reputation of having a hotwife will give him a leg up in any encounter with other men. Remember, men are competitive, always measuring themselves against other men. When his rivals and co-workers know your husband has a hotwife, it gives him prestige and allows him to get his way. He'll be the one chosen for the highest bonus, the promotion, the challenging assignment that leads to advancement. And of every dollar he earns, 75% to 80% will be spent on YOU, his loving hotwife.

There is another reason as well that must be mentioned, girls, even thought it's not too pleasant. You need to be a hotwife in self defense. Knowledge that your man is married immediately makes him a much more attractive target for other women. For some women, knowing he is able to make a commitment causes their claws to grow. Tired of boyfriends who screw them for months or years only to slip from their clutches, these women may figure here is a man that has proven catchable. For others, it's just the opposite. They know he is tied down and not likely to get serious when all a girl wants is sex. And marriage indicates that at least one other woman (you) has found him satisfactory in the sex department.

Still other women seek out married men because they know that married men are likely to be sexually unsatisfied. Sad to say, most women (you are going to be a glorious exception) cut back on the frequency and nastiness of sex once they have "landed" a guy, leaving the poor schmuck flopping around in frustration like a fish out of water.

Finally, and this is paradoxical, the very success that your husband achieves thinks to your being his hotwife, makes him a more desirable prey. There are hundreds of sexy, slutty women out wanting to take your husband from you and you have to be sexier and sluttier than they are to keep him!

Now that you understand the reasons to become a hotwife, the important question of “how” looms. First, and this is almost too elementary for me to have to mention but many women miss this point: SEX. Yes! You will want to make love, have sex, fuck, screw, boff, shag, get it on, "do it" with your husband every time he can get it hard. Any woman can out-fuck any number of men so there is no reason for your husband ever to be horny if your pussy is around. The key to a happy, successful, faithful husband is enough sex to keep his eyes crossed.

Almost more important than the frequency and nastiness (we'll get to that later) of sex is to make sure he understands that you want sex it because HE is a macho sexy Neanderthal stud. You are not doing him a favor (although you are!). These are not just frequent mercy fucks. You are fucking him because he turns you on. He makes you hot. He makes you want sex. He makes you NEED sex! With such a man, you are a sex slave to his cock!

Now let's talk about what kind of sex to have with your husband or rather what kind not to have. It will NOT be in the bedroom, missionary position, lights out, "think of England" while he empties his balls in you. No! You are so horny for your husband that you will want him to take you on the living room (shag <g>) rug, on the dining table, bending over in the kitchen, draped over the back of the sofa in the family room, in the shower. You have an almost irresistible desire to give oral sex (you swallow greedily) and a totally irresistible desire to receive oral sex. You are multi-orgasmic, or will fake it until you train yourself to become so. You are a moaner and a groaner and a screamer. You claw his back in ecstasy. You like it doggie style, riding his cock, legs bent behind you head or heels (6” stilettos) in the air. He can call you every filthy name in the book if it gets you a harder cock and a more cum pumped into your needy pussy. You put every porn movie he’s ever seen to shame.

Because you want to fuck your husband so desperately all the time, you will do whatever it takes to excite him, to entice him, to make him want to fuck you. This means taking the initiative, seducing him! You will want to have a collection of sexy nightwear and scandalous casual wear for around the house that signal your constant horniness. Seldom is total nudity best. Always keep on a necklace, bracelets, and your heels during sex. Cleanliness is good and perfume is great, but never wash off the womanly scent of an aroused pussy.

Of course you do not stop being a hotwife when your hubby he is off making money for you to spend. A true hotwife would not be able to go through a long day without her man if she did not have toys to keep her sane. Dildos and vibrators will keep you simmering and ready for his return. Masturbation is also important to help you become or remain multi-orgasmic. And of course he likes to know that while he is away, you are missing him so badly you need a large cylindrical object up your twat.

Now the next point is not for everyone and not absolutely necessary to be a hotwife, but many hotwives are strongly bi. Girl/girl sex is a great way to pass the time when hubby is away but it’s also a great way to find women to bring to your bed for a threesome. I have found nothing turns my husband on faster than seeing another little honey and me going at it fast and furious (and it makes him more grateful to me for finding her).

