My wife's fears of gloryhole sex

[naughtoldperv]

My hot Asian MILF wife will get 'naughty' occasionally [mostly at my urging] and I'm an extremely horney old man, with 'large demanding horns' and am constantly dreaming up new fantasies that do occasionally get a little too much for her conservative Asian mentality.
My latest being the two of us going to a local adult book shop with gloryholes in a few booths with me watching her play and suck a few strange cocks to completion and it may encourage the 'bi' in me and I'll join in and even suck a cock and swap a few snowballs. She loves sucking and swallowing and we watch and get turned on by gloryhole videos.
My 'sales pitch' to her is that gloryhole sex is most probably the safest way to swing together and let strangers into our lives.

Her main concern is diseases that can be picked up in that setting and I would like to put that fear up for discussion so that I can either tell her no risk and not to worry or I'll just forget the idea. What is the consensus on the risks involved in sucking strange cocks??

Also I point out that the act of sucking strangers cocks thru a hole in a wall seems like the most discrete way to swing in the small community that we live in..

I feel that our gloryhole experience would/could spice up our relationship, which is in need of a little 'extra stimulus' at this point.

Any input appreciated................[especially on how to get her to play in the GH].
Thanks in advance..............

 

[MatthewVett]

Couldn't she just bring condoms? I doubt anyone's going to turn down an anonymous blowjob over a rubber.

 

[aace714]

Yeah unfortunately it should be covered . God forbid you catch something that you did from but a big old shanker lip would kind of suck too

 

[naughtoldperv]

Couldn't she just bring condoms? I doubt anyone's going to turn down an anonymous blowjob over a rubber.

'Raincoats' would be prudent, but they do remove the wetness, feelings and the taste that we all love. I'll consider it unless someone can provide some statistics on what the real risks are.

 

[tasteyourthighs]

Sounds hot..

But safety first. Enjoy the fun but be safe doing it.

 

[Jessie_Pinkman]

'Raincoats' would be prudent, but they do remove the wetness, feelings and the taste that we all love. I'll consider it unless someone can provide some statistics on what the real risks are.

http://www.ashasexualhealth.org/stdsstis/oral-sex-stis/

 

[tasteyourthighs]

Good!

Your wife sounds good and fun to be with . My girlfriend likes a cock to enjoy and has at times just picked a guy up in the restaurant when we eat out or at the lounge or the movies and stroke or suck him. We have at times brought them home to enjoy a lot of fun.


Your a lucky man if your wife likes to suck and you watch!


Lets PM if you would like.


J & K

Canada

 

[MatthewVett]

'Raincoats' would be prudent, but they do remove the wetness, feelings and the taste that we all love. I'll consider it unless someone can provide some statistics on what the real risks are.

Just from gut feeling, my guess is that glory hole users aren't significantly cleaner than the general population.

 

[Hans101]

Just from gut feeling, my guess is that glory hole users aren't significantly cleaner than the general population.

Probably about as "clean" as the anal orifice of the cell block bitch in a 3rd world prison.

 

[LauraWilling]

I have to go with almost everyone who responded to this. SAFETY FIRST! Use a condom. I know, I know, I hate them too, but I hate being sick or dying even more! Gloryholes are notorious for catching STD's

 

[BiTodd]

I would never stick my penis in a gloryhole that was infected.

 

[naughtoldperv]

http://www.ashasexualhealth.org/stdsstis/oral-sex-stis/

"The chances of giving or getting STIs during oral sex can be lowered by using a condom, dental dam or other barrier method each and every time a person has oral sex"


Thanks Jessie forraining on my parade and the sobering stats............ they cum as no surprise. It seems that it was my 'little head' that was doing the thinking and posting my OP. Or maybe some of the blame could be put on 'the thrill' of facing danger with strangers??
I do really love my hot wife for putting up with my kinks and wouldn't want to put her in danger of those terrible risks.............

Maybe I could revise my fantasy into just visiting a GH together and having her give me head and IF a cock does pop thru the hole she could just play with it and quickly slide a condom on if she wants to suck it and see it shoot and/or let the lucky guy shoot his load on her tits or face............no mention of that being a risk?

Or another idea would be to put an ad on CL screening the guys and stating that no condom/no mouth unless they could provide a fresh STD check up paper?

We did a 3some a couple of years ago with an airline captain and figured he would be safe, as they get regular check ups. It was a blast and the most exciting part for us was when my wife and I assumed the 69 position with me on bottom and he was fucking her as I licked her pussy, but unfortunately he didn't cum until later. I did get a snowball reward after she drained his balls into her mouth and we all had a great time. I've yet to clean up a creampie in her pussy, which would be the thrill if my life time.

