Naive femme caught in a whirlwind--help?

[kitten77]

I find myself quite stuck these days.

 

[Metrodance]

A sexual obsession can make a grey day bright. There is an assumption here that your boss would be automatically interested in you? She may also be in a committed relationship and not interested in a wild and abandoned sexual encounter with an employee!
Sanity would suggest that it would not be wise for both of you considering the employment implications alone.

 

[sexy-girl]

fantasy is often better than reality (that sounds like something from a fortune cookie)

anyway it probably means that judging from your whirlwind feelings you're not thinking very rationally about this ... be careful and try to get grounded ... there's nothing wrong with having some fun and healthy fantasises but obsessions can be unhealthy

 

[Metrodance]

sexy girl, you said it so much better than I.

 

[WyldSpirit]

Kitten, I've never been in the exact position you are, in that it's never been a female boss that I've lusted after, it's three times been my male bosses. Only once have I dated one of them (at least while I was still working with them) and trust me, I soooo wish I'd stuck to the "no dating at work" rule. Look at it this way, she is really good fantasy for masturbation but it would be a huge mistake to try and take it any further than that. It sounds like you already knew that though. Hope venting helped.

 

[MintSoda]

I find myself quite stuck these days.

I'm the epitome of "girly girl," in a hetero marriage that's sexually/emotionally satisfying--honestly--and I've been infatuated with my butch boss for months now.

I swear--she's all I can think about. And, being the fabulous, politically correct manager that she is, I know she'd never dream of making a move, regardless of the undeniable attraction that's building up. (Hell, she spearheaded a sexual harassment case for me w/one of our slimy male coworkers.)

Anyway, she's significantly older than I am, but there's a definite sexual connection. She's the most attractive, intelligent, magnetic woman I've met, and I want to just totally give myself over to her.

I've only been in one long-term lesbian relationship--years ago--and it was lipstick all the way. I've never before been drawn to a butch type, but I'm infatuated.

I know I need to just get over her for the glaringly obvoius reasons (marriage, boss/employee relationship, etc.), but she's always in my thoughts. And not just sweet, lovey thoughts, either. I can't stop fantasizing about her and all the things she could show me. It's more of a sexual obsession, really.

I suppose I don't know what advice I'm looking for. Just some friends out there, maybe, since I would never feel comfortable telling this to anyone who actually knows me, considering my current relationship. This is such a new feeling for me, and I'd just love to know if anyone has found themselves in a similar situation.

Thanks to you all for giving me a place to spill everything.

Everything old was once new and everything new will eventually be old. That is absolutely true of sexual fantasies. If it is truly a simple infatuation, which is what it sounds like, you'll tire of it eventually. My recommendation would be to simply enjoy it.

I'm going to write you a little no guild prescription to be taken whenever necessary.

Fantasize -> Orgasm -> Repeat

Personally I never understood the butch attraction, and it sounds like you didn't either up until recently. Perhaps this is just the taboo of something you hadn't considered before.

 

[John Doe]

Tackle her in her office and hump her leg. If she sues you for sexual harassment, then you can be fairly sure she's not interested.

 

[Sue_in_TN]

How does the story end?

Hi! I'm new to Literotica so sorry if it's dumb to write in a Thread that's been quiet a long time but I'm wondering what happened?

I had an affair with my boss, other than the fact that she was the straight one it's kinda similar (she was way older, married, etc). The difference is that Kitten77 just called hers an "infatuation" and i was crazy in love. She ended it by leaving me voicemail telling me not to call her or write, etc (luckily, i had already moved on to another job). She used to tell me she loved me but obviously i stopped believing her that day.

I'm really sorry if this comes across as rude Kitten because i really don'[t mean it to be but do straight women have affairs with lesbians because they don't *count*? Like it's ok to flirt with them or sleep with them or let them fall in love with you because its not *really* cheating?

Like I said, she used to say she loved me,couldn't live without me, etc. but after the way it ended, I wonder if she was just bored and wanted some (safe) fun?