So far we have discussed what you need to do in private. Being a hotwife, however, is as much or more about how you behave in public as it is about what you do when you are alone with your husband (or with him and one or two other women). If there is one golden rule of hotwife public behavior it is: DRESS THE PART. When you go out, remember you are NOT dressing for yourself. You are no longer dressing for other women as most women are prone to do. You are not even dressing just for your husband. You are dressing to show off for and tease your husband's friends and rivals. You are dressing to attract and please other men.

Dressing to please and attract other men takes more time and work but take it from me, it will pay off tremendously in amount of attention you receive and how it affects your own "hotwife attitude". You should always keep in mind what the men you are trying to attract will probably like but in general follow this simple rule when choosing what to wear: "Think dress first, skirt second, and pants only as a last resort." This will be a radical change for many women but it's important to remember that most men prefer their women in dresses as opposed to pants. Dresses and skirts are sexier to most men and they provide easier access in erotic situations. You never know when you will have the opportunity to attract that certain man and you need to be dressed for the opportunity when it comes. The good news is that the hotwife lifestyle will probably make you feel like dressing up more and the more you wear dresses and skirts, the more you will find yourself wanting to.

Now I can already hear the objections. “Oh, Evangelina, I could never wear clothes like that. I’m too – fill in the blank – short/tall/round/thin/dark/light. Nonsense. The point is not to have women (skinny supermodels) make clothes look sexy; rather it’s to have clothes to make women (of all sizes and shapes) look sexy. Believe me, girlfriend, any woman looks good in a miniskirt and a top that shows some boobs.

What you wear under your dress or skirt is as important as the outfit itself. All men love women in sexy lingerie. The colors and styles you may want wear will vary but in general, here are some suggestions and rules to follow:
1. Always wear matching or at least coordinated lingerie.
2. Choose thongs or French cut panties (crotchless) are best. Avoid white cotton unless you are going for the “Catholic Schoolgirl” look. If you are with men who know you, no panties is the best option.
3. Always wear hosiery. High tops and thigh highs are great for casual wear but stocking held up by corsets or garter belt are best for formal occasion. No pantyhose. If you are like me, you probably have worn pantyhose your whole life, but they are death to your image as a hotwife. It is practically impossible get fuck on short notice if you are wearing pantyhose. Men understand this and detest them. Pantyhose say "I'm off limits" - not the message you want to send. Besides, it's pretty difficult even to finger your self or let a man finger you, in the damned things. End of sermon. Stockings, however, will make you feel far sexier and more feminine and they provide your lover an easier access as well as a sexier sight. Once you get used to wearing them, you will probably have no trouble giving up pantyhose. Seamed stockings are the ultimate for attracting men. You will always get a lot of attention in clubs if you wear them and if you dare to wear them in public in the daytime, men will drool.

The only shoes you should ever wear in public are high heels. This will take some getting used to as well but men love them. Three-four inches are fine for casual entertaining, but try for four-five inches for nights out. Anklets are a good sign in clubs that you are a willing hot wife looking to attract men.

Jewelry is a must! It should be flashy, designed to attract the attention you deserve. Earrings should be large. Necklaces should draw all eyes to your cleavage. Always wear your wedding ring. Men love to think the might be getting a shot at another man's wife! Bracelet’s and anklets show you are a happy member of your husband’s harem.

Being a hotwife is more than just looks, it’s how you act.

1. In a situation where you are trying to catch a man’s eye; make sure to make plenty of eye contact with him and smile.
2. Show lots of leg. Cross and uncross your legs and bounce the top leg on the lower one, perhaps pointing the toe of your shoe. If you find that you are very attracted to him, eventually let the skirt ride high enough so that he can see that you are wearing stockings and garters. In clubs a woman wearing stockings and garters is taken as a sign that she is there to get fucked. And of course you are – by your husband that night – but no one but you and he know that.
3. Apply and reapply lipstick. The men want to see signs that you can't wait to suck a cock and lipstick is a great way to send that signal.
4. Never miss the opportunity to drop something and bend over – from the waist, never bend your knees. (That’s what those expensive sessions in the gym are for.)
5. Touch and smile.
6. When dancing (probably the closest you can get to having sex in public), move your husband’s hands to your ass and press close to him during slow dances. If you can feel his cock, he can feel your tits. Don’t be shy about letting everyone see you come on his finger. With other guys, let them handle the merchandise knowing what they can’t have it. Fast dances give you the opportunity to whirl and twirl and flash your panties or your bare cunt.
7. If a man puts his hand up your dress; whisper in his ear and ask if him if he would like you to remove your panties.
8. If he compliments your dress; tell him you wore it hoping to meet a man like him.
9. Never miss an opportunity to tell him how sexy he is and how sexy and feminine he makes you feel.
10. However much you flirt with other guys, hang on your husband. Rub up against him. Nibble his ear. Gaze at him adoringly. Demonstrate to onlookers how eager you are for him to fuck you.
11. Do not hesitate to sneak off with your husband to do the dirty during a public event. Sex in public will probably not help his career, but for a man to be seen dragged away by a hotwife who can’t endure another minute without his cock in her is a real plus.
12. When you depart a social event, make sure everyone knows it’s because you are horny and need your husband to take you home and fuck your little brains out before you rape some poor guy.

