MY Wife

[Mike260]

My wife and I have been married for 17 years. She's a pretty brunette who can be simply wild in bed. She's smart and is a wicked adventurer when she wants to be.

I've been urging her to enjoy sex with other men for years. At the moment, she's titillated both by the thought of her and other men, and by the thought of the two of us and another man.

I can't promise that this will go anywhere at all. But if you want to risk the effort of a seductive email...you might experience a bit of what I've been getting for the past 20 years.

So, PM us.

 

[Purfect 9]

Seductive Email

I'd be really happy to help you with your wife but distance limits me to sendng seductive emails. Let me know if you want to receive some of the short stories I've written.
Purfect 9

 

[bogartjack]

unsolicited advice

Fix your marriage...don't farm out your wife.

Find some more respectable way to be decadent.

Jack

 

[Hippy_man99]

Fix your marriage...don't farm out your wife.

Find some more respectable way to be decadent.

Jack

Please don't impose your moral beliefs of what is "respectable" on someone who seems perfectly able to deal with it on his own...

doesn't sound to me like he's having marriage problems...just exploring his sexuality in a healthy consenting way...what wrong with that?

best of luck Mike260, wish i chould help, but its not within my realm....

cheers,

hippy

 

[TooMuchTime]

great Post

It can be a fun fantasy and even more fun to do.. but of luck and best of times to you both. It sounds like you have the trust and love of each other.

Sorry I am in TX.. lol

 

[justgottodallas]

North Dallas here, and have been looking for a bi-couple.

 

[whatageek]

My wife and I have started doing this recently. I just can't even express the excitement level...not only of being with "someone else" (and OMG was that exciting!)...but telling each other all about it! For me it's all about knowing that my wife is enjoying herself...whatever makes her feel good makes me feel good...and vice versa. We are having a blast with it (quite literally! LOL).

 

[bogartjack]

Please don't impose your moral beliefs of what is "respectable" on someone who seems perfectly able to deal with it on his own...

doesn't sound to me like he's having marriage problems...just exploring his sexuality in a healthy consenting way...what wrong with that?

If you don't know, I probably couldn't begin to tell you. But here's a hint: the key word above is "healthy".

Jack

 

[pisces21]

I noticed alot of married people doing this. Kinda exciting. Is it like a marriage saver or something new to try out. Always been curious about things like this. Any info or opinions are welcomed.

 

[Hippy_man99]

If you don't know, I probably couldn't begin to tell you. But here's a hint: the key word above is "healthy".

Jack

enriching his and his wife's personal sexuality isn't healthy?
i don't see it harming anyone

 

[whatageek]

No I wouldn't call it a "marriage saver"....not in my case anyway. There was nothing wrong with the marriage the way it was. We've been together long enough and have enough trust in each other to be comfortable with the other "exploring" with other people. After all, there will always be certain things that one wants to experience that the other just doesn't want to do. This give both of us that opportunity. It's been great for us.

 

[pisces21]

ahh ok. Well I hoe things work out for you guys. Its nice to see that people still trust each other enough to do things like this. Kudos to you guys!

 

[whatageek]

Oh it's been working out QUITE well so far! Of course it's a lot easier for her to meet people than it is for me....but so far I'm quite happy.

 

[manotick]

Love it

My wife and I have done this for years....started right after we got married when my best man and best friend enjoyed her pleasures while I watched. It was an incredibly erotic evening for both of us and we have continued on since. It is not for everyone and, I agree, not a marriage saviour, but it is sure as hell fun for those who have a great marriage and love to spice up their love life.

Been at it for 30 years and still going strong.

btw for those of you interested there is a very good forum that discusses the idea of men watching their wives enjoying themselves with other men.

http://www.adultcommunitiesonline.com/forums/hotwives/index.html

 

[Guttergoddess]

My guy and I "share" though we require that the other be present. Mostly cuz we both get excited by watching the other get pleasure. Too bad you're so far north, Mike, or I'd offer his services.