Any other safe, but exciting ideas??

 

[Aluris]

Any other safe, but exciting ideas??

Such things can always be organised with people you trust, perhaps? Or at least are proven clean. Maybe find a swingers club, 'gloryhole nights' have been a theme from what I've seen in the past. If you both don't mind other people being involved in your sex life it can bring some great variety but in a more safe setting if you find the right group of people.

 

[klippert]

build one in your own home...entertain there

 

[BareBackRider2]

build one in your own home...entertain there

Actually that's a cool idea.

Build your own glory hole.

Rig up a camera on the same side as your wife.

Now YOU play the stranger as a roll play.

Maybe even do it when dunk so you memory of the event is hazy

Then in 3 to 6 months time, sit down and enjoy the video of your wife and the "stranger" at the glory hole

 

[lovecraft68]

I think glory holes are the ultimate example of in fantasy its hot for so many reasons, but the reality? You have to be crazy as a woman or a man to just suck a bunch of random dicks shoved through a hole in skeezy club.

The person who is getting their dick sucked should beware as well because some std's can be passed orally. Also there is that fear of...what gender is really sucking over there

Now to answer your question...as I have said here before about any "how can I get the wife or husband to do or get over..."

Look, you don't. If she wants to great, if she does not want to and has a reason then you should be a decent guy and back off.

Don't be an asshat and keep pounding away on her to do something she does not want to or is not comfortable with. That's a d-bag move.

Because I am feeling crappy this morning I'll add.....how about you show her its safe by doing it first?

Maybe that would convince her, what? you don't want to? Well maybe she should start a thread asking how she could make you do it....

 

[MyRubiLips]

My 'sales pitch' to her is that gloryhole sex is most probably the safest way to swing together and let strangers into our lives.

Only if you use protection. Even still, condoms are not 100% effective at preventing STDs. In a sense, strangers could be a greater risk than people you take time to get to know and trust.

Her main concern is diseases that can be picked up in that setting and I would like to put that fear up for discussion so that I can either tell her no risk and not to worry or I'll just forget the idea. What is the consensus on the risks involved in sucking strange cocks??

While it may be true that the risk is somewhat lower when one engages in oral sex, it is not "safe". No sex (including oral) is 100% safe.

 

[MyRubiLips]

I would never stick my penis in a gloryhole that was infected.

And how do you determine which ones are?

 

[naughtoldperv]

And how do you determine which ones are?

Previous to finding this great forum, my little head was thinking that she [or me] could just do the simple sniff test and look for any blisters or other abnormalities and go from there, but I now realize that is not the best plan.
Truth is that I've played around in the sleaziest bars in Asia and was attracted to the sleaziest girls and never picked up anything that antibiotics wouldn't clear [Knock on wood!] and I guess that I was just lucky, but now won't risk my wife's luck.
Another truth is that I hate raincoats and my cock just shrivels up the minute one is put on.

 

[larrycando]

One cannot taste a cock and cum without tasting cock and cum. If you can't find a buddy to do it with, run an ad on Craigslist, screen the guys, meet a few and take your chance. That is, if you want to taste cock and cum. If she wants to as well, include her in the screening process.

Not hard to do. You can be on the other side of this decision in two weeks, or less. I watched me do it.

 

[guitarguy42080]

One cannot taste a cock and cum without tasting cock and cum. If you can't find a buddy to do it with, run an ad on Craigslist, screen the guys, meet a few and take your chance. That is, if you want to taste cock and cum. If she wants to as well, include her in the screening process.

Not hard to do. You can be on the other side of this decision in two weeks, or less. I watched me do it.

I've tried the book store glory hole thing. Only once had a great time. It was with a female friend that wanted to try. I pounded her pussy while she sucked a cock through a glory hole. But usually it's old trolls. Lol

 

[naughtoldperv]

I've tried the book store glory hole thing. Only once had a great time. It was with a female friend that wanted to try. I pounded her pussy while she sucked a cock through a glory hole. But usually it's old trolls. Lol

What's wrong with "old trolls"?? as long as they are clean and have a stiff cock,,,,,,,,,,,,

 

[guitarguy42080]

What's wrong with "old trolls"?? as long as they are clean and have a stiff cock,,,,,,,,,,,,

Age isn't the issue. I agree. As long as they're clean and stiff I'm down. I'd rather be in a more comfortable setting than a porn booth with dried cum everywhere lol.