All of the above are fundamental to being a hotwife, but there is one thing that tops it all. Pregnancy! If knowing he has a hot wife at home is good for a guy’s ego (and earning potential) how much more is knowing he got his hotwife pregnant! By the same token, if other men are envious knowing your husband is fucking the shit out of his little hottie, they’ll become comatose when they find out you let him knock you up. And all those sexy things you wear – skirts, heels, stocking -- and the sexy things you do – dancing, teasing, flashing -- are twice as exciting when done by a woman with a bulging belly.

There are ways to rub it in, however. Start wearing maternity clothes – outrageously sexy, revealing maternity clothes – as soon as the rabbit dies. Hint to your friends that you had intended to wait longer before getting pregnant, but <giggle> your sexy husband got you so wound up you had an “accident.” Now of course you are so glad he did. Always say “this baby” or refer to it by number, implying that this is just the most recent offspring; your husband may be planning to keep you in maternity clothes until you are 60. Hold, pat and rub your belly at every opportunity. Cultivate a dopey, fucked-out-of-it expression. Tell the wives of your husband’s friends how your libido has just gone through the roof. It will get back to their men who will want to shoot themselves in frustration. None will be able to look your husband in the eye.

A final word on age. You are never too old to become a hot wife. It’s even more important, in fact, if you have taken a younger man as your husband. Although your dresses may not be quite as short now as when you were in Jr. High, the fact that a woman of thirty five or forty or fifty is still hot is itself hotter than any twenty year old in full slutwear.

And this goes in spades if you are pregnant. Imagine your gray-at-the-temples husband in the middle of a multimillion dollar negotiation when he says, “Can we roll this up pretty soon, TJ? My wife’s about to pop with our seventh kid and I need to give her a send-off fuck!”

Happy hotwifing,


Evangelina

The end
Comments please to
Homer Vargas.
 
vargas111 said:
And of every dollar he earns, 75% to 80% will be spent on YOU, his loving hotwife.


Ok... you lost me right there because I make more than my husband, lol!!!

:kiss: :kiss: es, CA
 
This "advice" is addressed to a stereotypical "little woman."

Interesting point, though. Being smart and earning lots ofmoney is aslo hot. I drool over JK Rowlings. Plus she pregnant AGAIN!

In the context of the story, "become a highly paid prefessional" is not nearly as easy to advise as, "wear a mini-skirt." <g>

Thanks for the food for thought.

Homer
 
I read the first few paragraphs and found it very condescending.

I dunno, it just didn't strike me as the way I woman would go about convincing other women about something. It sounded a bit harsh and masculine in its hard hit approach and i felt instantly irritated by it.

Yes i love my husband and yes i am dedicated to his happiness but it doesn't make me ME being his wife. I think you need to start with the advantages for women and make the whole thing seem more informal and chatty.....well least thats hat wold work with this woman*L*
 
Thanks for writing.

In sum start with the advantages to the woman?

And be more chatty, informal

Can you expand on either of these?

Do you meant just re-order the paragraphs in the "reasons" startng with the health, material and fulfillments reasons?

How can I be more informal?

Cheers


Homler
 
OK, thanks for the two commens. I have benefitted from them. I could have used more, but I'm going to go with the story as revised today.
 
I have to say the lack of comments was a little disappointing.

I hope the story once it is posted will generate more. It ahs been very well received on eroticstories and storiesonline.

Cheers
 
sorry i didn't get back to you sooner...I hope the story goes down well :)

I did mean swop around the order and take up a more "chatty" style, kinda like you'd imagine two women gossiping together. something that formal would scare off many women and make others just giggle.....

Again i apologise for not getting back sooner.... :)
 
I have revised the story and re-submitted it. I hop it is better now. I guess this is one time Ihave to be glad about the delay in posting stories after they are submitted.

Thanks again.
 
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