 

[angelsin]

If you don't know, I probably couldn't begin to tell you. But here's a hint: the key word above is "healthy".

Jack

has anyone ever wondered what the hell all these "moral" "healthy" people are doing in an adult site????? or is it just me who wonders just how "moral"and "healthy" they are in their closet????

 

[Ron Marsh]

Yeah forget these guys who want to judge

They have a right to their opinion. Another place that has a lot of info and ads is www.swinglifestyle.com. Can't hurt to read about it and look at some ads as a first step. Many people have been happily married and swinging for years. At the bottom of the home page are a couple of PDF file copies of a magazine that includes information from an MD, events, etiquette and stuff for beginners.

 

[angelsin]

folks I have just started a new thread on playground since it is a thread not a personal, PLEASE!!!!! come read and and most important POST!!!!!!

it is call Ok! who let the moral majority in!!

 

[Eilan]

Mike260, I remember you from a thread that you started on the HT Cafe a few months back. I wish you and your wife luck on your journey, no matter where it may lead.

I disagree with bogartjack. I've been of the receiving end of attacks by people of his ilk, and I feel that those who have nothing constructive to contribute to a thread should stick to those threads in which they're not "outraged" by the subject. There are lots of couples out there with healthy relationships who engage in swinging/threesomes/open relationships. In fact, the relationship had better be healthy, because this definitely isn't something that one does to save a dying relationship, not with any real success, anyway.

It's pointless to get into the "my-kink-is-superior-to-your-kink" on a site like this, particularly when there are people out there who would condemn all of us simply for being here. I consider myself an open-minded, kinky person, but that doesn't mean that I'm interested in trying everything I read about on Lit. But I'm generally not going to pass judgment on the things that I don't agree with. Generally.

However. . .

has anyone ever wondered what the hell all these "moral" "healthy" people are doing in an adult site????? or is it just me who wonders just how "moral"and "healthy" they are in their closet????

This is a "porn board" (and I hate to diminish Lit that way because there's a real sense of community on some of the other boards), but that doesn't necessarily mean that it's a free-for-all fuckfest. The vast majority of people who contribute to the boards tend to be open-minded about sex, even if they wouldn't engage in various activities/kinks themselves. I can't speak for others, but I don't have a problem with activities that are consensual and respectful of others.

Please, understand, though, that a lot of people have a difficult time condoning behaviors like, say, cheating as "just another kink," particularly when they've been on the receiving end of such behavior.

 

[angelsin]

Please, understand, though, that a lot of people have a difficult time condoning behaviors like, say, cheating as "just another kink," particularly when they've been on the receiving end of such behavior.


I can understan and well accept differant people having differant likes and dislikes, I don't like everything on lit, but I don't go in to those threads and tell them they are wrong for liking it, I simply move on, and I think they should too.

Such posts are simply saying I do not like this therefore no one should like it.

 

[pantie_fan]

I'd love to chat with you two ...

Hi there. I am in a similar situation. My wife has - at least in private - told me of her fantasies in this direction but we have never taken it further other than role-play-type fantasies. I'd love to exchange mail and ideas with you both ....

 

[jpp87-5]

I once had sex with a woman while her husband sat in a chair across the room and watched. It was an extremely erotic experience for all of us. My first wife and I were also into swinging. We later divorced for reason's totally unrelated to swinging and I must say that our times swinging were some of the most fun I have ever had in my life and the most fun we had together. It does take a special trust and love to enjoy such a lifestyle. I think if you are interested and trust each other you should at least give it a chance.

 

[about time]

Mike, I'm currently working on ways of bring the subject up with my wife. I would love to see her with another man.

Err, I think.

My only reservation is having the seen the movie "The Big Swap" i.e. five couples (long term pals) swap and everything is great until the jealousy starts, then it all ends in tears. The big part is to convince oneself that this "won't happen to me". Which is why I think I would like it to be with a stranger