For most of my marriage, I have fantasized about my wife getting fucked by someone else. Watching would be aplus--but not necessary. She knows of my desires, but to the best of mu knowledge, has not taken advantage of the opportunity I have obviously given her. There have been times--skinny dipping in our hot tub with a friend or friends--when I thought somethng would happen. Maybe it has and she chooses to keep it from me.